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🌺 Notes on Venus 🌺

Venus conjunct Jupiter can over exaggerate their Venusian side, whatever Jupiter touches it expands. the sweet and charming qualities of Venus can become an overkill, a sort of sickly sweet personality that borders on unrealistically nice.

Venus in the 11th house people tend to be quite popular, they could have a great image on social media. They value their friends and can be quite charitable. 

Venus in the 9th house tend to be seen as quite intelligent during their university years. Their professors tend to choose them as their favourites and pay extra attention to them. They value what they believe in. 

Virgo Venus want perfection, they enjoy fixing and helping those that they like. They are the type to clean their crushes house even if they hate cleaning.

Venus in aspect to Mars can have a prominent sex appeal, they may use seduction to get what they want. 

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ASTRO OBSERVATIONS 2

ENTIRE chart will influence accuracy.

Mars Square Neptune.

- Floating - these people tend to easily disconnect from the real world.

- Needing music to workout. Tend to hate silence. Need background music or noise.

- Will encounter disappointing men. Father may be unreliable. Father may not be the provider and/or protector. Father doesn’t fit the traditional father role. Disgust for “weak men”.

Accuracy for you heavily depends on house & sign.

Mars Trine Neptune.

- Often have an artistic hobby - drawing, painting, playing an instrument, etc.

- Often end up developing a physical hobby that brings them peace of mind - gym, yoga, meditation, etc.

- Dislike for conflict. Not likely to fight - verbally or physically. Avoidant behaviours.

Accuracy heavily depends on house & sign.

Saturn Aspects Uranus.

- Sudden change in relationship w authority. Ex: Following rules when young but rebelling against parents when older. Rebelling against what’s expected when older.

- Preferring and/or creating unconventional ways to do things.

- Good teachers. Simplifying complicated things to be easily understood. Creating new effective ways to be productive.

- Conflicted between desire for recognition from authority and desire for freedom.

Accuracy heavily depends on house & sign.

Mars Aspects MC.

- You or others are competitive in the workplace. You can desire leadership positions. You want to be recognized as the best. Or you simply dislike working with others. Prefer independent work.

- May become known for your body (in a good or bad way). People can assume you are physically active. You likely become physically fit. If you are a woman, you can have a reputation for being a “bitch”. You could be assertive and it’s seen as aggressive. You could prioritize your goals, you’re seen as selfish.

- Often I see these people irl have a bad reputation. IRL EX: People see them as assholes. People discuss their sex lives. People label them as sluts. People assume they have eating disorders. It’s just so weird how every single person ik with this aspect has random & untrue rumours spread about them.

- Entrepreneur indicator. However, not a strong one. Would need to check entire chart.

- Career may involve physical activity. Ex: Walking around a lot, physiotherapy, gym teacher, cleaning, etc.

- Conflict between authority figures like parents. A Parent encourages you to be ambitious. A parent pushes you toward choosing a career or finding a job early on.

- Parents who are forced to prioritize work over children due to financial struggle of the family.

- One strong parent. A single parent or one parent takes on most of the burden.

Accuracy heavily depends on house & sign.

Mercury Aspects Ascendant.

- Good texters. Funny and can keep a conversation going.

- Observant. This can make them anxious and/or very talkative.

- Enjoy nicknames, clever slogans and phrases. The kind of person to say things like “whatever floats your boat” “break a leg” “time to hit the sack”

- Fast talkers. Probably been told they talk too much. Using hand gestures to talk. Moving the body a lot when talking. Fast thinking.

- Difficult to relax. Unintentionally blurting things out. Feeling like you misrepresent yourself.

- Indicator of a popular person. Well connected. Could be a good salesman. Funny people.

Accuracy heavily depends on houses and signs.

Neptune Aspects Ascendant.

- People believe they can read you like an open book.

- Wandering vibe. You look lost. You feel lost. You could enjoy feeling directionless or you wish someone would show you the way.

- Expecting or wishing something would happen to help you. Wishing or expecting someone to help you. Feeling like you’re waiting for your dreams to come true.

- Escapism. Fantasy world in your mind. Wishing to live in a different reality.

- Longing and yearning for people, places and things. Feeling like you’re missing something.

- Prone to giving up. Prefer to give up and go with the flow. Dislike for standing up for yourself. Being assertive is difficult. Letting your presence be known is difficult.

- Feeling like you don’t really belong here.

- Tend to live in their own world. They can be unaware of how things they do or say are perceived. Something they randomly say or do without bad intent can be seen as disrespectful or hateful. They may not even realize it until randomly reflecting on it years later. People can have one sided feuds with them for YEARS. it’s almost funny.

Accuracy heavily depends on houses and signs.

Venus Aspect Uranus

- Relationships begin and end suddenly. ghosting and getting ghosted at some point is extremely likely. Experiencing sudden attraction. Getting close very quickly in relationships (romantic, platonic & business)

- Can experience distance in relationships. Could literally be a long distance relationship or emotional distance.

- Possible problem you could encounter: Partners or you can be awkward when expressing love. Lack of physical affection, lack of sincerity, not very romantic. Mostly jokes to avoid serious conversations.

- On the bright side you will have strong initial attraction. Get close fast. Partners can feel like best friends. Likely to be funny and openminded. Partners have unique viewpoints.

- More comfortable expressing oneself over text than in person. All my friends w this have tried dating apps.

- Later in life they develop unique perspectives on love. This is because they end up having non traditional relationships. Ex: poly, long distance relationship, blended families, interracial couples, couple from diff religions or countries, etc.

Accuracy heavily influenced by houses and signs.

MC Aspect Sun

- Desire recognition and praise. May secretly or openly want to make a parent proud. May secretly want to prove themselves to people through career success.

- Desire leadership positions. Secretly can desire fame. They want to be respected and known in their field.

- If negatively placed, it can manifest as being a sore loser. Being envious when others are praised or succeed.

- In squares and oppositions, people can be willing to bend their morals for fame/recognition and success.

- Career can become a big part of your identity. Entrepreneurship indicator.

- Fear of being gossiped about. Fear of people perceiving you in a negative light. People’s opinions matter deeply.

Accuracy heavily influenced by houses and signs.

MC Aspects Pluto

- Desire positions of authority. Desire power over others.

- Later in life, career transforms. Ex: Changing fields, Going to get a higher education later in life, etc. And this is an entrepreneurship indicator.

- Feeling pressure to be successful. Needing to prove yourself to others. May have parents or family members who didn’t support your dreams. Or family with high expectations.

- Hard aspects can end up sacrificing family & relationships for career in some kind of way. Extreme example: Having kids late to advance career. Working long hours or travelling for work. This may not allow you to be with kids or partner that much.

- Be wary these people often end up with a tarnished reputation. They can need to become like a phoenix (rising from the ashes).

- Big indicator of attracting public scrutiny.

Accuracy heavily influenced by houses and sign.

Saturn Aspect Ascendant

- Reserved presence. Observant. Patient & polite. Old soul indicator. Mature. Good mentors/teacher. Indicator of becoming a person in an authoritative position. You may not realize it but people can grow to respect & admire you. Your words have influence on others.

- Good planners. They create long term plans. Good at manifesting. Good at going after what they want. Tough start in life but always get what they want later in life.

- Have a lot of responsibility. Independent person. Difficult asking for & accepting help. Older sibling vibe. Being the forgotten child. Being the child who compromises for their siblings. Attempting to create less burden for your parents.

- Deeply value the opinion of authority (Parents, teachers, etc).

- Tough on themselves. Feel they need to work harder. Feeling the need to earn things. Feeling you haven’t done enough. Feeling you aren’t enough.

- Strong boundaries. You may have high standards and strict “rules” for people in your life especially romantic partners. Will not just accept anybody.

- And one thing I’ve noticed is whether it be saturn trine asc or saturn square asc, these people end up in positions where their partners have to “earn” them. Ex: making yourself difficult to schedule dates with. Making their potential partner prove interest and intent in some kind of way. Partners have to chase you to an extent.

- Also, I’ve seen this as dad disapproving of partner. Partner had to gradually work to bond with the dad. Ex: Helping him at the house, Initiating conversation with him every visit, Telling the dad his future plans and how they involve his daughter, etc. Saturn Asc people’s partners really WORK to prove themselves.

Accuracy heavily influenced by houses and signs.

Mars Aspect Jupiter

- Strong sense of faith. Strong sense of optimism. Strong sense of doing the right thing. Could manifest as being self righteous.

- Jupiter strengthens mars. This creates a strong drive, need for passion and action.

- Ex: Let’s say mars is in scorpio: You will truly never forget people from the past. Strong memory. Grudge holder for sure.

- If in a fire sign, very quick to anger. On the bright side, very funny. Quick thinking. But similar to Scorpio mars, will not forgive easily. An abundance of anger.

- Independent. Ability to lead. Could be a good leader or mentor.

Accuracy heavily influenced houses and sign.

Mercury Aspects Mars

- Fast thinking. This can make them charming. Or opposite effect: Fast speaking. Blurting things out without thinking. Misunderstood.

- They’d make good rappers or a good lawyer. Persuasive. Clever in speech.

- Communication has a strong effect on others. Deeply hurt others.

- Flirty without even trying.

- Might be too clever or too quick for most. Leaving people speechless.

- Fights with siblings. Issues with siblings. May grow to feel bad about how you treated them back in the day. May forever have a rivalry.

- Men may feel competitive with other men. Need to one up others. Competitive person.

- Honest and straightforward. However, if they want to lie, they’re VERY good at it.

- May have scars. Important to check the house you have gemini in. For ex: Lets say you have gemini 2nd house & mercury conjunct mars, you could have scars on the face. Prone to acne.

- Ex.2: Ik a gemini rising with mercury conjunct mars who had plastic surgery done. Mercury rules their body. Mars is “cutting”.

Accuracy heavily influenced by houses and signs.

Sun Aspects Neptune.

- Mysterious. People can’t figure you out 100%. You don’t fit into one specific label or box. Private person especially if you have scorpio placements.

- You don’t try to be a mystery. You are naturally withdrawn. Quiet but not shy person.

- Difficulty expressing oneself. Looking for escape to cope. Driving around aimlessly. Focusing on education and career over personal matters. Or depending on entire chart, substance abuse issues.

- A father who can’t stand up for himself. A father who is taken advantage of by other families members. A father who looks for escape.

Accuracy influenced by house and sign.

Sun Aspects Jupiter.

- Confident person. Many creative outlets. Optimistic outlook.

- Expressive person. Ex: Laughs loud, hand gestures, facial expression, lots of body movement, physically tall or large.

- Father could fit the above description. Father could lecture a lot. Father may be a generally happy person. Father could be a gambler. Father has the tendency to overdo things. Father could either be selfish or very generous.

