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THROUGH A RAPIST’S EYES” (PLS TAKE TIME TO READ THIS. It may save a life, It may save your life.)

An Article from Neena Susan Thomas

“Through a rapist’s eyes. A group of rapists and date rapists in prison were interview…ed on what they look for in a potential victim and here are some interesting facts:

1] The first thing men look for in a potential victim is hairstyle. They are most likely to go after a woman with a ponytail, bun! , braid, or other hairstyle that can easily be grabbed. They are also likely to go after a woman with long hair. Women with short hair are not common targets.

2] The second thing men look for is clothing. They will look for women who’s clothing is easy to remove quickly. Many of them carry scissors around to cut clothing.

3] They also look for women using their cell phone, searching through their purse or doing other activities while walking because they are off guard and can be easily overpowered.

4] The number one place women are abducted from / attacked at is grocery store parking lots.

5] Number two is office parking lots/garages.

6] Number three is public restrooms.

7] The thing about these men is that they are looking to grab a woman and quickly move her to a second location where they don’t have to worry about getting caught.

8] If you put up any kind of a fight at all, they get discouraged because it only takes a minute or two for them to realize that going after you isn’t worth it because it will be time-consuming.

9] These men said they would not pick on women who have umbrellas,or other similar objects that can be used from a distance, in their hands.

10] Keys are not a deterrent because you have to get really close to the attacker to use them as a weapon. So, the idea is to convince these guys you’re not worth it.

POINTS THAT WE SHOULD REMEMBER:

1] If someone is following behind you on a street or in a garage or with you in an elevator or stairwell, look them in the face and ask them a question, like what time is it, or make general small talk: can’t believe it is so cold out here, we’re in for a bad winter. Now that you’ve seen their faces and could identify them in a line- up, you lose appeal as a target.

2] If someone is coming toward you, hold out your hands in front of you and yell Stop or Stay back! Most of the rapists this man talked to said they’d leave a woman alone if she yelled or showed that she would not be afraid to fight back. Again, they are looking for an EASY target.

3] If you carry pepper spray (this instructor was a huge advocate of it and carries it with him wherever he goes,) yelling I HAVE PEPPER SPRAY and holding it out will be a deterrent.

4] If someone grabs you, you can’t beat them with strength but you can do it by outsmarting them. If you are grabbed around the waist from behind, pinch the attacker either under the arm between the elbow and armpit or in the upper inner thigh – HARD. One woman in a class this guy taught told him she used the underarm pinch on a guy who was trying to date rape her and was so upset she broke through the skin and tore out muscle strands the guy needed stitches. Try pinching yourself in those places as hard as you can stand it; it really hurts.

5] After the initial hit, always go for the groin. I know from a particularly unfortunate experience that if you slap a guy’s parts it is extremely painful. You might think that you’ll anger the guy and make him want to hurt you more, but the thing these rapists told our instructor is that they want a woman who will not cause him a lot of trouble. Start causing trouble, and he’s out of there.

6] When the guy puts his hands up to you, grab his first two fingers and bend them back as far as possible with as much pressure pushing down on them as possible. The instructor did it to me without using much pressure, and I ended up on my knees and both knuckles cracked audibly.

7] Of course the things we always hear still apply. Always be aware of your surroundings, take someone with you if you can and if you see any odd behavior, don’t dismiss it, go with your instincts. You may feel little silly at the time, but you’d feel much worse if the guy really was trouble.

FINALLY, PLEASE REMEMBER THESE AS WELL ….

1. Tip from Tae Kwon Do: The elbow is the strongest point on your body. If you are close enough to use it, do it.

2. Learned this from a tourist guide to New Orleans : if a robber asks for your wallet and/or purse, DO NOT HAND IT TO HIM. Toss it away from you…. chances are that he is more interested in your wallet and/or purse than you and he will go for the wallet/purse. RUN LIKE MAD IN THE OTHER DIRECTION!

3. If you are ever thrown into the trunk of a car: Kick out the back tail lights and stick your arm out the hole and start waving like crazy. The driver won’t see you but everybody else will. This has saved lives.

4. Women have a tendency to get into their cars after shopping,eating, working, etc., and just sit (doing their checkbook, or making a list, etc. DON’T DO THIS! The predator will be watching you, and this is the perfect opportunity for him to get in on the passenger side,put a gun to your head, and tell you where to go. AS SOON AS YOU CLOSE the DOORS , LEAVE.

5. A few notes about getting into your car in a parking lot, or parking garage:

a. Be aware: look around your car as someone may be hiding at the passenger side , peek into your car, inside the passenger side floor, and in the back seat. ( DO THIS TOO BEFORE RIDING A TAXI CAB) .

b. If you are parked next to a big van, enter your car from the passenger door. Most serial killers attack their victims by pulling them into their vans while the women are attempting to get into their cars.

c. Look at the car parked on the driver’s side of your vehicle, and the passenger side. If a male is sitting alone in the seat nearest your car, you may want to walk back into the mall, or work, and get a guard/policeman to walk you back out. IT IS ALWAYS BETTER TO BE SAFE THAN SORRY. (And better paranoid than dead.)

