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the amounts of times i say this a day is concerning

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“Now is the time to be the person you always wished you were Now is the time to focus on yourself Now is the time to walk away from something that only hurts you Now is the time to bloom Now is the time to win”

— But ‘Now’ doesn’t last very long

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The first time he left me and came back, it was about learning how to forgive him for past mistakes.

The second time he left me and came back, it was about learning how to love him again despite the damage he had caused.

The third time he left me and came back, it was all about learning how to let him go and be happier with having him out of my life than having him in it.

- e.s. // the three lessons he has taught me.

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“She will miss you for a while- fill herself with nostalgia and wishing and wanting and hoping until it brims full over. She will walk to the top of a hill on a summer’s day and wish you were there. There will be moments where she can barely contain herself. There will be moments where she will only want your arms, and your laugh and your voice saying it’ll be okay. And in those moments she will feel as though her whole world was breaking apart and nothing would make it alright again. She will look for you in other eyes, green - or other mouths - or other bodies. But they’ll never quite be right. Because they’ll never quite be you. And then one day she will say to herself: “enough is enough”. And at first it’ll just be words. And she’ll still miss you. And she’ll still hurt. But - over time it’ll start to hurt less, until it stops hurting at all. And if, after all of that, you decide to walk back into her life - you ought to know that she won’t let you back in. And if you never come back - you ought to know that she won’t care.”

— Sue Zhao

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“heartbreak isn’t just missing someone. heartbreak is the feeling you get in your chest that makes you wanna rip out your heart to make your whole body stop hurting. It’s like someone is just putting stones on top of stones on your chest and all you can do is look at the sky and think I did this to myself.”

— I’m doing this all to myself - k.k (speakquotesx.tumblr.com)

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they say it takes 21 days to break a habit but it’s been 3 months and you’re still the first thing i think about when i wake and the last thing i think about before i sleep.

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I don’t understand how you could just leave. How you could give up everything we had, and decide it wasn’t what you wanted anymore. I don’t understand how you could hurt me like you did, when my only intention was to love you, to care for you, to be there for you through good and bad times. I would have done it all for you, because I wanted to be with you and to be happy with you. But I guess now I realise, I wasn’t it for you, and it hurts. It hurts so bad.

- because you were it for me

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“I went to bed for weeks at a time wondering whether you would wake up one day and regret not taking a chance on us and funnily enough it took seeing me happy in love with someone who isn’t you for you to realise you had lost me for good. So I offer my sincerest apologies for your loss but regret to inform you that it is too late now. It sure does hurt when you have so much love to give but it goes to waste, huh?”

— I healed in time and so will you.

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“She had galaxies in her eyes and her tears were falling stars, but you had no use for astronomy.”

- (C.B)

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“I promise to love you like I never heard my own heart shatter before.”

— This Time//Conee Berdera

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“you have this hole in your heart that you’re attempting to fill with another person but the thing you fail to realize is that you go for men who treat you the way you treat yourself and that’s why you end up so hurt. you abuse yourself and see yourself as less than. so naturally, you go for guys who treat you the same way as you treat yourself because that’s what you think you deserve. broken people attract more brokenness. that’s why when you see yourself as nothing, the creeps and bad guys are so attracted to you. because they’re bullies and insecure themselves and project it onto you because they know you’re vulnerable and hurting so that you’ll take it. and because youre a ‘martyr’ you accept this and you convince yourself that they need saving and worshiping and loving when really they deserve nothing to do with you. it’s not to say that you’re better than them, it’s simply just facts. you, and your heart, deserve better than scum. so remove them. that’s why when good people love you, you can’t accept it. because you don’t think you deserve it. all of these parts in you are fighting to take control. rage. sadness. grief. they’re all consuming you, and filling you so much that they kicked you out. you are not ‘self’. self is wholesomeness, love, kindness, and acceptance to yourself and your life. but all your pain and parts have removed it. and that’s why i’m here. im here to temporarily be your ‘self’ until you gain back control of it. and your problem is that you try and compensate for losing your ‘self’ by having a guy, a douchebag guy, become your ‘self’ and that’s why you hurt. only you can run yourself and be your ‘self’ and douche bag guys who convince you that you can make them whole don’t deserve you.”

— advice from my therapist that I cant stop thinking about

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Lowkey never want to give someone my heart again

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Don’t cheat on people, because the rest of their fucking life at 1am or when vodka fills their veins all they’re going to wonder is why the hell they weren’t enough for you and it will slowly tear them apart, and just because you aren’t there anymore doesn’t mean it isn’t your fault because every “I love you” that you ever said will echo in their god dammed head and no one deserves that.

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“I make no apologies for how I chose to repair what you broke.”

- Day 351

Meredith Grey

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“I like you, but I just don’t want a relationship right now”

Ladies, run for the hills. Indecision is a decision. If someone likes you, they’ll move mountains and cross seas to be with you, it’s as simple as that. If you have to question their affection constantly, pick up and go. No amount of empty words and long nights can make up for the fact that they don’t respect or like you enough to commit to you. The very fact that they’re taking advantage of relationship privileges says everything about the respect they have for you, and eventually the respect you have for yourself will wither, too. Sit back and look at your situation through a lense; an outsider. You’d scream at the girl on the other side to let go. You will find someone that wants these things with you, it just isn’t right now. Never compromise yourself at the expense of some boy who decided you weren’t enough, because you are, and someone else will find that in you. Once you realize the goddess you are and what you have to offer, you’ll never settle again. 

-a girl who found the strength to get up and never look back