- Good humour. Usually a kind and easygoing person. Adventurous spirit.

- Can get preachy about their beliefs. Stubborn on their beliefs. Conversations can become one sided - one person talking too much without realizing the others haven’t gotten a chance to speak.

- They want to share knowledge. Help others - humans and animals.

Accuracy influenced by house and signs.

Moon Aspects Venus.

- Feminine & seemingly flirtatious habits. (Twirling/playing with your hair, swaying body movements, etc). It is natural not intentional. Others, may perceive it as trying to be flirty though.

- Cooperative person. Moms can be very peace loving. Mom who sacrifices in attempt to keep the peace.

- In men, this can result in seeing women through the Madonna whore complex. Men can idealize women - lack of understanding & experience with real women.

- Taking pleasure in nurturing people. Potential to be a good baker & cook.

- Artistic eye. Home design and clothing. However, depending on signs, may prefer comfort over fashion.

- Expensive taste. Potential to overspend and be indulgent. Be cautious of ending up in debt. Sweet tooth.

- You or the mother may have a baby face. Soft and often clear skin. Especially you if your rising is in connection to moon or venus. If in connection to mars, acne & scars likely. But either way, youthful appearance.

- Happier in relationships. Feeling the need to always be in a relationship. However, depending on the signs, can be moody. Inconsistent in what you desire. Inconsistent in likes and dislikes.

Accuracy influenced by entire natal chart.

Sun Aspects Saturn.

- Restricted in self expression. May fear other’s opinions. May fear criticism. Dislike of teasing/roasting. Dislike of comedy genre in general.

- Being hard on yourself for mistakes. Being fussy about how you look and behave. Self conscious.

- Late bloomers. Become authority figures later in life. Desire respect over all else. Grandparent energy.

- Patient. Good planners. Hardworking.

Accuracy influenced by houses and signs.

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Venus hard aspects natal

I would like to say something I’ve noticed about all hard aspects to Venus- when they’re underdeveloped, relationships with these people can not be the easiest, each outer planet in harder contact to Venus can make the individual moody & kinda like a roller coaster and cause them to be unbalanced somehow, that’s until they grow and come to love themselves truly, and that can take a while sometimes.

Might refer to easy aspects as well

❤️‍🔥 Venus • Saturn hard aspects can be so tough. It can really make you be so f*cking cruel to yourself for no reason, bringing yourself down by devaluing your own worth. Self esteem issues to the core. Therefore it’s hard to let other people in and trust them. But if a bit more developed- it also makes u have high standards when in comes to relationships- platonic & romantic. It’s liking people that are authentic and not fake cause you can sense it in others, and appreciating quality over quantity at that. It’s preferring to be alone than to be with people who just don’t feel right. It’s taking time to really open up and not liking being too vulnerable, especially at the beginning. Guards up. It also can bring delays & hardships in love matters until you fully grow and heal and learn to really love yourself first (so until then you either stay alone or stay in relationships that aren’t healthy for u or aren’t what ur actually looking for)

❤️‍🔥 Venus • Uranus- liking people who are interesting, cool, exciting, a little unavailable in someway, ‘bad boy/girl’ vibe from the outside (even only looks-wise) but that treat you right. You also need someone to balance you out as you can find it hard to tame your chaotic energy. It’s being attracted to someone that’s different from you but have the same values at heart. It’s finding a best friend that’s also so sexy & cute in your eyes that you just wanna kiss their face every time u see them. Needing to have that ‘spark’ right off the bet, otherwise it’s hard to attract them without it. Also being attracted to unconventional relationships or the ideas of them (big age difference/ same sex relationships/ playing more the opposite role from ur sex in the relationship/ forbidden affairs)

❤️‍🔥 Venus • Mars- having so much energy sometimes in you but not always knowing where to direct it to. Energized by love. Being attracted to passion itself. Loving physical touch & attention from your lover. Can be quit aggressive in love or with the people they love. Can have lash outs out of no where. possessive. Wanting to hit ur partner from how much u love them or how cute they seem lmao. Slapping your partner as a sign of affection. Arguing with them just to release some energy. Being goofy with them. Wanting to be with them 24/7 and f**k the rest, you & I against the world. Also can give physical attractiveness from what I’ve seen.

❤️‍🔥 Venus • Pluto- so I don’t have that aspect in my chart but I’m gonna try my best. Venus Pluto people are usually very devoted partners once they make a commitment. They seem to be obsessed with the idea of relationships and love in general. The thing is when they’re underdeveloped they can obsess and get jealous over people that are toxic, and they can act like that themselves too. Thats bc they can be attracted to danger or bad things (can also be drugs, alcohol etc) . They can also be quit promiscuous at least at one point in their life as it can make them feel more desirable and gives them a fake sense of power. They need to learn to respect themselves so that they attract people that respect them too. They also need to learn to love themselves from within and have enough confidence in themselves without feeling the need to always be with someone else so that they don’t need to face there own demons when they’re alone. They can prefer focusing (unhealthily so sometimes) on their partner instead on actually working on themselves and on how they view themselves. They can definitely have magnetizing aura and can attract others easily. I also noticed they usually attract and are attracted to other Plutonian people as well as they can sense their intensity which they live for.

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Aspects of Lilith

Both descriptions may apply to conjunctions.

Sextile, trine, or quintile Sun: The native has a well-defined sense of self & remarkable inner security. They thrive when in conflict with an oppressive force or structure & feed on all kinds of attention, positive or negative. They take pride in their radical traits; they are liberated by unapologetic self-expression. Shame is not part of their vocabulary. Social discord is entertaining. The identity relies on breaking stereotypes, standing out, or rebelling somehow. Hedonism can become a severe self-sabotaging issue if the enjoyment of freedom goes too far or inflates the ego to the point of unhealthy confidence. These people typically find trouble wherever they go, and are easily bored by rules & standards. Square, opposite, or quincunx Sun: The native is constantly met with criticism, rejection, or exclusion for their individuality, and this causes them to hide or repress the most unique parts of themselves. They despise expectations, and when others have any measure of control over them they can become hostile or deeply troubled. They have a painful yearning for freedom but fear the reactions they are used to receiving. A significant amount of their energy will be spent learning how to express themselves openly & shamelessly. Social stigma or stifling of the identity in whatever form will be the primary catalyst for discovery and realization of self. They will be forced to accept themselves.

Sextile, trine, or quintile Moon: The native is comfortable exploring the darker & more unconventional parts of who they are. They instinctually understand their aberrant or taboo qualities, and they are not afraid of them; they’re naturally introspective when it comes to rejection or exclusion and intuitively realize what separates them from others. They use their emotions & imagination to highlight their individuality; they also find freedom in emotional expression. They are not tied down to the person they were raised to be, and do not limit themselves to a personal standard any more than a societal standard – they are able to break away from habitual conformity or self-stifling habits in general. Square, opposite, or quincunx Moon: The native is emotionally upset by rejection and may cling to tradition or other metaphorical “safety blankets” developed in childhood in order to avoid social discord. They habitually repress their dark, taboo, or aberrant qualities out of discomfort & insecurity. They’re afraid of fully expressing themselves, and being free in their individuality is a frighteningly foreign concept; they shy away from situations that prompt them to stand out or rebel and will retreat into a shell of reservations when faced with the opportunity to break or bend a standard. The emotional equilibrium is ravaged by criticism, exclusion, and alienation. They feel painfully isolated.

Sextile, trine, or quintile Mercury: The native is able to logically analyze social stigmas & standards, and intellectually deconstruct the power those have over individual lives (especially their own). Reason consistently prevails over peer pressure. Their ideas and the way they communicate them are radical in some way and receive much attention, good or bad. Criticism is easily combated with the mind; they are able to see through others’ opinions and separate themselves from judgement, and are thus free to think the way they want to – free thought defines their mindscape, and they are lost without it. Mental/verbal exchanges shape their understanding of society. Controversy deeply intrigues them. Square, opposite, or quincunx Mercury: The native has little faith in their ability to accurately comprehend themselves, others, or society as a whole, and therefore may place monumental importance on other people’s opinions. They are easily stressed by having to explain themselves or their actions; judgement and criticism easily shut them down. They are quick to label their ideas or their interpersonal & communicative mannerisms as strange and unwanted, so they may choose to be quiet and reserved rather than put their mind on display. They have a very difficult time defending themselves or rationalizing their place in a group. They can’t use their logical mind to escape twisted social structures.

Sextile, trine, or quintile Venus: The native easily merges personal freedom & social graces to create a naturally appealing individuality which gains positive attention & reactions from others, no matter how taboo or radical. Controversy is a part of the unique style; in other words, this person wears ignominy well, and may use it to their advantage in an attractive way. Others admire or romanticize their aberrant qualities. The native’s personal tastes and preferences support a happily outcast identity; criticism & judgement serve as signs of being socially relevant, and they make being different fashionable. Extreme hedonism is tied to this aspect, especially in relationships that aren’t widely acceptable. Square, opposite, or quincunx Venus: The native is torn in a heightened conflict between individuality and conformity, particularly in the context of relationships or style. The vacillation between radical subversion of social standards and passive adherence to them is a matter of choosing between happiness and harmony, both of which are crucially important. The native may lose relationships or general popularity for their stigmatized qualities, which deeply harms their self-esteem. They wish to fully be themselves but cannot reconcile that with the risks that come with it – they are unsure of its worth, which subsequently leads to uncertain self-worth as a whole.

Sextile, trine, or quintile Mars: The native possesses an unconquerable willpower which seldom bends for anyone else, and there is little care for others’ disapproval of it. If something is desired, it is achieved; the expectations and opinions of other people have little to no influence. No social stigma, criticism, or oppressive standard can get in the way of the native’s drive. They regularly break rules and disregard structures that don’t serve their initiatives, and charge forward without waiting for anyone to forgive, accept, or get used to them. Their sexuality is openly expressed; they are proud of their taboo desires. Going against popular belief fuels their inner fire, impassions and excites them. Square, opposite, or quincunx Mars: The native is easily infuriated by notions, structures, or actions which they perceive as threatening of their autonomy, and they typically react with hostility when others criticize or attempt to control them in any way. They are unable to handle judgement, often reject the opinions of others before they’ve even heard them, and thus usually have a narrow view of most things, lacking the capacity to see other perspectives. Their one-track mind can cause them to lack foresight & create immense social conflict/discord where it is not necessary or appropriate. All of this stems from a deep fear of of others defining them, so they invert it into aggressive opposition of others & abrasively assume the role of “outcast” before others can force them into it.

