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It doesn't even stops when you are married or have a boyfriend. On threads I read so many women who got told, if their next husband/ right husband comes, they sure want kids. One woman who got this told by a doctor replied "Well if a hypothetically new husband comes and wants kids, he won't be the right one."

Or if you already have 1 kid... One woman who wanted to get sterilized, was told by a doctor: "What if your kid dies? Then you'll have to make another one."

I'm so glad, I'm trans and don't have to hear this shit anymore. When I was 14, I told the surgeon that he should remove my uterus while doing a surgery. He just laughed. "When you're grown up, you'll want children." I'm 40 years now. Still haven't changed my mind.

stop telling your teenage daughters who say they don't want kids that they'll change their mind

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** If you have had an unexplainable experience please put it in the tags I love finding out someone else also just has a Real Ghost Story

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For my international followers: Germany had held elections today, as some of you might already know. The final results are not quite certain right now. Like, we have a rough direction, but given that we have a representatitve democracy (instead of fully FPTP like the US) there is right now the big question whether two parties will get over the 5% they ´need to enter the parliament.

RIght now the predicted results look like this:

For reference for all international peeps a quick reference:

SPD - Sozialdemokraten - basically the former Labour Party, though by now they are fairly conservative, mainly due to the current party lead. The current chancellor is by them, but he is a fucking criminal and people are not having it.

Union - CDU and CSU - "Christian" Party. Think like Bush-Republicans. Not Trump-Republicans but Bush-Republicans. Or for the UK people: Basically Tories. They are probably the least Christian party in policy, but they love to quote the bible when they need a reason to hate on minorities. Pro-Capitalist. Anti-Progressive.

Grüne - Greens. Well, nothing really to explain. The Greens. Mainly an environmental party. Usually they are fairly left wing, but right now they are center-right.

FDP - Freie Demokraten - basically the "liberal party", meaing: "All we care about is capitalism being awesome!"

AfD - Alternative für Deutschland - the Nazi Party. Nuff said.

Linke - Left Wing Party. My party. Aka: The actual left wing.

BSW - Bündnis Sarah Wagenknecht. Aka: The party of the former left wing party leader, who did swirl fairly right (especially TERFy) and because of that eventually left the party and made her own party.

As you can see, it looks right now as if the FDP and the BSW will be unable to enter parliament.

Now, as we have a representative government the parties will have to form a coalition, which right now is gonna be a challenge. While technically speaking the CDU and AfD could form a coalition of more than 50% of seats if the numbers stay somewhat the same, the CDU does not want to work with the AfD (especially because they know that their voters do not want that). So basically right now the only possible coalition would be CDU + SPD + Greens. And we will see whether that will happen.

My money is on: We will do another round of elections before the end of the year.

Though the Left Wing party is celebrating right now. We almost got double as many votes as last election - and within the 2 months of 2025 we doubled the number of active members in the party. What is encouraging: Right now we get a lot more older people joining us. So far the old people were always against us, becuase they grew up under Red Scare and shit. But given that when the CDU did one collaboration with the fucking Nazis, we were by far the loudest party to hold against it, a lot of older people now are like: "Actually, socialism might not be the worst." (Like, I can tell you from canvassing: The old people we talked with were either like: "OMG, I will not talk to fucking lefts" or: "Oh, you did work against the Nazis. That is great! Do you want some cake?")

But yeah, the fact that the fucking Nazis have like 20% of votes is fucking sick.

But all in all, the fact that right now the left is really pushing and rising is still encouraging.

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Maybe the robber thought, he was a vampire or something 😂

Real

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I looked those plushies up. 300€ for a fucking plushie?! Wtf! This doesn't include shipping costs yet. Even if it's all handmade, this is too much!

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Caitlyn is your typical selfish conservative. She does not care about issues until she and her rights are on the chopping block.

It's like thanking your executioner.

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Me: I think maybe love isn’t something for me.

Them: oh no, don’t say that! You’ll find someone eventually. Your time will come!

Me: thats not what I meant

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Also about dysphoria: it's not only "you need dysphoria to be trans", in their view you need the right type and amount of dysphoria! I had transmeds invalidating me for not having huge chest dysphoria, and a trans woman once told me that if I "don't rather die than to get surgery" I couldn't be "real trans". Their idiology is fucked up!

There are other transmed beliefs becides needing dysphoria to be trans, you all know that, right? You know that "brain sex" is a transmed talking point, right??

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Autistic aro culture is okay so what is flirting and how do I NOT do that so other people don’t catch feelings for me. Please tell me that flirting isn’t literally just being nice to someone???

theoretically, it's about intention from the person doing the flirting, and in the eye of the beholder for anyone else. i do not understand either.

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I really wish for an aspec community where sexual relationships are not constantly put down and degraded in favour of other types of relationships. That’d be neat.

But no y’all just scream about relationship anarchy and how no relationship should be seen as more important than another on a societal level and to let everyone define their relationships for themselves and all that, but sexual relationships still cannot ever be as deep, committed and emotional as romantic/queerplatonic/platonic relationships. Because sex icky gross :( and people who want sex shallow whores :(((

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every time you tag an aromantic post that only talks about aromanticism as "#asexual" or "#ace" i punch you in the astral plane. when you call a character that's not interested in romance "asexual", i punch you in the astral plane. calling aromantic people asexual when they don't refer to themselves as such earns you one hundred astral punches. and so on and so forth

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ace culture is thinking you're bi for a while cause you're equally (un)attracted to everyone

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Author aro culture is wanting to write about an allo couple but not knowing how, so you grab a note book and watch irl allo couples like a scientist observing a new animal

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By the way if youre questioning whether you're ace or not and you do have sexual fantasies.... You can def still be ace.

Fantasies are just that. Fantasy. You can fantasize about a bunch of things without actually wanting them irl. I fantasize about yelling at my coworkers- doesn't mean I actually want to irl.

And ultimately... It doesn't matter. If you say youre ace you are. If you say you aren't ace, you ain't.

Hope that helps someone :]

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Well fucks? Get to it!