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Desperately need some trans guys to understand that the expectation that (trans) men should be able to take abuse on the chin without flinching, endure hardship without coming forward or speaking about it, and not feel any emotion whatsoever when being insulted and degraded and called slurs to your face or else it makes you a lesser man... is toxic masculinity. Like, you're not as above it as you think you are if you think that this is a healthy mentality or something to be encouraged in young trans men who are already extremely vulnerable compared to their cis counterparts and infamously struggle to find support or community.

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I’m still not sure what the opposite of a phantom limb is, like with my boobs. Rather than phantom boobs where the feeling is there and the flesh is not, for me the flesh is there and the feeling is not. Rather than an incorporeal phantom boobs where the boob is no more it’s… soulless undead zombie boobs?! Yeah, we’ll call them zombie boobs.

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they did not have to zoom in on them both straight after this line...,,,,

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Amaury the chocolate guy has done it again

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spy x family bad ends are so interesting but something that gives me some comfort is that even if Loid does leave or fake his death after his mission is over….anya still won’t be alone. she has becky, she has damian, and more importantly she has yor.

yor would absolutely raise her and take her in. she loves anya like her own and would never abandon her. that’s her baby. that’s her daughter. she would absolutely raise anya on her own.

and god forbid if yor did die (she’s untouchable tho let’s be fr), becky would not let her best friend be alone for sure. she’d make the blackbells adopt her.

my point is….anya has a supportive system. she has people to fall back on. she has people who love her. and I hope she fully realizes that.

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The writer's blessing:

May you write 1,500 words with ease.May your characters be lively and not cardboard.May you need little editing. May your muse visit you as soon as you sit. May the Internet not distract you much. May your phone lie dormant while you write.

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calling every gnc cis person you see an "egg waiting to crack" even as a joke is not cool or funny at all actually it is extremely invasive and weird and you are just reinventing gender roles but making it "progressive"

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*grabs both your hands in gesture of sincerity*

Don't let this die. Taylor Swift is the Pollution Queen now. We need meme edits with her photoshopped onto backgrounds of wildfire-ravaged landscapes and oil refineries chugging out black smoke.

Photo of smudgy black eye shadow? That's THE Taylor Swift-inspired look now, it represents fossil fuels.

We need parodies of Taylor Swift songs about pollution and killing polar bears.

Give her representatives a full-time job for the rest of their lives defending her from the phrase "Pollution Queen." Make this meme a the figurehead of an entire fleet of other celebrity-terrorizing memes.

"But this doesn't dismantle the system that—" Shut. Don't care. Isn't it great that such a huge portion of environmental damage is being done by human individuals with egos, whose feelings can be hurt when people are mean?

Money can save you from physical harm, but can it save you from looking ridiculous?

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random fire nation diplomat #492 will never understand the complex and fucked up relationship between the water siblings like I do 🙄

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Some ppl are like "I'm a kinky sex-positive pervert freak!!!" and then make fun of virgins and asexuals..... sure, reclaim freakiness but keep working on that because teasing ppl for their sex lives (or lack thereof) is, unfortunately, very normie mainstream vanilla behaviour. the right to sexual determination includes NOT having sex. 101 shit. Like this isnt subversive dude, it's using the edge of an ideology for bullying

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No, I cannot honestly say that I "would do the same thing if I were in (villain)'s position," not because I think I'm inherently a better person than they are but because my neuroses lean toward the opposite extreme.

I may very well have done something just as bad, it just wouldn't have been that.

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it is insane, crazy, nuts how good for kabru being friends with laios is on multiple levels

he has to be honest and direct with laios to communicate. laios is so so earnest and thoughtful to him, and genuinely shows him affection thru food (and kabru cant cook or care for himself) with the harpy omelette (despite the um. misunderstanding between them), promising to take him to a restaurant as a sign of how sincere he is about being kabrus friend now, and kabru returns that favor by not just helping the faligon, but eating it, and staying to eat it until its almost done even though laios assured him he didnt have to. he can get angry with him and not feel like hes fucked it all up by showing his real emotions. something about laios puts kabru more in touch with his deeper desires--he acts in ways he doesnt understand around laios, betrays himself to his conscious mind, because he wants to badly to put his faith in laios and laios did not let him down, not where it mattered. he gets to take on a job laios cannot do for himself as prime minister in training where his skillset is valuable and he can indulge in work that really interests him and it will always be appreciated deeply by not only laios but the whole nation theyre building. for as long as laios is around, he never has to worry about monsters hurting him or his home--and laios is actively working on building a world where monsters can be made tamer through knowledge about them, and has already defeated kabrus biggest fear, the dungeon. laios gives him a safe context to conquer his fear of monsters at his own pace rather than forcing himself into traumatic situations where he dies all the time

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not gonna say it. but he popped into your head didn’t he

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I see your "Laios is trans" but that dude is THE most apathetically agender person on the planet. Laios does not have time for gender. Laios does not even HAVE a gender identity, he removed it to make room for more Monster Facts.

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Do you think in Narnia, instead of "trans woman" and "trans man", they say "daughter of Adam" and "son of Eve"?