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I’m trying to find out which are the most shipped ships on the MCU, so here is a questionary:

https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLScNSiS3cMEZRbT7bpgmuA3FupPLDnk_3Al0nheOHVIe2dcK6A/viewform?usp=sf_link

If you guys could answer and share, I’d be really thankfull.

I’ll leave the answers open until August 1st.

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JO DID YOU SEE THAT ONE OF THE BRANCH TIMELINES IN LOKI EP 2 WAS NEW YORK IN 1947?!?!?! IM SO !!!! RN THAT MIGHT BE STEVE

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About the Anthony Mackie thing:

That was a really valid point. The feitisization of homosexual relationships (both wlw and mlm) is huge and really harmfull. Some people only want to use lgbt relationships for their own personal gains (industries using them to get money and people using them to masturbate or some shit like that), HOWEVER there are some lgbt people who use shipping as a form to get the representation they don't get on canon, specially when it comes to Marvel, that has a really big history of zero representation to lgbt people, queerbaited a lot on ther movies (and even used the theory of Bucky being bi because of the tigger photos he saw on the dating app as an opportunity to use lgbt people to their own profit with the "watch and see" bullshit only to on the very next week after the last episode go and say "Oh, no, it was only Bucky being clueless abiut technology" when the show itself showed he wasn't at all) and had the audacity to announce their "first gay character" only to give us fucking gay Joe Russo. There is no harm on seeking for representation on such a big fanchise as Marvel, on wanting an lgbt superhero, just like there is no harm on women and POC wanting their representation too. The thing is that sometimes they end up having to make that representation themselves, and they use fanfics and fanarts for that. Writing Peter Parker trans, writing Carol a lesbian, writing Steve as bi, writing Bucky as bi. That's totally ok.

The feiticization of lgbt peolple, as I said, is real and harmfull, but that shouldn't mean that lgbt people can't want some representation. Anthony fought to have a black man as Cap, and lgbt people have the right to fight to have one of them being portrayed as a hero too, not only as the queercoded villain.

I undertand why Anthony must be feeling umcomfortable. After all, Sam's relationship with Bucky was portrayed just like his own relationship with Sebastian, so it's undertandable that he might feel like that. HOWEVER, we have to keep in mind that someone assuming you (or the character you play, on this situation), a man, are gay only makes you uncomfortable because society teached people that being gay is shamefull, is a bad thing.

Yes, men who are friends and are caring and are caring and loving with each other are often said to be gay, BUT let's remind that it existed WAY before the shipping culture on internet. The fact that men aren't allowed to be vulnerable, caring and gentle comes from the patriarchy, not from the shipping culture or from lgbt people. It comes from the sexist idea that men have to be tough, that they aren't allowed to show physical affection to other men, that they aren't allowed to cry. THAT is from where the "a man can't show affection to other man or otherwise he is gay" idea comes from. Put the blame where it really belongs.

I saw people saying "We shouldn't be writting straigh characters as gay for representation. We already have our own characters on media" and I was like "Who, honey? The gay (either male or female) side character who is the comic releaf and extremely stereotyped? The trans- oh, yeah, neverming, trans people don't even get representation enough to creat the media stereotype. And the bi- oh, yeah, never saw any either. Oh, ok, maybe the aroaces- nyah, not them either". The only "representation" lgbt people get is 90% of the time blunt stereotyping. It's ok to "steal" some characters from the straights to make headcanons and fanfics to have some representation even if just made up. Don't let anyone shame you for wanting to see a hero like you on-screen. Women have that right, POC have that right, the lgbt community have that right, EVERYONE have that right.

I also want to say that there is NO excuse for the people being racist towards him, the same way that there is no excuse for the people defending him by using homophobic language, using the word queer when they are not lgbt themselves and harassing lgbt people who felt hurt by the way he worded it.

He had a really good point and he was totally right about what he meant to say, he just worded it bad.

