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Therese Belivet and Carol Aird ♦️

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Carol & Therese, Carol (2015)

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The World to Come (2021)

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she loves coffee

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So, I made this bumbleby animatic, this is the post

music: McCafferty - Beachboy

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you need to give yourself permission to be happy now. not when you lost weight, not when you found your soulmate, not when you have more money. we seek excitement from future events, but once those goals are met, the temporary pleasures will pass and they will be replaced by the next fantasy. devote your full attention to your inner self and appreciate being in the moment. happiness is never external, but a way of living and appreciating life. it’s not reality, just the way you perceive it. so go and shift your focus from the outcome to watching yourself grow.

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“The fact that there is a BEGINNING and an END is just a concept seeded into your mind by society. YOU are Constant, Continuous, Infinite Energy and Energy never ends it TRANSFORMS.”

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Credit: @moderndaymanifestations

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i prayed for you on nights i didn’t even pray for myself

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So I have a friend who’s ex broke up with her but she begged & they started talking again. she recently just found out her ex had cheated on her throughout their entire relationship. The other woman’s friend told her everything. Her ex had moved on with the girl she cheated on her with but my friend cried “suicide” and shit & her ex felt guilty & asked her to come stay with her so she could help her through these episodes. Now she’s planning to move cross country with the ex. She’s being dumb

Be there for your friend.. but she’ll have to come to her own realization and acceptance of that relationship being over.

And the ex needs to realize it’s not her responsibility to make sure she’s ok…

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Stop dating while you’re healing.

Heal first, then date.

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Every single survivor is different to each other. Everyone responds to trauma in their own way.

Some will just flinch when you touch them, and some will scream at you to get your hands off them.

Some respond to attacks by going quiet and not fighting back, and some will become quickly defensive and argue back straight away at the slightest hint of an attack (real or not).

Some will never speak of their trauma and hide it forever, some will bring it up casually in conversation.

Some will cry when they talk about it, some will be emotionless and flat.

And we need to support them all. Trauma isn’t pretty. It doesn’t always make us “soft”, sometimes it makes us rough, hard, and angry. But we’re still traumatised. We still need support.

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i want a relationship where people know of us but nothing about us