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Remembrance of the Flame adoptable taurs pack Sold

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oh im so cooked

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SO…. STEVEN UNIVERSE FUTURE

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volleyball

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Together

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Jasper: “Then fight me.”

Steven: “Fine!”

Jasper:

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“pink did this!”

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No rest

Credits

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Now they finally get to have each other.

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“She had a scream that could crack the walls.”

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THIS

as someone who has been in abusive relationships, especially with parents, this part of the show really stood out to me. Volleyball kept trying to make excuses for Pink, which is something I’ve done for my mom, and many others, multiple times. I’ve been hurting for a really long time, and some people think that if you’re hurting, you can’t move on. But this scene, THIS SCENE, showed me that it’s okay to hurt. It’s okay. 

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She

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Hahaha I’m a functional adult that can use the phone no problem, yep, definitely *sweats*. In all seriousness, I’ve had a huge problem with doing phone calls most of my life and have made huge progress with it to the point that I can sound almost normal during them. The build up to a call is still pure agony though.

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Why i disagree with nondysphorics getting hrt/surgery

So bit of a long post bc its a story but here we go.

My sister has a friend, lets call them "A" A used to identify as trans. She went on testosterone to get a deeper voice. She stopped though due to the effects. I talked to her the other day about it and here's the summary of our conversation.

Me: So, why did you start testosterone?

A: I wanted a deeper voice. I wanted to be seen as a more masculine lesbian

Me: So, why did you stop?

A: The other effects were making me really depressed and worsening my mood, i really only wanted a deeper voice.

Me: So, do you still go by he/him pronouns?

A: No, i know now that im just a butchy lesbian

Note that A didnt have gender dysphoria at all. She only wanted a deeper voice to be more attractive to women. If she stayed on T then who knows how miserable she would be.

Moral of the story is please for the love of God don't transition if you don't have dysphoria

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I’m tired of cis people misgendering me and then going on to apologize like our entire fucking relationship hinges on it.

120% of the time they’ve been yelled at by a trans person for misgendering them, even if it was an accident. I hate that whenever they mess up- they cringe like they expect me to start screaming. They’re always shocked when I don’t.

-“I’m so sorry I meant he not she, I really didn’t mean it you know sometimes I forget-“

+“It’s okay, I get it, accidents happen.”

-“Really? It’s okay? Oh god I was so nervous because I’ve met other trans people who…”

I get frustrated too, I get angry too, but I will never be the guy that yells because I was misgendered on accident. Dysphoria sucks, but accidents happen. Lets be kind to cis people that make mistakes, instead of scaring them away.

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don’t ever beg for a friendship or relationship with anyone. if you don’t receive the same effort you give… lose that contact