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i hate paraphiles who throw other paras under the bus. specifically necrophiles calling other paraphilias gross. "im not the bad kind of paraphile unlike those other paras!" bitch you want to fuck corpses.

maps are not disgusting, zoos are not disgusting, necros are not disgusting. youre only disgusting if you throw other paras under the bus so youll get picked by the anti paras.

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when I was 14 I worked in a grocery store and one day I got to bag Stephen King’s groceries and of course, being the little horror fiction nerd I am I was completely starstruck

I think he thought I was gonna ask for an autograph because I was not even lowkey staring I was full on moon-faced and bouncing and he kept looking over at me hesitantly like aw jeez kid fuck off

anyways I finally managed to squeak out that I was a huge fan and asked for advice on writing, “how do I write as well as you do?” in my horrible thick German accent and broken ass English and he gave me the best writing advice I have ever received

“shit kid, stop worrying about how other people do it and just write your story”

14 years later my wife and I nearly hit him with our car because he was jaywalking

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I love women

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Unattractive Men: "Women should give me a chance, lower their standards, and stop rejecting me just because I'm not physically attractive."

Unattractive Women: "If you don't find me attractive, that's okay. But leave me alone. Don't loudly proclaim that you don't find me attractive when I never did anything that requires you to find me attractive. Don't expect me to alter my appearance in order to be more attractive to you. Don't expect me to be even a little hurt by you not finding me attractive. Don't get offended if I don't find you attractive either. Don't assume that others can't find me attractive. Don't recruit others to not find me attractive. Don't expect me to take it as a favor when someone shows interest in me. Don't pretend to find me attractive as a joke. Don't act like I have less of a right to exist in public just because you don't find me attractive. Don't discriminate against me in professional settings just because you don't find me attractive.

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People act like the idea of radqueer is so fucking "predatory" and "awful" like the main thing I think about isn't just going to pride in the far future in a wheelchair and para pride flag

"You're taking things from-" I am actively looking for ways to make free or cheap wheelchairs so disabled people (cis and trans) can have mobility aids

"You just wanna-" kiss and hold my wife? Who tells me he wants to be perceived as 9? Who wants to be allowed to be a kid this time? With me in the same boat as her?

"You can't TRANSITIO-" Why do I need to transition to be seen as valid, I'll always be myself even if you don't see it

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There’s always something on Reddit

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i think some people don't understand what "good faith" means. It just means that you're doing it out of good intentions, not as an excuse to troll, or harm people, or whatever else.

if you're saying that you accept all good faith identities, but don't count transrace, (or whatever else), then you simply don't accept all good faith identities. Just because you don't like an identity doesn't mean it's not good faith. Everyone who calls themselves transrace isn't doing it out of secret bad intentions. You can still believe it has harmful consequences, but you can't claim that it's not good faith

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Map chan pls :3

Map-Chan! :D

I wanted to give her a childish aesthetic…he kinda looks like the Cheshire Cat! Maybe she has a little Alice gf…>w< I like to think he’s bigender and pansexual (and a MAP, because duh)

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First person to ever be called a lesbian was a man. Reports indicate radfems are malding as we speak.

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It's always fucking shocking to me when I (someone who's attracted to children) am the only one in the room telling adults that they should not have unrestricted access to children's bodies.

Whether it's the person we were talking to last night who was lamenting her favorite teacher losing his job because she didn't think unwanted non-sexual physical contact was a big deal. Or when I was a preschool teacher and had to tell other staff members that no means no, even when it's "just a hug".

It fucking blows my mind that I'm supposedly the "threat" or "dangerous".

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what I think will happen if I message my mutuals

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i get catcalled while out with friends at 1am and i say "excuse me, i actually identify as a transgender man and i would like to utilize my male privilege to avoid this interaction," and he says "oh i'm so sorry sir, i did not mean to invalidate your gender identity, do you know of any women i could harass instead? sorry again for the trouble"

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what is it was rainbow colors

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You know, it really is quite frustrating the amount of times I scroll by a post that says "if men experienced [thing that trans men experience], this wouldn't happen [except it does, to trans men, usually worse than to cis women]"

"If men could have periods, tampons would be free" >>> trans man gets beaten up for requesting sanitary products in bathrooms

"If men got uterine cancer, there would be a cure" >>> trans man killed via medical neglect due to being trans as his doctors wanted to punish him for being transgender and betraying womanhood

"If men were catcalled, it would be considered assault" >>> trans man gets catcalled and then sexually assaulted for ignoring their advances

"If men had to worry about being alone at night, there would be a streetlight every 5 feet" >>> trans man murdered while walking home alone from work

But then if I say anything about it, I'm told I'm a misogynist "erasing women's struggles".

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I don't accept answers to the question 'can minors consent?' from anyone other than a minor. Same as I won't accept the answer to 'are women as intelligent/capable as men?' from any man and 'should abortion be legal?' from anyone who doesn't have a vagina.