Sextile, trine, or quintile Jupiter: The native’s mind is filled with grand philosophies of the truth about society and why stigmas & standards must be broken for spiritual growth. They find enlightenment through liberation; freedom is more important to them than anything else because it fulfills them in every way and allows them to expand their intellect. Likewise, they use their intellect to expand their freedom, as well as the freedom of others. They may become something of a social pioneer or modern guru, teaching about the detrimental nature of the status quo and encouraging others to go against the norm. They don’t believe in conformity. Their beliefs separate them from the majority. Square, opposite, or quincunx Jupiter: The native may attach to philosophies solely for the sake of controversy. They may become so invested in being different that they no longer care if they are right. Their morality is selfish; their beliefs & personal code revolve around a set of faux rules which permit them to be hedonistic or destructive for the sake of “liberation.” Unhealthy, harmful habits are proudly paraded around under the guise of self-empowered notions. Self-control feels unbearably limiting and stifling, even if it’s for their own good. They can become “special snowflake” types, and attempt to preach their flawed ideas so that others follow them in their “enlightened” lifestyle and thus validate it.

Sextile, trine, or quintile Saturn: Much of the native’s power comes from the innate ability to rework social limitations into structures that serve their purpose and growth. They are incredibly wise when it comes to the sensitivity of culture and know their place in society, as well as how to change it. They understand that freedom comes with responsibility and it does not come free; they possess the self-discipline necessary to cultivate true self-liberation and they aren’t afraid of putting in the effort to create the individuality they want to be known for. They handle stigma with grace, and rationally deconstruct the paradigms of others so that they begin to question why they believe in certain standards & “norms.” Square, opposite, or quincunx Saturn: The native easily becomes consumed by the “process” of “becoming themselves” – they get caught up in the changes that need to be made within themselves or in their environment before they can allow themselves to be fully self-expressive. They limit themselves with their own expectations, can become hindered by tradition, and place too much importance on the judgement & disapproval of authority figures. They care about the structural integrity of society, and don’t wish to compromise its strength, so they tend to repress all that is aberrant, controversial, or radical about themselves; they see self-liberation as selfish, non-productive, and unnecessarily dissonant.

Sextile, trine, or quintile Uranus: The native possesses very extreme views and opinions on society which others either love or hate them for. They often behave outrageously for the fun of it, and do or say things that may cause discord because gives them an electric, purposeful feeling. They disregard all social limitations and couldn’t care less about acceptance. They are the bona fide rebel. Nothing & no one can prevent them from being the person they want to be. Liberation runs in their blood. They don’t believe in any social order which hinders individual autonomy, and they have a desire to change society to make room for “the atypicals” like them. They use their freedom to free others. Square, opposite, or quincunx Uranus: Much of the traits for harmonious Lilith-Uranus aspects apply here as well, but in a harsher, more desperate sense. The native knows the pain and isolation of being rejected, humiliated, alienated, and ostracized, so they devote a lot of their energy to radically changing the social climate for the better. They have an ironic moral code; while they reject the morality of others, they follow their own rules. Their rebellion is decisive and purposeful rather than hedonistic or self-congratulating; they have a vision, a grand and noble goal of collective freedom which begins with them. They wish to change society almost as punishment for their oppressors.

Sextile, trine, or quintile Neptune: The native effortlessly, unconsciously evades social boundaries; cultural restrictions can’t contain them, because they slip away from rules and judgement non-violently, mysteriously. They live almost independent of social structure, outside of the realm of conformity. Others often romanticize their aberrant qualities & paint them as figures of graceful rebellion & unapologetic individuality, even though they may not intend to come across as such – they are just existing, but they do so with a gentle limitlessness envied by others. They draw inspiration and spiritual fulfillment from liberation, and feel most free when their soul (or subconscious mind) is uninhibited. Square, opposite, or quincunx Neptune: The native is easily confused or lost within social boundaries; they can’t comprehend others’ judgements or the rules placed upon them, and this creates deep interpersonal discomfort which invades the subconscious mind and the soul, surfacing through dreams, art, & emotions (which are the only places they feel free). They may cling to religion/spirituality to find their individuality. They can’t differentiate external standards from interior goals/desires and often chase ideals that aren’t their own. Others demonize their aberrant qualities and label them inaccurately. They liberate themselves through deceit, illusion, and escapism, as it is the only way they know how to.

Sextile, trine, or quintile Pluto: The native is intimately connected to their individuality, possessing a raw, resilient relationship to the darkest parts of who they are which separate them from others. They are immensely courageous when it comes to experiencing the taboo & controversial parts of society, entirely unafraid of things others try to ignore. They transform through unapologetic self-expression, and find rebirth through liberation. Their sexuality is deep and powerful, extreme and different, and they are proud of this; it is part of their identity, part of the way they rebel from society’s control over ego. They never allow society or other people to control them in any way. They own themselves. Square, opposite, or quincunx Pluto: The native is terrified of being controlled, and has extremely adverse emotional reactions to anything they perceive as having the potential to limit their freedom. They are paranoid of society’s power to erase individuality. They go to severe measures to protect their identity and autonomy, resorting to secrecy, manipulation, lies, and hostility to defend what they are afraid will be taken from them or exposed. They are fundamentally ashamed, guilty, and fearful; criticism and judgement harms their self-image. Their dark, taboo, aberrant traits are out of control, particularly their “unacceptable” sexual desires. They’re ruled by an obsession with individuality & liberation, which ironically damages or decreases their individual freedom.

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Cancer Mars

💝 he’s likely to peruse someone he already knows bc he already feels comfortable & secure with that person.

💝 he is very protective & territorial over his partner.

💝 he tends to treat sex as an emotional act rather than solely physical. sex & love go hand-in-hand for him so he needs an emotional connection to even consider sex. he needs to feel safe before revealing himself sexually. he’s too sensitive & romantic to respond to a blunt sexual appeal.

💝 he is a nurturing & soothing lover in the bedroom. he loves long sessions of cuddles, foreplay & sex. he enjoys pleasing his partner & will do almost anything to do so.

💝 he may use sex as a physical release of his stress & anger, causing him to be rough & passionate in bed.

💝 he struggles to deal with conflict logically & rationally since he’s so emotional. he does try his best to refrain from arguing with his loved ones but you can still expect emotional outbursts & passive aggression.

💝 he may try to make himself indispensable to ensure he’ll never be abandoned. he’ll engage in sexual acts just to reassure himself that he’s wanted.

💝 he may have many female friends & connections. since this is a feminine mars sign, he is very attractive & appealing to women. since this is a weak mars sign, he may be inclined to seek out multiple women just to feed his ego.

💝 he’s intuitive, observant & emotionally intelligent. this mean he knows how to persuade & manipulate others into doing what he wants. ensure to stand your ground & don’t let him guilt trip you - show him that his emotions don’t effect you!

💝 his mood swings can be exhausting for himself & others so when he’s down ensure to give him extra attention.

💝 he has a habit of projecting his insecurities onto others.

💝 he takes a while to move on & get over things. he’s known for holding grudges due to his great memory.

💝 he does not collaborate well with other cancer mars people.

💝 he tends to move in a zig zag line rather than directly at something.

💝 un-evolved cancer energy is self deprecation, victim mentality & still hung up on a toxic ex from ten years ago.

Turn On’s & Off’s:

💝 he’s attracted to curvy & protective women.

💝 he likes nymphomanics (a woman who has abnormally excessive & uncontrollable sexual desire).

💝 he will often mother his partner & want mothering himself.

💝 he tends to put a lot of importance into aftercare & not receiving it can straight up ruin the experience for him.

💝 he wants a sensitive & intuitive partner who can understand his complex emotional landscape. he likes emotional vulnerability & closeness.

💝 he needs plenty of validation & attention.

💝 he loves anything to do with loyalty & binding - “i wanna take care of you”, “i want you to be happy” “give it to me”

💝 in sexual rxships, he wants to feel protection, secureness & belonging. he likes slow & romantic build ups with nurturing gestures (soft music, heart-felt convo, home-cooked food, thoughtful gifts, bubble baths, forehead kisses, being held, cuddles). he likes eye contact (feeling seen, wanted & protected).

💝 breeding fetish (he likes the idea of making a baby).

💝 submission fantasies - he may like it when you’re a little aggressive or disapline him in bed as long as he knows you love him.

💝 known as the sign most attracted to breasts. the breasts/chest are his erogenous zone (stroke his chest, play with his nips) but remember his body is very sensitive so be gentle.

💝 he values honesty & he hates liars. he has strong intuition & he’s very observant.

💝 he may want it more when he can’t have it meaning he loves teasing & edging.

💝 all water mars love positions where they can see their partners face.

💝 he dislikes his lover being too independent.

💝 he dislikes not being listened to.

💝 casual flings & aloofness

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greek life (sorority girl placement)

taurus placement: (big 3/venus)

taurus sun – elegant, poised, dependable, traditional, status-conscious, socially selective, values loyalty, enjoys luxury.

taurus moon – warm, nurturing, indulgent, emotionally grounded, values comfort, loves bonding over food & traditions, homebody vibes but loves socializing in familiar settings.

taurus rising – graceful, put-together, gives “it girl” energy, soft but firm presence, effortlessly charming, attracts admiration without trying, has a signature look/aesthetic.

taurus venus – classy, sensual, effortlessly stylish, loves brunch & spa days, appreciates quality over quantity in friendships, naturally magnetic & admired.

gemini moon & venus

gemini moon – witty, energetic, socially adaptable, always texting in the group chat, thrives on gossip & tea, emotionally curious, easily excitable, loves spontaneous plans.

gemini venus – flirty, charming, talkative, social butterfly, effortlessly popular, loves meeting new people, great at networking, always has a fun idea, changes her aesthetic often.

leo placements: (big 3/10th house/11th house)

leo sun – confident, radiant, center of attention, natural leader, effortlessly popular, bold, loyal to her sisters, always hyping everyone up.

leo moon – dramatic but lovable, deeply passionate, craves admiration, warm-hearted, emotionally expressive, thrives in sisterhood, throws the most extra bid day themes.

leo rising – charismatic, eye-catching, gives main character energy, naturally magnetic, always well-dressed, makes an entrance at every event, known for her signature look.

leo midheaven/10th house – campus icon, well-respected, likely holds a leadership position (president/recruitment chair), ambitious about her sorority’s reputation, loves recognition.

leo 11th house – the ultimate social queen, deeply values her sisterhood, effortlessly makes friends, hosts legendary formals, always surrounded by people.

libra placements: (big 3/venus/11th house)

libra sun – charming, graceful, effortlessly social, well-liked by everyone, stylish, peacemaker, naturally diplomatic, loves being part of a group.

libra moon – emotionally balanced, thrives in harmonious friendships, romantic at heart, avoids drama but always knows the gossip, loves aesthetic bonding moments.

libra rising – elegant, polished, naturally likable, effortlessly pretty, gives soft but influential energy, always the best-dressed at events, people are drawn to her.

libra venus – flirty, magnetic, relationship-oriented, loves girl talk & matchmaking, has the prettiest instagram feed, always gets complimented on her beauty & charm.

libra 11th house – the ultimate socialite, thrives in large friend groups, naturally fits into any social circle, loves planning sisterhood events, always in demand for brunch dates.

sagittarius placement: (sun/rising/jupiter dominant)

sagittarius sun – free-spirited, adventurous, life of the party, brutally honest but hilarious, always down for a spontaneous trip, loves big & bold experiences.

sagittarius rising – magnetic, effortlessly fun, gives off cool girl energy, always laughing, naturally attracts people with her wild stories & fearless attitude.

jupiter dominant – lucky, larger-than-life presence, super charismatic, thrives in leadership roles but doesn’t take herself too seriously, always finds a way to succeed.

venus in houses: (1st/10th/11th house)

venus in the 1st house – effortlessly beautiful, naturally charming, magnetic presence, always put-together, known for her signature aesthetic, people are drawn to her.

venus in the 10th house – sorority “it girl,” well-respected, social status matters, likely holds a leadership role, admired for her style & grace, polished & ambitious.

venus in the 11th house – ultimate social butterfly, thrives in group settings, everyone’s favorite sister, loves planning fun events, effortlessly popular, deeply values friendships.

