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Obedience VS Subspace

There is a difference between being obedient, and being in subspace, though the two can coincide, they are distinctly different.

It is no secret that when a submissive male is horny, his need to be obedient grows in lockstep with how desperate he is.

He can become horny enough to agree to anything. To submit in any way she wishes.

So naturally he's best kept frustrated, because that's when he's the most beneficial to her.

However, just obeying, is not subspace. Subspace is an altered state of consciousness. It is something that occurs when he surrenders his own power over to her.

So it's not just obedience to her, it's a surrendering of his energy for her use. When this energy is surrendered, he enters subspace, it is like a meditative state.

All of his thoughts will clear from his mind, and he will feel his own energy be replaced by her dominance. He feels her power. It humbles him completely.

There are no other thoughts left to intrude, no stress, no worries, no doubts or fears. In fact even his pain tolerance goes up, because he's surrendered in that moment.

Subspace is like the great escape. It's the one place he can go, where he feels safe. Where he feels secure. Where he is free from concern.

The power exchange within subspace is amplified when she understands that he's in it. It's a palpable feeling for both, and as she feels his surrender, it can bring her into dommespace.

Where her dominance becomes her state of being, like submission becomes his. It's pure power exchange, and as a result of it, it's also pure bliss.

Pure expression, pure fulfillment. It's raw vulnerability, but also intimacy. It's a level of being naked beyond physicality. It's mental and spiritual.

When he comes out of subspace, he's still going to be frustrated, and obedient.

But nothing compares to subspace. It's a feeling that can be best described as home. Like somewhere he never wants to leave. Yet he's only allowed, or able to go there when she takes him there.

He can also learn a lot in subspace, about himself, and about her, because the intuitive receptiveness of that state of being, is enlightening.

While he cannot live his life in subspace, he can take the experience of it, and apply it in stress reducing ways for all problems in his life. Which also enables him to serve her better, and anticipate her needs better.

It creates a stronger bond with her. It turns into a feeling of being owned.

It also creates fierce loyalty. So fierce that she has no doubts, concerns, or worries, that he won't support her as much as he possibly can.

Which also means, he becomes her most trusted companion. More so than any of her friends or family. Complete and total open communication, and more importantly, carefree.

That's the glorious freedom found in a FLR.

Submissive men are drawn to obedience in the first place because they've had a taste of subspace.

Sometimes they get a glimpse of it through femdom porn. They can get sucked into that altered state for a moment or two. But then without anyone to actually accept his surrender, he snaps back to reality, and can't stay there.

So naturally, all he wants to do is get back there. They get desperate to get back there. They can't stop trying, because there is no better feeling. It's the ultimate drug. She is his ultimate drug.

Subspace is the high, and it's the most powerful high he can experience. Which is why he can never stop being submissive. It's why he can't change it.

It's why even though he needs discipline, will regret, pulling away, or disobeying. He may get scared, and run, but within hours he knows it's not the answer.

Subspace is scary, because of the surrender, he must let himself go, and trust her fully to enter it. That's not for the weak. The weak can't get there. They can't be that vulnerable.

Instead they get stuck on the level of obedience without subspace. Chasing. The constant chase, of always wanting, and thinking the more they obey the better they'll feel. But obedience is not subspace. Surrender is.

His surrender must be accepted by her, that's the only way he can get in subspace, and stay in subspace for a little while. And to revisit it as often as she'll allow.

What better way to be in love, than a FLR?

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Femdom Academy

It was Jenna's first day at the Femdom Academy, a notorious finishing school focused on teaching girls like her the fine art of dominating, controlling and ultimately enslaving men. She'd been in her dorm going over the syllabus (featuring intro to chastity and responsible keyholding, CBT 101, AP edging, bondage workshops, lectures on the uses of corporal punishment, and bullwhip practice) when suddenly she was interrupted by a knock at the door.

Kneeling outside was a boy her own age, naked but for an armbinder keeping him restrained, as well as gagged, blindfolded and locked in chastity with the key dangling from his collar. A note explained that he would be her personal slave for the coming year; like all the boys being at the academy he'd been sent there completely unknowing of what he'd been condemned to, and his training would serve as her course project and final exam. He would also be hers to keep after graduation if she wished, else he would be donated to the pool of slaves used for demonstrations.

The whimpering slave tried to resist as Jenna clipped a leash to his chastity cage and pulled him inside, but quickly relented after a swat to his balls with a riding crop and his cry of pain joined a chorus of others as throughout the dormitory other girls began playing with their new toys. A sadistic smile was the first thing he saw of his new Mistress as the blindfold was pulled off.

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Boys often think it's beneath them to obey girls.But once they accept it, it becomes easy, very quickly.

You'll see. It's not hard at all. You're just a boy, you're meant to obey us. We're much stronger. It's all good and natural.

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Rules for Voluntary Male Slaves..

A slave must be honest from the moment he begins communicating with a dominant woman. Never lie about relationships, experience level or anything else.

A slave will seek to understand want he wants and what he needs and to know the difference between the two.

A slave needs to realize some fantasies will never be more than just that. And that some of his fetishes may not strike a responsive chord within her.

A slave has a duty to act as an intelligent human being.

A slave repays a dominant woman’s attention with respect, humility and obedience. This is inherent in the nature of the relationship.

A slave always communicates his feelings as clearly as possible.

If the slave feels that his needs aren’t being met he will confess that respectfully without seeming to make demands.

A slave will watch to see if his dominant woman is tired or not feeling well and focus on her comfort, not on having a session.

A slave should never think of a dominant woman as a torture and humiliation machine. That is objectifying her.

A slave will remember that D/s is a relationship between people. He will strive to never forget that the dominant woman is a human being. That regardless of the power relationship thoughtless behavior on his part can inflict emotional hurt on the other person…

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This simple message is really hitting me hard right now. It feels so good to admit my inferiority and serving my Female superiors is the most rewarding work I’ve ever done. Happiness for men is found through service to Women.

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