And no, keyboard warriors, stop saying that every lgbt person feeling hurt by the way that he worded what he meant is because they're racist. The fact that he is black doesn't make the fact that the way he said that hurt some people (specially because it's pride month) magically go away. And no, I'm not saying that what he said was homophobic, because it wasn't at all. I just wanted to point out that there are some people acting like that and it isn't how things should work. A POC shouldn't get away with being lgbtphobic just because they're POC, the same way a lgbt person shouldn't get away with being racists just because they are lgbt (again, I DO NOT think he is homophobic. Just pointing it out here). As we say in Brazil: let's not use two weights to the same measure (the "measure" here is the prejudice, just so no one will misinterpret me).

Also, I really want to thank him for making the real homophobes and the racists on this app out themselves. It's suddenly so easy to spot them.

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Some people here really need to remember the "If a minority say something was harmfull, you shut up and listen" that they're always preaching.

Remember: NOT ALL LGBT PEOPLE FEELING HURT BY THE WAY MACKIE WORDED WHAT HE SAID ARE JUST RACISTS TRYING TO GO AFTER A BLACK PERSON.

He DID worded what he meant in a bad way. FULL STOP.

Lgbt's attempts of getting representation (specially because everytime there is some it's either the white twink or the white comic relief extremly esteriotyped, so yeah, it's interwided with POC's issues too, because while white lgbt people get minimun representation, POC lgbt people get the big amount of none at all) has always been brushed off with a "not everything has to be gay" or "Yeah, because now two men/women can't be just friends" (even when the BIGGEST issue about "friendship representation" on media is the fact that apparently women and men just can't be friends, they have to go and date and end as the happy couple of the movie/show) on an attempt of making them sound like they're trying to push they "gayness" into people (*cof*theirperfectstraightfamily*cof*), so it's totally understandable that the way he worded it hurt like it did.

He wasn't homophobic AT ALL, not now and not ever (as far as I'm conserned), and most lgbt people I see (and no, I'm not counting the Twitter people canceling. Twitter is full of bullshit and shitty people and we all know that) are totally understanding of that and DEFENDING him, explaining that what he meant was RIGHT and that he only worded it poorly because the interviewer leaded the interview so he would answer that way (99,9999% of chance that Disney had a finger on it because they wanted him to take the fault for their bullshit, since they knew that the racist fans were only waiting to jump on one of the black actors), so WHY ON THE NINE LAYERS OF HELL are some of you straight guys, who are ALSO defending him, being homophobic??? Like, do you realize that the same way lgbt people don't have the right of being racist, you also don't have the right of being homophobic, RIGHT? That's a two way street.

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I really don't see why some people say that the article saying that Bucky should take responsability, apologize and make up for the things he did as the Winter Soldier is right. That's literally toxic and victim blaming.

Bucky was brainwashed, tortured and manipulated (here is an analysis I made about it a while back, if you want to read more about it), he had no autonomy or saying on what he was doing. It's not as if he could have said "No, I won't kill that person". He was given the order to kill, he was given a target, and he had to complain. You only have to say sorry for things you did WILLINGLY, for things you did KNOWING it would hurt someone. If you was obligated to do that, you have no obligation of saying sorry.

As we saw in CW, Bucky struggles thinking it was his fault, because just like most victims of abuse he thinks he could have fought harder, he could have done something to stop Hydra even when he clearly couldn't. Hydra had all the countrol you can think about over him: physical, mental and emotional.

Yes, the abuse Bucky suffered made other people suffer too because he was obligated to kill people, but still he has NO obligation or necessity of saying sorry, because saying sorry would be saying it was his fault, and it wasn't his fault at all. In NO KIND of abuse, the victim is to be blamed.

The only thing Bucky owes to the relatives of Hydra's victims (because they weren't his victims, they were Hydra's) is closure, to say what happened with their relative, specially because it will bring himself some peace, but he didn't owe, doesn't own and will NEVER own them an apology.

Bucky shouldn't be told to take responsability for things someone else did to him and made him do. Would you tell a sa victim to take responsability for what their abuser did to them? Would you tell me to take responsability for the fact that I grew up with a father that was drunk 7/24 and that now pretends to only drink on weekends but who I know to drink during the week when he thinks neither me nor my mom are seeing, and who while drunk said things to me that were so bad that my mind couldn't bear and straight up erased what he said so it wouldn't keep hurting me? I don't think so, so stop saying that a person who was in an abusive situation should take responsability for that.

