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Do you still take confessions? 🥺

Yes! Sorry I keep falling in and out with consistency but I do eventually post all of the confessions!

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back in like 2017 i had a really shit password for my minecraft account so someone logged in and changed my username to an antisemitic joke, fortunately they didn't know enough about me to get through my security questions and change my associated email address. anyways i got it back pretty soon and changed the username back as soon as i could but i'm unable to scrub it from namemc and i'm worried someone will pull it up. i can't afford a new account rn.

Gosh - i definitely think to keep documentation about this and maybe even email Minecraft support potentially.

But honestly if someone does pull you up on it I think honesty and sincerity is the best way to go about with it.

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I'm very proud of being trans but I get really pissed off when everything is all about trans women all the damn time, it's like one segment of people got so used to the deck being stacked in their favour that they can't live as women without trying to claw back the privilege they're accustomed to, while trans men get swept under the rug and do nothing about it because they're raised with the female social roles and the expectation that we'll stay quiet and out of the way

Absolutely infuriates and disappoints me regularly

I hear you and I hold space for ur frustration on this - I’ve heard this discourse before within trans ppl on tiktok and it seems as though some of these trans women (mtf) still have these ideals that men are raised under.

I definitely say expand your exposure to trans women and you will for sure meet some that don’t hold these views.

Honestly civil discourse from both sides of this discussion is the best way to go about this.

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i think i might have undiagnosed adhd or asd, but im not sure if i do actually have something, or whether im just making it up. i have trouble focusing, and when i do i can't unfocus and get sucked in, i hate eye contact, i fidget a lot, and some other things that seem like symptoms, but what if im wrong? im scared to ask my parents to take me to a psychologist to get an official diagnosis because if im wrong then any problem i have with focus, or social stuff is because im lazy or weird. thanks

Just know if your are questioning it you are probably on the right track! One thing I will say don’t go around self diagnosing without doing proper scientific research! Read science journals or summary articles, critically start thinking and approaching ppl within these communities but be very careful not to absorb and start performing like them (it’s a very slippery slope). But definitely document and write down moments or things you do.

Also speak with your gp they maybe be able to offer therapists who specialise in these so you can ask more questions before going into a full diagnosis.

I have dealt with this thought to and I have landed on the umbrella term “neurodivergent” I’m not sure if it’s is autism and I decided to not make myself go crazy thinking about it but instead start living life unmasked.

It’s definitely a hard thing to do after masking for so long but honestly life is so much more brighter and fun when i started unmasking.

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Tw eating disorder I guess Ive been having a huge problem with binging and purging and its been getting worse. Im to ashamed to tell someone who can actually help and i hate bringing it up with the few ppl who do know bc i dont want to bug them. I wish I had more discipline. Im just trying to keep my head above water but im so tired. it just feels like a matter of time before i completely lose control, and its my own fault - kc

Honestly eating disorders are so hard to navigate without a proper support system and it comes a time where it is a matter of life and death. I understand this confession might be a few years old which I’m sorry about.

But pls seek help in any way possible- heavily avoid pro*** or disordered eating content. Tiktok is honestly a great place to start or YouTube look at friendly nutritionists and qualified dietitian some make excellent videos on not bullying yourself when eating or help change eating mindset.

It’s definitely a hard journey for sure but it’s one that you need to decide to do it for yourself.

Definitely do talk to friends and family that know - ik it may feel like a burden but if they truly love you and care about you they will hold the space for u to cry and rant about this.

I wish all the best my dear kc ❤️

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When I was in 5th grade I was molested by a family friend we can call him D. I am a guy btw. The first incident happened outside my rural home when I accidentally saw him peeing outside. He saw me turn the corner and immediately turned to show me his cock. He was done peeing and was just displaying it for me to see. I said sorry and went to turned around and he was shaking it. I just thought it was weird he didnt try to cover up.

The next incident happened at a card night. I wanted to play and he said I could play a couple of his hands so I sat in his lap to play in his spot. He very quickly got a hard-on and I could feel him flexing it on my butt. I didnt know what to do or say so I didnt say anything and I was shortly shooed away from the table anyway as it was adult time. I still didnt think anything of it and thought he just happened to have an accidental boner or something.

The third incident happened when I was riding my ATV around some dirt roads near our house. ( this was a normal occurence and was fine as long as I let somebody know where I was going) I'm riding and he pulls up. Also not a crazy occurence because we often all went riding there or shot guns there and fished at a nearby pond. So I assumed he was looking for my dad and stopped to talk since he had pulled up and rolled down his window. Some chit chat and he asked if I wanted to shoot his new pistol so I of course said yes. He got it out and showed me where the safety was and all that and I proceeded to pick a target and shoot while he stood behind me. When i finished i turned around and his pants were open and his hard penis was sticking straight out of them. I was like ah man and looked away thinking it was a prank or something but when I looked back it was still out and he had his hand around it. I asked him what he was doing and he said that I made it hard so he was showing me. I didnt really know what to do or say so I alternated between looking at the ground and looking at his penis although I was trying not to look at it. He dared me to put it in my mouth and I was like no way. Then he said he would buy me a new baseball glove if I did and idk why but that seemed like an ok deal to me. It took a little more convincing on his part but the it seemed like in a blur he was sitting in the open door of his truck and I was standing outside of it holding it in my hand.

