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"waa women dont get it" I have experienced everything you've experienced 10x worse and 10 years earlier. Men have killed themselves over things that would at best mildly annoy me. You are weak, dysgenic, and a lower tier of species. We're not even in the same genus. That's why you fuck dead lizards.

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mfs be like i hate joanne rowling because chronically unemployed reddit users keep saying i should. then they laugh at republicans who believe the shit they see on fox news

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jkr is what the lefties WISH billionaires were like. she is constantly giving away her money, losing billionaire status, but she’s so damn successful and loved that money just keeps pouring into her bank account so girlie pop is back in the billions. and she’s still giving away her money to charities and will probably drop back out of billionaire status ON PURPOSE. but because she doesn’t deny basic biology then she’s evil. fucking jeff bezos with his slave factories gets less hate than her. be serious.

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other women: you have to respect and care about everybody…

me: what if they don’t respect me and don’t give a fuck about me

other women: you have to be niceys…

me: No i don’t. I don’t have to do anything for them

other women: oh my godddd she’s incurably insane :((((

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A pillar of my identity as a reader has been blemished by BookTok dark fantasy, spicy lit-porn freaks. Just to be clear- you're a reader and I'm a reader, but we are not the same, and I am definitely better than you.

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It's Pride. So it's the time of year where I remind everybody that Fred Sargeant, a founder of the original Gay Pride and Stonewall riots veteran, does not support TQ gender evangelism, it's historical revisionism of gay history, and what it has done and is doing to the LGB and women's liberation movements.

Fred Sergeant, today:

Happy Pride.

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when is anyone going to talk about the fact that fandom and yaoi subculture consists of a hell of a lot of grown women writing and creating pornographic material that female children consume compulsively and not only are they completely aware of this but 1. extremely defensive of their right to do so 2. victim blaming children who encounter it and 3. eroticize their own groomed coming-of-age and consider it some kind of duty to expose children like them to this material

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If you remove the desire to have children from your “must do/life accomplishment” list, I’m realizing how much slower life can be as a result. Like you don’t have to rush to find someone to settle down with or have your life in order by 25 if having kids before x age isn’t a concern.

No wonder we’re all rushing when there’s this time limit.

If you stop planning for children, you have all the time in the world to get your degree, get your license, fall in love, make mistakes, etc. I’m just now realizing how this pressure to have kids is at the core of youth obsession, the aging out of women from certain spaces (especially beauty/aspirational type spaces), and just the overall timeline obsession we have.

If you take kids out of the equation, there are no timelines. Just lives to live. Childfree isn’t just a choice some women make; it’s true freedom from everything our society tells us to prioritize and how to live. Literally none of it matters when having children is never your goal.

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its actually scary that so many people are religious like thats fake guys

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If you are afraid of the ascendancy of fascism in this country—and you would be very foolish not to be right now—then you had better understand that the root issue here has to do with male supremacy and the control of women; sexual access to women; women as reproductive slaves; private ownership of women. That is the program of the Right. That is the morality they talk about. That is what they mean. That is what they want. And the only opposition to them that matters is an opposition to men owning women.

Letters From a War Zone, Andrea Dworkin

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Please stop posting Christian propaganda on tumblr and xiaohongshu. Love languages do not exist.

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the amount of women who balk at the idea of killing men but don’t have a problem with murder when it’s under the guise of nationalism is. well. lol

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Pretending you're fine when people cross your boundaries doesn't make you a really nice person, it just makes you a really shitty communicator. Far too many people pride themselves on being "too nice" when it's just that they have zero conflict resolution skills and will seethe in resentment for months instead of articulating the problem

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grown men will throw fits about how they face sooo much rejection and women would never get it meanwhile me and the girls who were even just like average or a lil ugly at like 12 years old were being treated like we were subhuman by peers and adults alike

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It is entirely possible to write and enjoy whatever erotica you want while also putting some reasonable barriers in place for children to access it. Or like any barriers at all. Or like, not putting it on the same open website that has literally no age verification whatsoever, where people write horrifying pornographic scenarios about media popular among children, and where there is 0 barrier to children interacting with porn-addled adults. Yes, your public library occasionally has sexual content. No, the library does not file "Harry Potter Pedophilic Dogfucking Lobotomy Fantasy 4" next to "Guide to Harry Potter's Wizarding World" and beam it instantly into any curious child's private devices. I am absolutely gonna hold adults accountable when they write this crap that is 100% optional to publish for free on the open web, has 0 enduring literary merit, and especially when they 100% know children access it because they did themselves when they were young. Sorry not sorry it is a form of grooming when adults write or draw erotica for a nebulous, unrestricted "audience" that they know includes minors and yes, that includes women who do it as well. If you would be completely skeeved if the bus driver showed a 13 year old girl yandere ass baby yaoi then why are you not skeeved when she does it online

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Rebloggable again ❤️