7th house placements: (moon/venus/jupiter)

moon in the 7th house – deeply emotionally connected to her sisters, values close, meaningful relationships, always there for her friends, empathetic, sensitive to the moods of those around her.

venus in the 7th house – attracts people easily, loves harmony in relationships, has a natural charm that draws others in, loves romanticizing her friendships, thrives in partnerships.

jupiter in the 7th house – optimistic, charismatic, expansive social network, always surrounded by people, loves being part of a close-knit group, brings good luck & positive energy to her sorority.

11th house placements: (sun/moon/venus/jupiter)

sun in the 11th house – socially influential, a natural leader within her group, thrives in friendships & group settings, the one who organizes & inspires everyone to get involved.

moon in the 11th house – emotionally nourished by her friendships, very in tune with the group's needs, values deep emotional connections, always knows how to support & comfort her sisters.

venus in the 11th house – charismatic, popular, attracts others effortlessly, loves being part of a vibrant social circle, always involved in the latest group activities, enjoys socializing & forming bonds.

jupiter in the 11th house – extremely optimistic, outgoing, lucky with friendships, brings joy & expansion to her sorority, deeply values community & group experiences, loves bringing people together.

all observations are done by me !!! @pearlprincess02

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𝑺𝒄𝒐𝒓𝒑𝒊𝒐 & 𝑨𝒒𝒖𝒂𝒓𝒊𝒖𝒔: 𝑻𝒉𝒆 𝑼𝒍𝒕𝒊𝒎𝒂𝒕𝒆 𝑭𝒂𝒕𝒂𝒍 𝑨𝒕𝒕𝒓𝒂𝒄𝒕𝒐𝒓𝒔

scorpio and aquarius are both signs that are attractive in mysterious ways. both fixed and both known for their depth, their approaches and affects are much different. this may also apply to PLUTO, SATURN, URANUS and MARTIAN NATIVES & SCORPIO or AQUARIUS VENUS/MOON/MARS or any significant aspects regarding these planets under the sign.

— scorpio is a fixed water sign, ruled by pluto and mars. known for magnetism, secrecy and intensity

— aquarius is a fixed air sign, ruled by saturn and uranus. known for creativity, wisdom and eccentricity

⋆ the scorpion approach to romance and matters of attraction is obsessive, direct, unrelenting. the elements of pluto (death, endings, cycles, obsession, the hidden) trying to be romantic or pursue attraction is difficult.

⋆ pluto wants to completely consume the object of his affection. slow but nothing less than precise, pluto sets a tone that is dooming, inescapable for their prospect. it is without warning, without explanation and takes even the native surprise at times.

⋆ the affections of scorpio are intimidating because it is protruding and unstoppable. immediately, they want to go as deeply as possible. spilling their guts onto their potentials as soon as that plutonian aim sets in.

⋆ mars (planet of sexual drive, general drive, ambition, defense) wants to see just how far they can push the potential. what they can take of not only the scorpions authenticity, but to see how much they'll give of their own. it's challenging and this can also be intimidating to potentials, to essentially having a soul-level autopsy done by the native.

⋆ the reaction of the others which they attract is similar to a submission against one's own will. the image that is best suited to this, i find, may be the way a snake strangles it prey to lifelessness. it's a slow but intimate fatal squeeze of allure until their prospect has completely given.

⋆ pluto and mars together singlehandedly create an ambition that takes on a plan if it's very own before these natives realize what it even is that draws them to their potentials.

⋆ the pitfall of scorpios seduction is that while their mystery can be attractive, they bleed onto their potentials in a true act of authenticity but reserve a lot to themselves still. scorpion natives strive to create mystery to protect themselves from future trauma, but are ultimately unabashed in their feelings.

⋆ this may cause their potentials to step back and question the native, wondering if their truths are actually what they claim to be. this is not to say that the gravitational pull of scorpios attraction is menacing or purposefully misleading only, it is simply the mystery—the morbid curiosity—that insights that thrill of the scorpion seduction. the morbid curiosity that most, if not all, of us have.

what is secret only makes us more ambitious to uncover it . . .

⋆ the aquarian approach is vastly different from the scorpions. while pluto + mars encourages a diversity unbeknownst to the scorpio natives besides alienation, they almost don't even realize the power of their affection. this is not the case for aquarians. their diversity is their m.o. exactly.

⋆ these natives choose which potentials they interact with based on their own uniqueness often times. they want to create a better world (internally or externally) with these chosen prospects.

⋆ scorpio wants to dissect these fears and the soul-level consciousness of their potentials. they often store it away for themselves to reflect or use later while aquarius wants to show their potentials this underbelly. causing their potentials to see aquarius as a leader and their own personal oracle, in a way.

⋆ while being ruled by uranus and saturn may ground them about their own gifts and talents to the world, saturn also restricts their emotional field to first consider the reasonable and long-term (often to their more fling-ilk relationships).

⋆ the authority of saturn and the authority of pluto are intimidating in the way that they are final, uncontrollable and just in nature. the authority of mars and uranus are intimidating in the way they are chaotic and often unreadable.

⋆ these natives can be seen as possible more comfortable with themselves than their scorpion counterpart, but they are both comfortable with their truths enough to display it but reserve a lot for themselves. 'i want you, but i do not need you' kind of energy that is often irresistible, if cultivated properly.

⋆ there is an outward care for the tangible and intangible, the material and the spiritual. aquarius educates on the metaphysical, the value of the mysterious, the value of the soul. it's their perceived authority that catches the eyes of their prospects.

⋆ the pitfalls of aquarius' seduction will always be that they are concerned with their best interest first. they are well aware of their gifts. this and saturn makes them more likely to see through oncoming foolery and put themselves first if need be (rightfully so). this may also pull potentials out of the dreaminess that accompanies the attention of the aquarius native.

⋆ the reaction of the others they attract might be like the way a peacock attracts mates. the glittering colors and the wonder that overcomes their onlookers to stop and stare, to make them pause and consider the beautiful things in the world. the magnetism is shiny and appeals to our regressive brain while the all too serious energy of saturn looms waiting to strike.

— conclusion ⭒

⭒ overall, it is the temptation of a world beyond the surface level. however, being fixed, these signs will always resort of these ways of attraction, to these modes of thinking because it works best for them.

⭒ they are steady and persistent, this takes the shape as their commitment to themselves and their potentials, their intensity and authority, their awareness of the unknown and their tie to it what connects them and produces this “fatal attraction”.

⭒ these two signs and their energy dominant natives harness their attraction by harnessing both the seen and unseen and revealing themselves slowly to their potentials like a spiritual strip-tease. the true prize of knowing them totally.

hi hi ! thanks for reading <3 this was kind of simple imo but i think the corresponding aspects of these two signs are so fascinating. they are both pretty intense and serious in their own ways but ultimately transformative. if you were interested by this or inspired, please leave a like / reblog ! xx

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Astrology Observations II

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Disclaimer, these are observations I have made through personal experience and thorough research, observations also vary depending on other natal placements involved

doesn’t resonate ≠ untrue 

♅ Virgos tend to represent the trad wife far more than people assume taurus does, and that’s because Virgos ability to uphold their life (at least on the outside) tend to attract men who want a wife that can keep them on track

Some Virgo women tend to also attract gay men unfortunately 😭, again I think Virgos just seem like the perfect trad Wife and it will attract closeted men like flies. This isn’t to say all your partners will be closeted but the ones who are overly aggressive on your role in the relationship might be.

♅ Gemini moon children develop QUICKLY. These are usually the kids who weird you out with their extensive knowledge and self awareness that seemingly comes out of nowhere. The mercury influence allows them to digest many topics which in turn has Gemini moon children mentally developing at a faster pace than their peers

I’ve also observed Gemini moons are those annoying kids in your class that are a lot smarter and a bit condescending to others intelligence, not because that’s just the way they are, but their mercurial moon needs constant stimulation, and with a combination of their rapid growth you’ll see them climbing academic ranks which in turn can make them dislike school if they are not progressing at a speed they like. 

♅ Scorpio moons have a tendency to see the worst in every situation/person which can be a nasty habit, but this isn’t out of judgment, rather they don’t like to give people the benefit of the doubt. They don’t like to be screwed over and their best bet is to think of the worst scenario possible. 

♅ Aquarius Venus who are flaky in relationships and constantly cheat will eventually have karma handed back to them, usually in the form of being in their mid 40’s still single.

Aquarius Venus flaky reputation does stem from the fact that it is a Saturn influenced placement, as well as being fixed. It’s not that they hate any type of restriction to their freedom but rather to what extent you restrict them to. They can and will jump quickly into relationships but if they see any glimpse of possessive or controlling attributes they will leave. Again because it’s fixed and Saturn influenced Aquarius Venus knows once it settles down that’s it, they’re not going anywhere, that’s why they’re so scattered to find the right person who fits their criteria. 

♅ Moon/Sun harshly aspecting Neptune is the embodiment of “I hate my Mom/Dad, but I love her/him too”. Neptune harshly aspecting these planets can cause a huge wall of misunderstanding between parent and child, but Neptune blurs the lines so deep that the individual sees them “through rose colored glasses” and if incapable of harboring hate. I would even say there could be nights where these people will look back and remember their past relationships (Neptune = Dreams)

♅ 10h placements can sometimes struggle maintaining relationships due to the very contradicting nature of the Midheaven and ascendant. Usually people will perceive them to be very different from who they actually are.

