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i need to organise this blog!!?? and change the layout!?? and start afresh eugghhhh there's just sm to do🫡‼️

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i just hope she heals

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wtfff i thought I lost this acc!?? But it's back!!!????? WE ARE SO BACK🫡🪄💪

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Always feel bad when I see someone say something like "I don't have a disability but I have [something that is a disability but society doesn't treat like one]"

Migraines. Food allergies. GERD. Vision problems. Skin problems. For people that menstruate, conditions that cause irregular and painful cycles. Those are all disabling. Anything that impairs you from functioning or completing a basic life task without accommodation is a disability. Anything that makes you spend days in bed during a flare up is a disability! Not everyone experiences your symptoms and you're not being weak or whiny.

Mental illnesses that people treat as "mainstream" these days like anxiety, depression, or ADHD are still disabilities. Overcoming a massive struggle just to get out of bed, slow down your thoughts, or focus on what you need/want to do is disabling. Starting the day with less mental energy than most people is disabling.

For the migraine people: yes, everyone gets headaches, but no not everyone gets migraines. It's a condition that can be inherited in which our nerves are literally wired differently and more sensitive than someone who doesn't get migraines.

For the food allergy and digestive disorder people: if you eat something your body can't tolerate, you become sick. Doesn't matter if it's a trip to the ER or skin irritation for a few hours, that's a negative response in your body. Going hungry at social events because you can't eat anything, that's not something you just have to grin and bear. Prohibitively expensive or hard-to-find accessible food. Most people have the privilege of not worrying about eating.

For people with abnormal menstrual cycles: you don't have to suck it up because "lots of people get periods, no one likes them, but they all deal with it." Majority of people who get periods don't spend days in bed with debilitating pain or nausea. Your heightened struggle is real. Going months between cycles can increase your risk of health conditions down the line, and it's good to speak to a gynecologist if you have access to one.

If you are feeling discomfort on a regular basis in any part of your body, or if you usually feel unwell after eating, that isn't normal and you deserve medical attention and support

Edit to reiterate this list is not exhaustive!

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Current energy: wonyoung stans advice accounts🤍🕯🩰🫧🐚

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only hot girls love autumn <3

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Philipp Plein embellished satin platform sandals

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sun bleached flies — ethel cain

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I love you Lisa Frank, I love you Hello Kitty, I love you bedazzled everything, I love you Barbie, I love you Bratz Dolls, I love you Totally Spies, I love you animal print, I love you My Little Pony, I love you glittery lipgloss, I love you tacky keychains, I love you gel pens, I love you sparkly stickers, I love you temporary tattoos, I love you Polly Pocket, I love you stick-on diamonds and pearls, I love you jibbitz on funky Crocs, I love you bright colours, I love you princess themed events, I love you clip-on earrings, I love you "girly" "kids'" stuff.

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ig: crepeprimluck / @laballerinarose

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yaarrrr ek anywhere door toh mai bhi deserve karti hu

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honeymoon, rosewater, moonlight, fairytale, dollhouse, daydream, wonderland, sweetheart, stargazing... just beautiful compound words

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how to be angel like? bisous ☁️🌷

always walk/stand with your shoulders back and head held high, as if you had wings + halo

invite the sunlight into your space every morning then again at night with moonlight

have a mantra or say a prayer when you need to be uplifted

add glimmer to your everyday look through makeup, jewelry, and fabric (silk, lace, chiffon etc)— i find those hints of wavering light and softness to be more ethereal as opposed to a full glam shimmer and fits with the subdued nature of angelism

seek inspiration from loved ones

listen to your heart then consult with your thoughts

spritz a signature perfume for a lingering scent, fragrances in the warm and solar families are fit for an angel but anything works if it inspires you (my recs: thierry mugler angel, dior joy, tom ford soleil blanc)

allow yourself to grow into grace and elegance through movement and staying active as best as your body allows you to— dance, yoga, going on a hot girl walk

find time throughout the day to pray, meditate, reflect, or write

respect all people, be kind to animals, take care of nature + the environment

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🎀🐱‍🏍 ribbon and stunt cat lmao

ur first and last recent emojis are ur gender now. mine is 🅱👨‍❤‍💋‍👨