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I’m an “I do not like children” person but not an “I hate children” person. I do not want a child. I do not particularly like being in the company of small children. I am not interested in babysitting. I do not think society’s view on procreating being necessary to fulfill one’s life is healthy. But I think kids are people too and they deserve all the resources, time and attention they need to successfully grow. I think the welfare of children is fundamental to society. I smile at babies in public. I try to be sympathetic if a child is having a meltdown in public. I think being cruel to children is one of the worst things a human can do.

This puts me in a strange middle ground because I absolutely cannot get along with the “I love babies, I need to have kids, my kids are my world, having children is sooo beautiful, the world should cater to children always” crowd or the “I think children are like disgusting little rats, I hate them, they’re subhuman” crowd.

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aren't you tired of being nice? don't you just wanna go apeshit?

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For legal reasons, pretend this is not a confession. [x]

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Being intersex is not trusting cis people or trans people to be cool. It's not being able to trust anyone. It's seeing trans women and trans men argue over who is more oppressed while pretending we don't exist, while creating terms and forms of discourse that entirely erase us. It's talking to a trans man who is a friend and being told "well you're basically trans anyway" in a way to not learn anything new about us and erase us by absorbing us. It's talking to a trans woman and having her say "trannies like us" to me with no question of what my actual identity was, just an assumption, based on the fact that you all don't think intersex people exist and are real in public in queer spaces. It's telling trans people "actually I'm intersex" and having them get awkward and pull away from me because they don't know how to relate. It's being unsafe in public everywhere and fitting in nowhere. It's being clocked as whatever a person decides they hate the most and being treated that way, and then having my identity erased when trying to reach out to people who can relate. It's being told I'm experiencing misdirected transphobia and that the hate wasn't MEANT for ME, and the only reason I'd be upset is because I was mistaken for trans. It's being driven off of this website by violent graphic descriptions of my murder from terfs paired with trans people telling me I'm transphobic for begging them to pay fucking attention to intersex people. It's having to explain my sex in depth to trans people in order to get anyone to actually understand me, who do not have to do the same with one another. It's having to do Ted talks on your gender to queer people who genuinely don't think we exist. It's being called a sexy Dwarven queen warrior by trans people while describing how exhausting it is living a life where violence is the norm and erasure is mandatory. It's not having a bathroom to go to and having that shrugged off bc I'm not trans anyway. Its having a nonbinary doctor that specializes in HRT deny me a referral to a gender affirming endocrinologist because im not trans and then referring me to someone who spent an hour telling me i dont make sense and must actually be a trans man and i need therapy for my gender. Its being told that any violence I face was meant for someone else therefore not a big deal that it happens to me. It's being told that asking trans people to learn about intersex people is "centering cis issues". It's knowing that I will never fit in anywhere except with the one rare other quite intersex person at the function who is also a trans woman and understands how fucked up it is to be intersex in the queer community, because none of yall care about us in a real way. Because none of yall are fighting back in your own communities against intersexism. Because none of yall will do the real work to understand us or the violence we face every day or how you all only have the surgeries and HRT you do because of the way WE were medically tortured and then effectively erased to the point that our community is shattered and lost and many don't know they're intersex and many have just been told they have a medical issue that needs fixing and not a simple divergence from what is allowed under our current society. But we don't fucking matter to the overwhelming majority of yall. People I've been mutuals with for years who reblog all of my posts on intersexism still reblog or post intersexist shit every single day. I'm tired.

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sometimes im like "wow holy shit im being really fucking annoying. i should stop talking" and then i pull out my magic 8 ball and it says "youve always been annoying and your friends chose to talk you anyways. youll be fine" and im like wow thanks magic 8 ball. and then the ogre attacks me

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im getting my oil changed and i heard the mechanic go "tee hee hee". whats happening

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every time my bf says “for the time being” i respond with “for the time bean” and then we say “all hail the time bean” and carry on the conversation like nothing happened

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