This is also why they struggle with their self esteem (the natural square to the ascendant). Sometimes they feel like they need to keep up an image to satisfy others and that isn’t someone who they truly are ��

In synastry this also points to partners trying to change who they are/make choices for them because they think it’s “for the best” or “what’s good for them”. 

♅ Every Virgo rising I’ve met always gives me a small lesson on why astrology isn’t real but follow up with a “but can you read my chart I want to see if it’s true 👀”. I truly believe it’s the 12h Leo which makes them secretly a little self centered (hence the interest for things like astrology to attempt and figure themselves out) but the mercurial ascendant will always make them skeptical 😭

♅ Saturn conjunct Jupiter natives is a dangerous fire sometimes. I’ve noticed if they haven’t learned to balance this aspect in their chart, the people around them can suffer their warm and cold attitude. It’s almost as if one second you could be hysterically laughing in class together, and the next second they immediately stop and ask you to be serious and finish your work. WHERE DID THE VIBE GOOO?? The key here is moderation in whichever sign/house this is in

♅ Whoever said Neptune in hard aspect to Venus needs to practice saying positive affirmations (especially to Venus related topics) to themselves in the mirror was SO correct. Neptune indeed does reflect lies to you and reaffirming yourself in the mirror breaks that spell. I don’t think I’ve felt so beautiful since I started doing this. 

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the strongest astrological placements to have

some astrological placements seem to have a greater influence on a birth chart. the energy of these placements can be so big that it overshadows other energies present in the chart.

here are some of them:

virgo venus: this one considerably weakens venusian energy in the chart. people who have this placement are less likely to be interested in having romantic relationships because they are always thinking about their responsibilities or their work. venus is all about socializing, making relationships work and our sense of self-worth. while virgo is all about what needs to be done, how it can be useful, and how things can be improved. virgo is very demanding, both with itself and others. it's focused the negative, which makes this energy difficult to satisfy. this energy makes one humble and self-effacing in order to serve something bigger than itself. even the light of a leo sun — which is the most powerful, is dampened when venus is in virgo.

pisces venus: venus' energy is at its peak when it's in pisces. which is logical since it is the sign of its exaltation. that means that venus' qualities such as love, charm, or capacity for compromise are expressed with more freedom. this placement can even make strong, independent types such as aries or aquarius susceptible to toxicity or abuse. pisces has a boundless compassion. it sees only the good in people and can sacrifice itself for long before realizing it's being taken advantage of.

leo moon / mercury / venus: the self-expression of an individual with this placement is without limits. this makes one extremely open, even when they shouldn't be. they consider their opinions, thoughts or emotions as extremely valuable. even withdrawn types such as cancer or virgo — who tend to open up only to people they are close to, become open books to complete strangers. leo is all about pride. so when you have this placement, you wouldn't want to hide the things that make you you for anything.

scorpio placements: having scorpio placement makes one extremely secretive. when in foreign territory, scorpio placements become quiet and start observing. they are evasive when asked about their experience. this is a defense mechanism; scorpio placements have been victims to the hands of people they trusted in the past, which has led them to become very suspicious. trust is hardly given for a scorpio. they even keep things away from those closest to them because the person they trust the most with their secrets is themselves. their secretiveness makes them very mysterious and magnetic. they're like a secret you want to bring to light. one thing that is also worth noting is that scorpio energy makes you really obsessive with the object of your desires. you can't rest until you have obtained that thing or person you want, which can become quite dangerous and unhealthy.

capricorn mars: this is mars' exaltation. this makes even the most lighthearted and free-spirited person extremely ambitious and confident in their capacity to reach their goals. mars is about action & capricorn — which is ruled by saturn, is about time and endurance. this person can achieve great heights because they know that to become great, you have to put in the time and effort. their accomplishments and the recognition that they get from them are the things that matter most to a capricorn mars.

leo rising: people this placement is always catching attention and admiration to them without meaning to. which is understandable as they are followed by the sun. they always have something unique about them. maybe it's their elaborate style, their laughter, their dignified air, or the warmth that they exude that makes them stand out. whatever it is, it's always out for everyone to see. it's a placement that has fought very hard to build themselves and their confidence, which has also made them super proud and uncompromising. by almost never letting their guards down, they might lose chances at love and friendship. leo rising is supposed to choose themselves in this lifetime anyway — and they will, even if the rest of the chart says otherwise.

aquarius sun / moon: these ones are so easy to spot. they seem to be from a distant world that no one knows about. there's just this unusual and disconnected vibe to them. wherever they appear, they act differently. their style, manner of speech, or opinions are always opposite to those of the majority. you never know what to expect from these placements, as they are very unpredictable.

aries placements: people with aries placement are assertive and usually don't beat around the bush. they are not scared of causing drama — they actually like it. aries is the first sign of the zodiac which makes these placements kinda childish and impatient. like children, they don't hesitate to express their most random thoughts, even if they aren't appropriate. you can count on them to always tell you the hard truth, because they value honesty above all. these placements can make you active and impatient which makes it difficult to wait for things. but the good thing is that it pushes you to go after their desires instead of waiting for them to magically appear onto your lap.

gemini / sagittarius sun / moon: these people talk a lot. and i mean a looot. it's honesly tiring sometimes. but they usually know what they are talking about as they have taken the time to actually learn it. their curiosity is endless, and so is their desire to spread that knowledge with everyone they encounter. they are always learning about a new skill or subject and trying to become better at practicing or teaching it. you can spot one of these placements when a quiet person finally opens up you, and endlessly talks about their interests with passion & excitement.

capricorn moon: this placement can dampen someone's self-expression. capricorn moons were forced to grow up quickly and lock away their inner child. they don't express their emotions easily — except for anger, as it's the only one that allows them to feel safe. they weren't really allowed to be vulnerable as children & instead were forced to work and make themselves useful. today they feel this high level of pressure — which is mostly self-inflicted, and that pushes them to use themselves and produce until they are completely and depressed and burnt out. it's hard for these people to let go and actually enjoy life.

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Pluto in the 5th house

Pluto in the 5th house natives are intensely devoted to their pastimes and their talents. Pleasure and fulfillment are their goals and sometimes addictions. They crave excitement, and maybe even danger. Works hard, plays hard. Can be impulsive or indulgent at times. Finds pleasure in being daring. What is most palatable to them is what hasn’t been done or expressed before, or if it has, doing it in a novel, groundbreaking way. Strong individuality at the core. Electrified by desire. Many hobbies. Drawn to art, literature, film, especially film noir, books. Needs to do something fun to feel alive. Likes giving a show or performance, dazzling or surprising people. Understands that sex, like life, like gender, like sexuality, like identity, can be a performance. Relishes in that. May find joy in fashion or trends or theater. Constantly searching for the perfect entertainment—emotionally enriching, fulfilling, pleasurable experiences. Creating and innovating and exploring themselves and the world, discovering their bodies, experimenting with ideas, and navigating their identities gives them purpose and a sense of drive. There is a deep need to self-define who they are. Like Pluto in the 11th or Pluto in aspect to Uranus natives, they have to innovate. Excel. Reimagine creative possibilities. These natives transform themselves and push the boundaries of something through their art or their bodies, through affirming their sexuality and owning their bodies and their uniqueness. Sex is not something to be ashamed of. Showing their bodies is not somebody to be ashamed of.

They are fiercely passionate people, as individuals, as lovers and friends, and they often chase after people who appear as a challenge to them. This excites and thrills them: the notion of going after and getting someone who is supposed to be unattainable for them or untouchable. However, if not careful, they can become entangled with romantic partners who are unsuitable for them. Pleasure often comes with pain, for these people. May have submissive or masochistic or dominant tendencies. May like to seduce rather than being the one seduced. May play hard-to-get. Dating may be fun to them, so much it becomes a game, a cat-and-mouse affair, though, make no mistake, they are not the mousy ones running away. They are the bold and in-your-face, confident ones doing the chase. They almost like something more when they can’t have it. Once they get it, they may get bored, for the fun’s gone—and the thrill of the chase. The key with these natives is to keep the attraction alive. There is a great need for these individuals to be recognized for their talents and their unique abilities. They feel very strongly about the work they create and produce and the energy they provide. Their contribution is always great. They can be as passionate about sex as a Pluto in the 8th person can be with death or a Pluto in the 12th person with the paranormal or mystical or absurd. May have to overcome their attitudes about themselves; self-limiting beliefs can become self-fulfilling prophecies. Obsessions are common and constant. May be obsessed with romantic interests, self-gain, prosperity, love, or their personal hobbies or recreational activities. They are most happy when they’re active and doing something. Invests a lot of effort and time into what they love, as well as makes sacrifices to keep doing what they love. May experience fatal attraction or encumber fatal accidents if they meet the wrong people. They are not necessarily the obsessive one in their relationship; with this placement comes the danger of partners or even random strangers from afar being obsessed with them, studying their movements, tracking them, and yearning to have them, wanting to conquer them or have sex with or harm them. Others tend to find natives with this placement irresistibly attractive, physically or sexually; they may find them drop-dead sexy, say they’d kill for them or die for them or claim they can’t live without them or either they will kill themselves if they can’t have them or if they can’t have them, no one can or will, etc. There’s a danger of these natives being abused or manipulated in intimate relationships, or experiencing dating scares or even intimate partner violence (IPV).

