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You're not actually a better friend for not articulating and respecting your own needs, limits and boundaries. Your lack of communication and boundaries is not some impressive sacrifice. You're not doing anyone any favors by acting like you're okay with things you aren't okay with. You're just building burnout and resentment that will eventually damage the relationship in question. And when you eventually snap and walk away because you silently overburdened yourself to be a "good friend", it won't be the other persons fault

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my thing i haven’t made is so good 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

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me and gang on our way to bingo night idk

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more sprites <3

designs by @jaykatt

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not to sound like a weak, morally impure centrist over here, but i think online leftist communities need to be a little more accepting of the concept that most people are just. not that well informed. we live in a society that provides access to an overwhelming amount of information and yet which discourages actually diving into much beyond the surface level. Most of the people you meet out in the world are just not gonna know much about a lot of what you care about, but that's not the same as being against those things, or being unwilling to learn, or being unnamenable to those ideas. Our modern society is an unending cascade of information and misinformation and disinformation and filtering through that shit enough to actually have a solid grasp of a subject, let alone a nuanced antiestablishment political take, is a skill that takes time and effort to develop, time and effort that is in very short supply. It really bothers me when I see leftists talk about how capitalism keeps us down by taking up all our time and energy and making recovery, both physical and emotional, cost what little we can afford, and then turn around and get upset that people are politically uninformed. On some level, you gotta meet some people where they are, and have a little faith in them to be open to new ideas and information. Ignorance is not inherently intentional, and it's not the same as antipathy.

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me n the boys

designs by @jaykatt

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Does anyone know where I can get it together

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and another one ! (you’re probably sick of these at this point)

I WILL NEVER BE SICK OF THESE IM PUTTING YHEM IN MY MOUTH

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clawing at the walls of my enclosure while waiting for elias

THE GIRLIES

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i think i have. a problem

THE MEOW MEOW!!!! WET CAT OF A MAN!!!!!!!!!!

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i made a little ace today, gonna make their hat and jacket soon!

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SILLY GAY PEOPLE!!! and bennett :/

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My personal headcanon is that shiny espeon glows in the dark

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eeveelutions!

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Oh yeah I love the reborn rivals! Victoria, Cain, and uh *looks at smudged handwriting* Ferb.

[ID: a digital drawing of the reborn rivals side by side. To the left, Fern looks mischievous and has the word “cunt” in all caps above him, with four arrows pointing to him. Next to him his Cain, who has the words “overcompensating with jokes about his sexuality to disguise how awful he feels inside” above him. Victoria looks to the side grimly with her hands on her hips, with text above saying “wow everyone you love sure likes lying to you, huh?” End ID]