I'm a person who always hear people's opinions and take them in consideration, but that is something I won't accept a different opinion about, so don't even bother trying to argue with me, because I won't change my mind. A victim should NEVER say sorry for what they went through, should NEVER take responsability for what happened with them and should NEVER be expected to make up for what they went through.

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While I was cleniang my room I was thinking about all the tweets saying “If you’re still supporting Sebastian Stan, you’re going to hell just like him” and suddenly I thought: Just imagine I dying, arriving in hell, asking a random dude there “Hey, what are you here for?”, him answering “Oh, I killed a bunch of people. 23, I guess. What about you?” and I, scared as fuck, only stare at him and answer “Dude, wtf. I only like Sebastian Stan”.

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Ok, can someone PLEASE tell me what REALLY happened at the damn interview? Because I tried to see at Twitter but everything that was there was made up shit about him insulting his fans and about Alejandra appearing.

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Before you go spreeding misinformation because some random people at internet decided to start drama, can you AT LEAST do your own research do know what really happened?

The video he liked wasn't deffending white people using the n-word as some of you all believe so much. If you have took some time to watch the video instead of just deciding to play Wisper Down the Lane, you would have seen that the video os a discussion about if it was ok or not. I personaly find it really interesting when people with two different oppinions are discussing, but that doesn't mean that I'm a racist, ablesist, sexist or homophobic. That only means that I like to see people arguing.

Instead of just go assuming things about a person you don't even know, do your own research.

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My reaction to things my country's president (Bolsonaro) said (using Sebastian Stan memes):

"The dictatorship's mistake was to torture but don't kill"

(Bolsonaro's idol is Carlos Alberto Brilhante Ustra, a man that during the Militar Dictatorship tortured women by [if you're sensitive about torture, do not read what comes next] putting rats inside their vaginas [you can keep reading now] and killed people in front of their children)

"Vote won't change anything on this country. Things just will change if we start a civil war here, doing the job the dictatorship wasn't able to do: killing 30 thousands"

"The police get in, solve the problem, and if they kill 10, 15 or 20 with 10 or 30 shots each one, they should be decorated, not sued"

"Too few died. The police should have killed one thousand"

(That one was said about the Carandiru's massacre)

"We're a Christian country. Our State isn't laic. The State is Christian. We'll going to make a Brazil for the majority. The minorities should bow to the majority. They either adapt themselves or vanish"

TW for the next one: Rape.

"I would never rape you because you aren't worth it"

"That's why they pay less to women (because they get pregnant)"

(Feat Anthony Mackie because I love that man)

TW for the next two: Homophobia

"For me, it's death. And I say more: I'd rather see him die on an accident than see him with another man. For me, he was going to be dead anyway"

"Your son starts getting kinda 'faggy'. If you hit him, his behaviour will change"

"He should go out there and eat grass to keep his origins"

(This one was said about native people)

Then you ask me: "But Anne, why you did that post?"

It's quite simple, actually. I've seen some news about Bolsonaro on other countries and they just portray him as an idiot, but he is more than an idiot: he is dangerous.

He is openly pro-dictatorship and pro-torture; he closed Lava-Jato operation (an operation which founds corrupt politicias to arest them) saying that he ended corruption here (even tho we know that he did it because his sons were being investigated); he said that there is no hunger in Brazil when Brazil is back to ONU's Hunger Map; he said "Everyone will die one day" and "So what? What you want me to do?" about the epidemic; he lied FIFTEEN times about social and enviromental problems on his speech for ONU this year - He DARED to say that he payed 1000 dolars (5530 reais) of emergencial aid to Brazilians when HE DIDN'T. He just payed us 600 reais at the beginning and now is paying us only 300 reais.

He is genocidal, racist, homophobic, misogynistic, he lies withou even caring that it's obvious. He literaly said minorities have to bow before the majoritie (cishet rich white men). He is just as bad as Trump, but unfortunately it's not shown to the rest of the world.

I started thit post on a funny way hoping that it can reach more people, so, please, if you're reading this, share.

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Not Sebastian's "fans" harassing Toby Hemingway so much that he deleted all his posts on Instagram. He let it CLEAR it was a TB. It's OBVIOUS it's a TB, because Jessica Szor is standing right behind them still with platinum blond hair (spoiler alert: her hair is no longer that color).