These natives can turn people on without trying. Others may misinterpret their casual actions as inviting or welcoming sexual undertones, and may be very suggestive. Some of these natives are naturally flirtatious, but just because they’re nice or flirty doesn’t mean they’re coming on to you or asking for some sort of sexual favor, or wanting it. These individuals can be taken advantage of sexually or be sexually harassed by people who sometimes don’t even recognize their actions fall under the umbrella of sex harassment. These natives can then feel violated or used or dehumanized. Sure, there are some that like role play in the bedroom and will willingly be your sex toy or plaything, but if so, on their terms only—they will vocalize this and make it clear to you. Don’t assume they are hypersexual beings just because you interpret them as being sexual or unafraid of and willing to embrace their sexuality. Even if they are, that’s their call and it’s not for you to judge. And you need to respect people’s boundaries and privacy and ask for consent. Also, it’s never okay to sexualize someone. That being said, these people may enjoy freaky sex or sexual games. And they might be flattered by others showing/demonstrating interest, even sexual, in them. But remember, they call the shots! Even when they’re choosing to take the backseat and let somebody else run the show, it’s by choice; it’s because they wanted to and only because they wanted to. These natives might alternate between being a top and a bottom, being dominant and submissive, or might have a favorite role. May be involved in a dangerous but thrilling, secret love affair, or may enjoy no-strings attached sexual arrangements and low-key, down-low, covert hookups. Like Pluto in the 8th, they might endure sexual trauma in their lifetime or be seen as a freak in the sheets. Very seductive natives. Their desire may increase when nobody knows who they’re seeing or dating/who they’re sleeping or hooking up with. These natives love to feel desirable. They need or crave partners and friends who make them feel good about themselves and celebrate them; they need to feel celebrated. Sometimes, there is a danger of having stalkers with this placement or needing to take out a restraining order, or several. I have observed this pattern several times within people I know, in fact, one person I know had to take out over 5 restraining orders in 2 years because random men became obsessed with her after seeing her social media posts and began sending creepy notes saying they were going to **** her and DM’ing her uncomfortable messages explicitly stating their intent. Some people with this placement may experience being followed or harassed or catcalled or propositioned, especially by people they don’t know. That is the dark side of Pluto in the 5th. Others I know with this placement have experienced pretty intense, toxic, all-or-nothing, soul-consuming affairs, the whole “when it’s good, it’s good and when it’s bad, it’s bad” shebang. Natives with this placement should really exercise caution and always be vigilant. I have also seen this placement commonly along the charts of sex workers or sex-positive individuals. You see a lot of body positivity among these natives as well. Natives with these placements, however, may be seen in a derogatory light—they may be slut-shamed and considered a “thot,” “skank,” “hussy,” or “harlot” or be considered ultra-femme or hypermasuline. Some might love being considered a sex symbol, but for others, it’s yet another way wherein they are ostracized or penalized for their sexual freedom, values, way of living, or sexual/bodily appetites and energies, and it can be a source of shame and trauma for them. They may be called out or exposed or even “cancelled” due to public outrage about how they choose to live, and can be accused of not being classy or being “low-class.” Their worth and bodies can be insulted, demeaned, and degraded. Their sexuality can be intensely scrutinized or criticized, especially if sex is their speciality.

This tendency can be amplified among natives who possess Pluto conjunct Lilith, as well as the public shaming or backlash. More on Pluto in the 5th house: These natives may be the typical tortured artist. Part of them likes to feel tormented, and other parts of them find peace or intense pleasure/satisfaction in playing that role. Role-playing of any kind tends to be a source of amusement or entertainment for them. They love to feel entertained and they are natural entertainers. They are intensely focused individuals and may shine in investigative work or artistic fields. They are very aware of their own flaws, and thus sympathize easily with others’ struggles and demons. Can get into trouble if they repress their desires. This placement needs to express what pleasures them in order to live happily. Creating something or beginning a project tends to make them feel alive. They feel most powerful when they feel the most beautiful and assured in their abilities. They’re most confident in themselves when they feel confident in their bodies. May not have issues flaunting their bodies because it belongs to them and they don’t see it as something to hide or cover from anyone else’s eyes as others may feel. They ooze confidence and fierceness. Taking ownership of who they are makes them feel strong. I always see this placement linked to gambling and other addictions but I don’t think this placement suffers more than anyone else does, in that regard. That being said, they can run into trouble if they go beyond dabbling in recreational substances or activities and turn it into a habit or vice instead of a mere hobby or distraction. So much of their selves are channeled into what they pay attention to and what they expend their energy in or use, including how they express or don’t express what intrigues and empowers or stifles/inhibits and disempowers them. It’s important for them to stay away from anything that makes them feel disembodied. They are more capable than they could ever dream of, far more than the world will ever know. If they have insecurities, they either nurse it and keep it a secret from the public, or disclose it as a way to get over it/overcome it, take their power back and ensure it can never be used against them. They’re very open about their desires. Very gifted, charming, and persuasive. Charismatic. Tend to be extroverted, people-oriented. They like to tease and please/pleasure (and sometimes toy/play with) people. Unbelievable capacity to self-transform. Many gifts and tricks. Very spontaneous people. Tremendous willpower. The power to act and determine, the power to seize at will. The power to create, the power to manifest. They can often speak what they want into existence, but they must be careful, for the opposite is true and they can easily speak what they most fear into reality.

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That light that fills our lives with emotion, passion and why not… some spice and drama.

Leo Rising: The noble heart

Natives with a charm and charisma perceptible from a distance. People who seem to have it all, but have come a long way to assert themselves. A strong will and a desire to go far in anything they are passionate about. Friendly personality but unreachable appearance, royal vibes but deep down they hide a perfectionist and demanding essence with themselves. Many times they give the impression of being difficult to approach, and it is that they tend to project themselves as distant, they seem to be very well on their own, but behind that independence there is nothing more than a noble, generous heart and willing to love madly. They may have felt very vulnerable when they were younger, causing them to become independent and defensive. 

They have an incredible eye for detail, especially those related to aesthetics, particularly their own. They can earn the title of models or very attractive people and it is just for Virgo in the 2nd house. This overlay makes them pay close attention to their style, their appearance is very important to them and they tend to be too critical of their body and personality, let's remember that this house also shows self-esteem. It is very likely that they pamper themselves with gifts or go shopping constantly, as this is a way to improve their self-esteem. Their self-esteem may have been damaged in the past, they may feel less strong or capable than they are. At some point in their lives they could question their value as people excessively, if they deserved some things or if they were worth it. Behind that facet of an empowered person there is someone with a couple of insecurities and a self-critical tendency that sometimes seems to be very noisy. They tend to have in mind that they want money from a young age, and many of them can have a very strong ability to earn and manage finances. Finding a mutable sign on this cusp can indicate various economic ups and downs at an early age, but being an earth sign it augurs stability. Increases the possibility of having multiple sources of income. They are very careful people with their possessions, however they can be very generous people, it is very likely that they will financially support those who need it most. They stand out for their attention to detail with others, they love to help others selflessly. They are people who have sincerity, kindness and hard work very much in mind, these values ​​being of the utmost importance to them.

They are excellent and charming communicators, they speak in such an engaging and wonderful way that it seems that you can fall in love in just the first conversation. I welcome you to the paradise of Libra in the 3rd house. These natives love to talk, no matter how serious they are because of other placements, giving their opinion and communicating is of the utmost importance, they love to feel curious about things, they love to learn new things and experiment with new things but that they provide them with a certain degree of comfort. . Although it may be hard for them to admit it, many of them can think of love in a very dreamy way, they dream of finding a partner with whom they connect in every way. And speaking of connections, this overlay makes them be people with many connections or with the possibility of being liked by others more easily than the rest. And it is not that they are necessarily social butterflies [which some are], but rather that they always treat people with respect, and that is what guarantees them a place in the hearts of others. They are very careful with their relationships, particularly friendships. In case of having siblings, this placement can give us one of two scenarios, either having a harmonious relationship with them [since it is ruled by Venus] or having a somewhat subtle type of competition for others, they may be constantly compared and even some tinge of envy from the sibling to the native. They could have an interest or huge ability to appreciate art, and in fact, they can be very talented at it. They have a talent for any creative expression, especially writing, they can become the most moving poets you will ever meet. 

Behind that smile, behind that charm, they hide an emotional intensity that is often difficult for even them to understand. With this Scorpio in the 4th house we see people with lasting emotions, when they know they want something or are sure of something from the bottom of their hearts, there is nothing to stop them. They will seem very carefree, spontaneous, but deep down these natives may fear going deeper into their emotions and even into some experiences of their childhood. They are very afraid of being vulnerable to people, opening their hearts can be difficult. They are afraid of feeling a need to be with someone because their independence and need for autonomy would prevent them, they are afraid of opening their hearts and being ignored or abandoned. Despite this, natives need emotional security, and deep down they crave emotional intensity and durability, meaningful connections, and a devoted commitment to another person in whatever bond. They feel comfortable with direct and totally sincere people with their emotions, who do not make them doubt, who give them constant intense displays of emotions. They hate to doubt, they hate what is not sure and what confuses them. They ask for clarity, because they know perfectly well that they give clarity and honesty in return. They tend to fear this side of themselves, they fear seeing themselves as extremists or very intense, but deep down they are just people who know exactly what they want and know how to get away from what they don't want. Even if they express what they think, being totally open with someone makes them insecure, they don't like that a person knows more about them than they do about the other person, deep down they hold in their hearts a desire of someone loving each part of their identity, of their minds and each part of their body. With them you will not have any doubt. They will give you certainty and they will be there for you. Even if you don't believe it at first, they will give you that security and you will find in them the most loyal and committed partner, friend and person.

Heaven is an experience that can be brought down to earth, and this overlay is the absolute epitome, as Sagittarius in the 5th house gives some lucky mortals a taste of what it's like to be taken to the highest and most satisfying pinnacle of heaven. Heavens. These natives change a lot when they fall in love, they are filled with positivity, they radiate happiness and it becomes practically impossible for them to hide their love for someone. They see love as a learning experience and a way to reconnect with the purest form of their emotions. They intoxicate their partners with the most genuine happiness, with unforgettable and positive experiences and have a devoted way of loving even with spiritual overtones. They are looking for a partner with whom to destroy the routine, someone with whom to have an incredible time talking from the deepest to the pointless, but they not only ask for that, they want a spiritual union that makes them improve as people not only them, but to their partners. They have a great appeal, spread a lot of joy and radiate charm. The fun with them is guaranteed and their confidence makes them unconsciously put themselves under the spotlight of many. They may have great luck attracting people with whom the feeling is mutual. They will always be interested in topics that allow them to delve deeper into themselves. There is a touch of mystery in that daring smile and in that defiant gaze, there is a charm that makes it impossible for you to look away. Their playful attitude can confuse you, since they want to be taken seriously.

If there's one thing they don't get as much credit for, it's their high level of devotion and great work ethic, this is where a beloved Capricorn in the 6th house comes into action. They are stronger and more solid people than they think, they inspire confidence and it seems that they are sure of every move they make, they always have their priorities in mind and they hate wasting their time doing things that are not worth it. Sometimes they will prefer to spend time on their own doing things that genuinely add something to them or they like. When they consider that something is really worthwhile, they will invest all their time and effort in it, hence they can stand out a lot in their work life. This house also governs routines, being ruled by Saturn we can see how difficult it can be for them to do a routine for them, such as being on a diet, exercising or simply scheduling things, but what we can also see is a lot of dedication once you have defined that it is worthwhile or that it will do them good. They are very demanding of themselves, and tend to place high expectations on who they should be and become, and can sometimes be just as demanding of others, especially if they are in a position of authority at work. They are people very prone to low health due to stress, stress that can cause bone pain, muscle pain or headaches. Melancholia and periods of little motivation can be something frequent in them.