It was huge. At least to me and so shiny. I had never touched another penis before and I really remember what it felt like. Suck it for a little while he said and I'll bring you a glove next time I come over. So I did. I put it in my mouth and he coached me through what he wanted and I just kind of did it mechanically. When he came he did it in my mouth while he held my head on it and I spit it onto the ground but he didnt seem to mind. He buttoned up told me what a good job I did and told me I could never tell anyone and reassured me I'd be rewarded. Then he drove off. This started a favor/reward system between us that would last for about a year and a half and I wonder sometimes if he still think about it.

Sorry for the wall of text and thanks for letting me share. Leave a comment if you have a question and maybe I will message you.

Me and this person have already discussed this in my chat and I was kinda hesitant to post this as it's very insure circumstance and outcome.

But I'll post not to alienate others who have experienced something like this and had have similar outcome.

This person did mention they seeked help for this and is working through it.

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i’ve struggled with an eating disorder for about two years now. my parents and everyone around me constantly comments on my appearance and weight and it’s really harmful to me. it makes me want to starve myself. today i didn’t eat for about 16 hours (that’s pretty normal for me) and my parents acted concerned. i don’t want them to find out because they’ll be angry and disappointed. they don’t actually care about me, and they make fun of people with eating disorders all the time around me -green

Your parents do care trust me even though they show it in a very bad way.

Please don't let those people who praise you for your weight loss or talk about your weights encourage this behaviour again. I honestly hate when they do that as you never know how someone truly lost the weight or how they feel talking about your weight.

The number on the scales DO NOT DEFINE YOU AS A PERSON!!! You are beautiful they way you are without the eating disorder.

Big help if you don't want to talk about in irl find an online support group that is very encouraging to have 'normal' eating habits.

This isn't something that will come quickly it is going to be a slow progress over time but you will truly overcome it.

Big advice tell your parents if your feel comfortable but if you really don't, let me be ignorant fools and if they talk about people with eating disorders say something back.

I'm always here if you ever feel like messaging someone.

Hope this helps GREEN

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I’m dating someone online and Ive never met them or facetimed with them. I like them a lot and we are very close, they are almost like my therapist and my best friend. The only issue is, i’m a very anxious person and I’m scared that they might not be who they say they are. It’s stupid, I know, but I’m just nervous.

You have the right to be nervous my dear. If your dating over the internet that does pose a sense of danger but if they constantly send your face pics of them there isn't much to worry about. If your on a site that it's hard to tell if it's a in real time pic or pre taken ask to move to another site like Snapchat or Instagram where they can send your face pics in real time. Also you will be able to video call through these apps.

If they start to create absurd lies or reluctancy to create/add you on those type of sites then defo be worried. We are in the age where video calling is the best business out there so you have many ways to video call them either Zoom or Skype or even Microsoft Teams.

It's also in a time where all phones have a front facing camera and majority of them are of good quality so they don't really have an excuse not to.

Watch out for obvious red flags!

I do have to add if they don't want to comply to you with this then you definitely should be weary of them are who they say they are. If you have any face pics of them do a reverse image search of the face (this can be done though apps).

I hope this helps and I wish one day you guys meet and the feeling is there in real life to. You can always message me if you don't want to reply public here.

Hope this helps.

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i know a boy who raped two girls and sexually assaulted me. i feel guilty associating myself with the two others because what they went through was worse than what happened to me. i feel selfish going through hurt and misery. they’re the only ones who understand, but i feel bad talking to them. i feel like i’ve made my situation worse than what it is. i don’t know what to do, -rosebud

Talk to them about how you feel I know it's gonna be an awkward situation but it's the best cause they maybe looking up to you as their support system and if you distance yourself it's gonna hurt them. So still together and work through it. Your each other support system that you have right now. You all need to support each other. I know you feel really bad right now but on some level you understand just as much as the next person what these poor girls are going through. You need to support them and they will support you back. Both of your situations are really bad and I wish it will never happen again to your or the other girls. Stay strong and don't forget to report the guy. This year is the best time to stand up against rapists. He deserves to be put in prison.

I hope that helps my dear rosebud 🌹❤️

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Graveyard.... - When I was 19 I dated a girl. We were always adventurous.. we saw an opportunity to have some sex in a graveyard beside a church .. as we were midway the doors opened out poured the 12 old age pensioners… we froze after they left neither wanted to continue.

Okay....... You do you fam but respect other people and there holy place of worship. I don’t think I would ever do something like that but you do you. 

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I'm a crossdresser... - I live in Little Hulton where everyone is mental, so I can’t talk to anyone about my fantasy. But I really wish I could find a girl who would dress me up like a slutty girl and make me such cocks for her while she laughs and teases me…

Erm..... Okay. I don’t really know how to answer this because I have never had to deal with something like that. But I can say is that you aren’t alone they are probably a lot more people like you but you have to find them. Expand your search for someone. There is someone for everyone out there. 

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So i have liked this guy for some time now but i don't know if So i like this guy but I don't know if he likes me back. He is always giving me complements and saying me and him should go out soon to watch a film in the cinema and that he will buy me KFC if we every go out to watch a film. He always called me hun. He has recently broke up with his girlfriend, should i try and flirt with him or wait and see if he does anything

I say wait it out because something like that had happened to me and things didn't go so well. Just wait it out and see what happens. If nothing develops I say just try and forget about it, but if you truly think he does like you give it a go but as soon as you see it's not working ABORT from the mission.