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@jellyfishzebracat YES, IT IS!!! Thank you so much!

Trying to find a fanfic

So, there is that amazing fanfic I've read a while back, I want to read it again, but I can't find it anywhere.

It's an a/b/o fanfic, where Steve is an omega an Bucky is an Alpha. They were together since before the war, almost mated, but when Bucky came back, he didn't remember about it anymore be only remembered that they were friends. Steve saw how close Bucky became with Natasha (they really looked like a couple sometimes), so he decided to give Bucky the chance of having someone else and never told him that they were tecnically mated (the bobd was incomplete).

Does any of you know which fanfic is that? If you know, send me the name, please.

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Trying to find a fanfic

So, there is that amazing fanfic I've read a while back, I want to read it again, but I can't find it anywhere.

It's an a/b/o fanfic, where Steve is an omega an Bucky is an Alpha. They were together since before the war, almost mated, but when Bucky came back, he didn't remember about it anymore be only remembered that they were friends. Steve saw how close Bucky became with Natasha (they really looked like a couple sometimes), so he decided to give Bucky the chance of having someone else and never told him that they were tecnically mated (the bobd was incomplete).

Does any of you know which fanfic is that? If you know, send me the name, please.

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Ok, that shit is going TOO FAR. Want to make up lies or pretend you care about racism just so you can keep going with your hate agenda? Fine, that's on you and your disgusting will to use a human being as your virtual punchbag just because you're bored at home. HOWEVER, using a human being who is about to DIE to keep that agenda is way over disgusting. It's totaly disrespectful to her and her family, it's loathful to say at least. You shouldn't use it to make Sebastian feel bad. You should log off, get a reality check and think about the awful human being you turned into. It tells more about you than about him. Sasha deserves way more than her death being used to hurt a celebrity she likes, she deserves way more than having her death exploited.

I love Sebastian, but I'm done with the fandom. It's literaly the most toxic fandom I've seen my whole life and I'm done with it. Using a real person's death to keep your hate agenda was the last straw for me.

@sebastianstanthough posted this to her insta account & I 100% agree.

Please DO NOT use the passing of someone else to further your agenda against Sebastian.

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I’ve been meaning to ask this, and some of your answers got me wondering, do fans/fandoms matter to the way that a celebrity is perceived? Like do they actually help the celebrity or are they just one more headache?

I think they’re more of a headache. Most celebs like their fans for obvious reasons but things are more toxic than ever with SM. That’s why some celebs who used to interact with them have taken a step back. Fans are either bullying each other, people outside of the fandom or the actual celebrity.

I’ve worked with a few who are pretty embarrassed about the way their fans can act. One actor even said “My fans are out of control. Please don’t hold it against me. I won’t cause you any trouble” in our first PR meeting.

Thankfully it doesn’t really affect the celebs actual career...more their mental/emotional health than anything.

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Isn't it ironic when bullies complain about getting bullied? 🤔 Didn't they ever hear that Karma never forgets an address ?

Fate has a surprising way of talking care of situations. All you have to do is sit back and watch.

YOU. ONLY. GET. BACK. WHAT. YOU. PUT. IN.

I hope that people can at least begin to realise the gravity of their mistakes and understand how serious the issue of online harassment is, after they unfortunately had to be on the receiving end of it themselves. Is the harshness and cruelty going to get a bit less intense now?

Hate speeches for insignificant & negligible things are wrong. Nobody deserves it. I repeat, NOBODY. So please be careful & act better in the future.

Why would anyone want to waste their time on such negative activities, especially now when the whole world is facing a global pandemic is beyond my understanding 😑

Prayers and Wishes for all 💕

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If you ever wondered, why such things are happening & why these incidents have increased both in real life & online mostly since the quarantine-period began? Here's your answer.

Here's another one.

And another one.

Another one!

Just one more. 😅

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[Note for the anons- I have provided the links, so please read the full published articles, don't scroll through bits and pieces carelessly and then come screaming in my inbox 😂. Online hate on Tumblr might not be as toxic as Twitter, but it's still really bad, you know?]

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Lmao! ENTY's blind items are faker than my smiles.