They leave a unique and indelible mark on other people, fill your life with novelty and make you feel such a renewed freedom, thus showing their Aquarius in the 7th house. They unconsciously project themselves as very unique people, it is not surprising that they stand out from the crowd more easily. They seem to be very intelligent, to be somewhat detached and to be fantastic with no one by their side. Despite this, they want a lasting connection and one in which they can be totally transparent, reflecting their two rulers, Saturn and Uranus. They may be somewhat fearful of intimacy, the idea of ​​someone being very close to them and then hurting or leaving them. Some of these natives may have an avoidant attachment, appearing to fear getting too close to someone and acting friendly only. Precisely because of this they do not reveal much of themselves to others and remain mysterious to a certain extent. Despite having great social skills and being able to connect with people no matter how different they are, they have a hard time feeling like they fit in with people or that they click with someone. But when they feel that, the intrigue devours them from the inside, and you value very much who they connect with on such a level. Despite their playful and aloof personality, they are among the most loyal once they decide to settle down, since they are ruled by Saturn after all. They need their space a lot, of course, and they are fascinated by people who are the same or more independent than they are, they are usually fascinated by intelligent people and with something unique about them, someone difficult to decipher.

Seduction, charm and a sexy and enchanting nature. Leo Rising people seem to live for the exciting, the fun and the passionate, but is this always the case? Yes. It is. Only that in this sector, it takes on the deepest and most idealizing tints, and this is when we meet their Pisces in the 8th house. They seek to live a romance that allows them to connect and get to know their partner in detail, to be oneself with the one they love. They don't just see sex as something passionate, they see it as something magical, something that allows the relationship to deepen. Love for them is a way to escape with their partner, to take them to a perfect world in which they know only the most pleasant sensations. However, these natives are highly selective with the people with whom they seek emotional and physical intimacy, they can even be seen as picky, this is due to two factors: one of them is their surprising social skills, it does not mean that they are very extroverts, but they know how to read people, both what they really are and the hidden truth of their hearts. And secondly, that they can be somewhat distant to the idea of ​​being very intimate with someone that is just “anyone”. These natives are excellent at making their partner's fantasies come true, they know how to make you feel desired, loved and very attractive. Sex with them can be addictive and they are people who easily become an obsession for you.

Contrary to what could be intuited with this placement, having Aries in the 9th house can be quite a spiritual overlay. Let’s remember that Aries = "I am". This position tells us that the person takes their beliefs, their religion or their faith seriously, they are people who are their beliefs and have them very present in their day to day. They will defend their point of view with skill and endless arguments, they won't let you make them feel embarrassed or bad for having a certain belief, and they can quickly lose interest in people who make skeptical or harsh comments about their beliefs. They are people who can find fun in drama, they may like to spice things up with a friendly debate or teasing. This house also represents travel, so the journeys that the native undertakes can be very beneficial for them, since it will bring more self-awareness and small transformations. At university the native can stand out a lot, he can have the ambition or desire to be either the best in the class or the best version of himself, this thought can make many have a feeling of competitiveness with the native. Something that this placement also affects is that it will cause the native to have conflicts, differences or discussions with teachers. They hate feeling or appearing like cowards, they like the idea of ​​having well-defined ideas and opinions.

Grace, elegance, good aesthetics and a beauty that steals your attention immediately are some of the flexes of Taurus in the 10th house. In the eyes of others, these natives seem to have it all in life, they seem to be too perfect to be true, and they can give the impression of being in the best point of their life or being very stable people. Rich vibes, many of them could give the impression of being people with a high social or economic status. Being ruled by Venus, favors the rapid acceptance and respect of the public, the labor progress can be something easy, fast and comfortable for these natives. They are very hardworking people and dedicated to their work and despite being very loved people, with connections or good relationships with the rest, they can be somewhat reserved with their lives. They share trivial things, but never what is very deep. They can have a touch of mystery in their aura and put some distance. They actively seek ways to feel like jobs, to have a job that gives them all the luxuries they want and the life they deserve. They are looking to finally have a stable point in their lives.

They come to stand out a lot for their intellect and that ease to connect with people regardless of distance or anything else that seems to be a limitation, their Gemini in the 11th house makes them people with great possibilities to succeed in something related to the internet or the networking. They seem to know a lot about many subjects and have the most creative and fascinating ideas, thus earning the title of original people who put things in trend. They are fun and chatty friends, the ones you spend hours texting or calling with, the one you ask for opinions and advice. They value communication a lot, for them it is very important to have constant communication with their friends, keeping in touch regardless of the circumstances is a priority for them. It is very likely that at some point in their life they will face two-faced friendships, someone who behaved very friendly with them but turned out to be envious of them for their brightness or talk about them behind their backs. This placement favors a smarter choice of friends after that kind of event. They usually look after their friends and despite their playful and carefree behavior, deep down they look out for the well-being of their friends.

An internal emotional struggle, needs or fears, feeling or holding back. Is it too much? My emotions overwhelm you as much as they overwhelm me? Cancer in the 12th house makes your inner world make you stop a little bit and think a lot. Projecting yourself as a person who is charming, quite charming in fact, but who cannot be vulnerable in any way. They do not allow themselves to depend on someone, they do not allow themselves to be seen as weak or as someone who needs a lot from others, but at the same time they fear that their needs or requests will be ignored. Past experiences that get stuck in them, ones where they felt ignored, abandoned, disappointed or betrayed in some way. You are afraid to experience all this again, but you wish, you long to find a sense of home, to feel the warmth of someone holding you and saying that everything will be alright, you long for complete acceptance, someone who accepts and is amazed by that sweet heart that you protect from all that you perceive as a threat. They want to finally feel like they can let their guard down and allow themselves to feel without any inhibition. Melancholy can be a recurring enemy, especially on nights when they may have difficulty sleeping because of this and insomnia. The family can be a complex issue for you, you may not feel their support, have a changing and unstable relationship with them or feel little warmth. It is very likely that the words they [family or people you considered special] said to you many years ago are still etched in your mind, phrases that, although indifferent to them, had an intense weight on you. As time passed, you no longer feared being on your own so much, in fact it is very likely that you have found comfort in solitude at some point in your life and have only allowed yourself to be completely vulnerable when the spotlights go out and the eyes no longer are on you, you may not even allow yourself to be vulnerable in the comfort of your loneliness. Take the time to do with your heart what you do with the hearts and lives of others, lighten it up and let it fully express itself. Allow it to be happy, allow you to feel and allow yourself to live.

[antiloveenergy]

Hello Ellysian! What an incredible name. My question is what shows secret or hidden admirers from the natal chart?

Hello love, thank you so much for the compliment. In my opinion some aspects or placements are the following ->

Having hidden admirers

🖤Leo in the big 6. Because of their charm, beauty, inner fire and their commanding and strong personality. 

🖤Scorpio  in the big 6. Because of their intensity and magnetism, people don’t dare to come out from the shadows because they can be easily intimidated by the native. 

🖤Capricorn  in the big 6. Because of their professionalism, power and the fact that other people think they are superior in some way. May attract people that don't want to disappoint them.

🖤Neptune or Pluto in the 5th/11th houses axis [or ruling those houses]. As you may know, I have a theory that consists in the 5th house showing how your admirers perceive you in the same way that the 11th house. 11th house shows how your fans are, in this case, the kings of mystery [Neptune and Pluto] can be great indicators of hidden fans. While the 5th house is the way that your fans perceive you, in this case, powerful and somehow distant, by that they keep themselves from being loud about their admiration in some cases. 

🖤Neptune in the/ruling 7th house. They easily attract people who are very drawn to them [almost dreaming and fantasizing about them], but usually keep it on the low. 

🖤Pluto in the/ruling 7th house. Similar to the previous point, these natives attract people that are very drawn at them but are more private about it. Sometimes those admirers can reach a certain degree of fixation or intense attraction. 

🖤Pluto in the 1st house. It is very usual in these natives, as they are seen as mysterious or unapproachable in some way. They intimidate and hypnotize you at the same time.

🖤Pluto in the 10th house. Their first impression is very strong, they catch your attention and somehow you don't want to screw things with them, so many don't go talk to them, they are able to make people shy easily.

🖤Venus in the 12th house. These are especially for romantic interests, they can attract many people without realizing it and they will choose to look at them from afar, they may be afraid to make a first move or ruin the chances with them.

🖤Neptune or Pluto in the 12th house. The 12th house shows people that we subconsciously attract, so the presence of these two planets [perfectly the protagonists of this post] tells us that they tend to attract people who give them a lot of importance in their lives, very into them but many times [or at least at the beginning of this "connection"] they prefer to keep it to themselves.

🖤Lilith in the 1st, 7th, 8th, 10th or 11th house.

🖤Venus/Moon inconjunct Pluto or Neptune [especially if Venus or Moon are in Air houses, 3rd, 7th or 11th].

🖤Any of the angles [1st, 4th, 7th, 10th] in Leo degrees -05°, 17°, 29°- or Scorpio degrees -08°, 20°-. The image of the native is something that easily fascinates other people, however it can also intimidate in a certain way, so it is usual to see many people drawn at them who prefer not to tell them anything.

🖤Midheaven-Pluto/Neptune aspects, especially tense ones like squares, oppositions or conjunctions.

🖤Sun-Pluto / Sun-Neptune tense aspects.

🖤Other indicators are stelliums in the 8th and/or 12th house.

🖤Being either a Neptune or a Pluto dominant may have a lot to do with this.

🖤Ruler of the 7th house in the 8th/12th house. Ruler of the 10th house in the 8th/12th house. Ruler of the 11th house in the 8th/12th house

[antiloveenergy]

heyy elysian, ur blog is one of my favs on astro tumblr! you write so pretty and eloquently 🥹🫶 can you do a post about sun in the 11th house?? <3 thank youuu

Hello love, it makes me happy to know that. Thanks for your words. It'd be a pleasure for me to write about it.

Sun in the 11th house

These natives are endowed with great intelligence and charisma, a charisma that often goes unnoticed by themselves. This placement of the Sun indicates that they can become known, popular or loved by others (enhanced if Jupiter or Venus are making a conjunction/trine to Sun). For them it is very important that no one feels left out, judged or ignored, they are great at making people feel happy and they have a gift, a natural brilliance to unite the people around them regardless of their differences. A unique ability to motivate other people and make them feel better about themselves, they have a good understanding of how people work. They can be great leaders, fair and with a great reputation. People can see them as nice and special people because of some ability or way of thinking, and they can become highly admired by others. People, especially your friends, can put you on a kind of pedestal. Friendship is very important to them, and they focus and take the time to be great friends. Lighthearted personality and easy to approach, they hate drama and can be very rational when solving a problem. They stand out for being altruistic, and they know how to cooperate very well with others. Despite their rational personality, these people are dreamers, they dream big. These people are happier not necessarily when they are surrounded by many people, rather when they feel that those they interact with are taken into account, validated and motivated. For them it is essential that both they and those they love give the same amount of energy, devotion and joy in the relationship.

They often feel lonely or cut off from other people. A feeling of being invisible, of not fitting in or being on their own most of the time, others feel they connect very well with them and can be themselves freely, but natives hardly feel like they click with anyone. They may experience a lot of loneliness at some point in their life and may have psyched themselves up to get used to it. Some of them have a tendency to overthink their value as a person and what awaits them in the future, they may present some kind of anxiety. The relationship with the father will depend on the aspects that other planets make with the Sun, since in this house it can indicate a father with whom there is a kind of distance or with whom there are differences. In the best of cases, the native can see not only in his father, but in some authority figures, friends and people who encourage them to follow and achieve their goals. If Sun is making lots of hard aspects or if it's afflicted, it may indicate that the native has trouble understanding and/or getting along with the father and authority figures. This placement also suggests that the natives are afraid of failing or feel that they could not achieve their goals, no matter how small (this since 11th house shows aspirations and plans). Many people don't realize that those with this placement can be very demanding of themselves, and if they feel they are failing, their self-esteem will take a hit.

They are a blessing for their friends, many of their friends or people who belong to the same group as them are motivated and happy with their presence. They fill those who love with that glow of hope in life, it seems that they bring back the joy of existing, they are a ray of sunshine for those who have the pleasure of connecting with them. Despite appearing very sociable or even popular in the eyes of others, they are very selective people with the people around them. These people can attract friends with a lot of prestige, fame or they can even have success and joy through a friendship. They are people focused on fulfilling what they propose, on finding happiness in living life, but that is not why they forget others. They avoid locking themselves in their bubble and if they can lend a hand, they will. If the Sun is afflicted, some bad experience with "friends" may cause a deep wound in their ego and self-esteem. This placement endows the native with a self-sufficient personality, someone who does not need another person to feel complete, and can inspire others to have this same mindset. They are people who like to do things their own way, do not like to have things or behaviors imposed on them, enjoy the authentic and can spot fake people from a distance. At a professional level, these natives can become very successful and earn a lot of money after starting their career.

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[antiloveenergy]

Hi! Could you explain Uranus in the 7th house please? I love your blog!

Uranus in the 7th house

These natives unconsciously project themselves as eccentric, unique or superior in some way to the rest. They stand out for their intelligence and that genius to shape their ideas and create wonderful things. They are people who usually leave a very unique mark on others, especially on their partners. They are very authentic and independent people who fear the idea of ​​needing someone, of begging a person. They prefer to be alone than in bad company and can be quite selective when choosing a partner. They are looking for a great mental connection since they hate monotony or getting bored, they do not tolerate routine and they are looking for a partner who gives that touch of emotion to their life. They may have an unconventional view of relationships and marriage, many of them may have bad views of marriage from some of their close ones such as their parents, friends or even acquaintances. Due to how bad they have seen other people have done, they take on the task of doing things differently so as not to repeat that pattern.

The future spouse can be a person who shocks or shocks the native, someone very unique who stands out from the crowd, someone excellent and innovative in their field. It can be a very different person from the native, whether foreign, with different cultures, values ​​or opinions, and there may even be a difference in age. Marriage can bring about a very big change in the native. If you have a badly aspected Uranus, you are likely to marry at a young age or even very hastily. The future partner of the native can help him learn to express himself without fear of what others think, that they project themselves authentically and just be themselves. There can be a great intellectual connection between them and it can be someone with whom they can share their craziest side and ideas. They are usually the breath of fresh air for their partners, these natives give others new sensations and bring a lot of fun to the lives of others. Because of how unique they are, they can have a high position in other’s hearts, they can be admired or very respected. 

Due to their talents and ability to be unique and stand out from the crowd, they can attract enemies or people who deeply envy them. This envy stems from the desire to be like them or even catch up with them. These natives hate generating emotional dependence on others, and on many occasions it is others who can develop it towards the native. People are naturally drawn to them, as their personality is iconic and they're not trying to be someone they're not. They can have many partners or flings throughout their lives, it even seems that they are quickly interested in people, but there is also the risk that they lose interest quickly. These natives, contrary to what is said, are not afraid of commitment, they simply think very well if the other person is what they want to have something in the long term.

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What do you think of saturn in the 11th house ?

Saturn in the 11th house

Of introspective and cautious nature, these people do not usually have very large social circles, they are quite selective with the people they call friends, and this is due to bad experiences they may have had in their youth. From having felt pushed aside, ignored or unimportant by "friends" to possible betrayals. They usually look for friends older than them, with more maturity or experience in life. They are very loyal, constant and supportive friends, although it can be difficult for them to open up emotionally, they are really devoted and altruistic with those they appreciate.

These people are afraid of being rejected, of failure and that their efforts or virtues are not taken into account. They are people who know how to work very well in a team, but they prefer to be alone since after some time socializing, they can feel exhausted. These people are very authentic and can easily win the admiration and respect of other people. They can earn a reputation for being highly professional, ambitious, and excellent at work. They can do an excellent job as leaders and have that quality of looking out for the well-being of everyone, not just their own.

They stand out for being very honest and honorable people, they tend to address others in a frank and concise manner, they are that kind of friends who tell you the hardest truths so that you improve as a person. This overlay favors popularity and being able to establish ties or relationships with influential people who support them on a professional level. It is very likely that they have felt a lot of instability in their early environment and that is why they are currently so focused on finding things or relationships that instead give them a sense of security and stability. Intellect is favored, and things like perception and analytical skills become noticeable in these natives.

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[antiloveenergy]

hi there!! I love your work and I would love to hear your take on Jupiter in the 11th house!

have a wonderful day ❤️

Hello love, I appreciate your words, thank you very much. I hope you have a wonderful day too. ❤️

Jupiter in the 11th house

They are people who see friendship as a gift and they treasure it as such. This placement shows us not only a good friend with whom you have fun and can't stop laughing, but a friend who will do everything in their power to understand you and support you when you need it most. Natives are very altruistic, empathetic people with an inclination to help and support those who they consider need it. They are generous with their time and resources, and often feel called to support their friends and those in their circle. Tendencies to be popular or easily influence other people, they can be that typical friend that everyone turns to if they need advice, since they usually have the role of mentor. Whether extroverted or not, they naturally evoke a welcoming aura and easily make you feel accepted and appreciated. They can attract a lot of luck after helping other people, and they can even attract friendships that benefit and support them a lot [if Jupiter makes good aspects]. If they decide to work in something related to social media, they can get great support from the community and become influential, especially if Pluto, Sun or Moon are making positive aspects.

These people can obtain a lot of profits through their work, accumulating a lot of money, prestige and success. They usually stand out for their ambition and that vision of wanting to achieve great things. They dream big and many of them tend to put many demands on their shoulders. If you make a tense aspect to Mars, it is even possible that they want to achieve a lot in a short time. These people look after the common good, they do what they consider to be right at all times. Many of them can put their ego aside knowing when to leave their most personal desires for later, it should be noted that they know how to deal with people. They are people who take the time to truly understand people and give them attention and encouragement. These people take the time to think about how their actions or words will impact other people, they see beyond their own bubble and have a healthy degree of empathy and compassion. They are excellent at working as a team, because although they find satisfaction in doing their part well, they know how to support and guide others. They are people with a lot of gratitude, they know how to recognize and appreciate the efforts of other people. They really like to contribute to their closest circles, they prefer to spread messages that really support improvement rather than destructive or baseless criticism.

This is one of the most open-minded positions of Jupiter, as it makes the natives not close themselves in their own world where the correct thing is what they know, but rather encourages them to investigate and learn to change and question their perspectives, with the sole purpose of being able to generate theirs. They have that need to expand their visions of the world and nourish their thirst for knowledge. Despite the popularity of these natives and their unique charm, they tend to seek friendships with whom they can overcome those gaps of superficiality, deep friendships that contribute positively to their lives and teach them interesting things. A friendship where there is a fun and exciting bond, but also the quality of a constant companion who supports them as much as they do. They seek to nourish themselves with good, new things and pleasant sensations, so they will hate to create unnecessary drama or this hyper-competitive attitude with friends, opting instead to support each other and be able to rely on each other, while enjoying their company.

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[antiloveenergy]

I love your posts! They’re so in depth/detailed and offer more insight than just stereotypes. Can you cover Neptune in the seventh?

Hello love, thank you so much for your love and support and of course I can talk about it!

Neptune in the 7th house

These natives are a complete enigma to people, even those with whom they are supposed to be close. People tend to see them in a very different way than they really are, and may even have a very idealized vision of them. Unconsciously these natives put a kind of barrier between their true self, their essence and others, this due to a fear of betrayal, introverted tendencies or simply because they do not trust enough to show some facets of their personality. People see in them a person with great versatility, the opinion that others have of them differs a lot since they do not behave in the same way with everyone. There is something magnetic in them and in their personality, people, in addition to seeing them as charismatic, find them charming and compassionate, they see them as people who listen and connect in a unique way with people. These people can earn a reputation for being very sweet and caring once people get to know them well. They greatly dislike excessive drama, unnecessary fights, and people who want excessive attention. When a problem occurs, these natives make their needs clear and listen and respect those of the other party, they like to resolve things peacefully.

They can attract very compassionate partners or people who become addicted to them very easily. Their future spouse is very likely to be a very calm person, someone spiritual who will feel very close to them spiritually and emotionally, they will be a person willing to give everything and do a lot for the native, especially if it's aspecting harmoniously Saturn, Sun, Jupiter or Moon. They will be a person who will make the native change much for the better spiritually, they will be a very delicate person when it comes to dealing with them, and they can even idealize the native a lot. Future spouse will be a very sensitive person, very good with people, someone approachable but somewhat mysterious at the beginning, they will be someone very in tune with their intuition who will quickly understand the emotions and reactions of the native without being told anything. These natives are very romantic, they have dreams and find joy in believing that somewhere in the world there is their soulmate and they will be able to meet them. They need a balanced partner, who is not too idealistic and who is not too practical and boring, since their personality is full of nuances, so they need a little of everything in their relationships.

They hardly fall in love, but once they do, they fall very hard for the other person, even being one of the things they have most on their minds. Despite being very idealistic people in love, they think twice about the idea of ​​marrying someone, some of them dream of marriage, others run away from the idea or are simply indifferent. Whatever your opinion of this, they consider loyalty a must and whether or not they have a piece of paper or a ring on their finger, once they fall in love, loyalty is something that is guaranteed to you. Despite being very romantic and pleasant people, it is very likely that they hardly feel that they connect with other people, they tend to prefer to be on their own and it is likely that from a very young age they have become accustomed to being alone.

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