6. ALWAYS take the elevator instead of the stairs. (Stairwells are horrible places to be alone and the perfect crime spot).

7. If the predator has a gun and you are not under his control, ALWAYS RUN! The predator will only hit you (a running target) 4 in 100 times; And even then, it most likely WILL NOT be a vital organ. RUN!

8. As women, we are always trying to be sympathetic: STOP IT! It may get you raped, or killed. Ted Bundy, the serial killer, was a good-looking, well educated man, who ALWAYS played on the sympathies of unsuspecting women. He walked with a cane, or a limp, and often asked “for help” into his vehicle or with his vehicle, which is when he abducted his next victim.

Send this to any woman you know that may need to be reminded that the world we live in has a lot of crazies in it and it’s better safe than sorry.

If u have compassion reblog this post. ‘Helping hands are better than Praying Lips’ – give us your helping hand.

REBLOG THIS AND LET EVERY GIRL KNOW AT LEAST PEOPLE WILL KNOW WHATS GOING ON IN THIS WORLD. So please reblog this….Your one reblog can Help to spread this information.

THIS COULD ACTUALLY SAVE A LIFE.”

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I just want to clarify this, and please reblog if you can if you read my stories

I DON'T want to see Dusk Lounge characters, or any of my characters on Character ai! I'm not giving permission to feed AI with content I made. If you see any of them there, they were stolen and please report if you can!

Thank you, Kriim

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Listen up!

You see a post like this? Where OP might hurt/kill themselves? You hit that button that I circled

Hit that.

Click Suicide or Self-harm Concern

Yes.

Fill in the rest of it, and hit submit. The "content you reported" will fill itself in

Tumblr will follow up and help them.

Warning: this is only for mobile. If anyone knows how to do this for desktop, please add it!

This could SAVE SOMEONE'S LIFE.

YOU HAVE NO EXCUSE NOT TO REBLOG THIS.

I DON'T GIVE A FUCK IF IT DOESN'T GO WITH YOUR BLOG'S THEME.

And yes, REBLOG. Liking does no shit at all. This isn't ig.

You reblog, people see it. You don't, people don't see it. This shit's that simple.

This could save someone's life. It's not a joke.

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Instead of owning up to their very literal crimes against very literal children and taking accountability they’ve decided that it’s easier to run away and change their name. Shame.

For those who want to make sure they’re staying safe and avoiding this predator, this is their new user handle.

For context this is the person originally known as Synth-Coyote and recently known as Shattered-Sparks that groomed multiple minors for multiple years, and has refused to take accountability. Any time he’s “apologized” it’s been rife with victim blaming, essentially telling the kids it’s their fault he groomed them.

Despite claims that he’s no longer in the TSAMS fandom, he has posted TSAMS artwork as recently as within the last month, and continues to interact with members of the community, including minors.

And of course a reminder that this blog is and has been under new management.

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!!!ATTENTION TUMBLR!!!

Some of you may be familiar with this user. Some of you may also be aware of claims against him, stating that he is a pedophile.

I am here to assert that those claims are entirely true.

For a long while, I have suspected that user @violet92959 is not all that he seems. He has made suspicious remarks far too often, and upon further investigation, I have concluded that I am far from the only one who has realized this.

I gathered information and put it all into a folder on Google Drive. I have dissected that information in the Google Document, which is more in-depth than the Drive.

The conclusions I have made are that Violet is a racist pedophile with a fetish for Desi/Arab/Brown people. Please stay far away from this user for your own safety.

@17ratsinafleshsuit

@a-beautiful-fool

@a-trans-book-nerd 

@aesthetic-writer18 

@ah0yh0y 

@ameliascreampuffs

@aria-di-angelo 

@asters-tempo

@aston-martin-in-the-ditch 

@astral-projects-stars

@averyriskygamble1989 

@baguettes-and-biscuits

@beabeebeee

@beka-ahhhhhhhhhhhh

@berryzxx 

@bewitchingkisses

@bilkul-lazeez-hu

@bingle-official

@bl00dy-plan3t

@bleep-bloop-boo

@book-girl4evaaa 

@bookishirishdancer 

@brokendarkfairyempressforever

@bucketsandraincoats

@butch-marauders

@caffeineconnoisseur

@chaliyaaa

@cheekyboybeth

@cherries-in-wine

@choasuqeen

@circebutbetter

@confessions-of-an-old-cassette

@daddysclownboy

@dazzling-witch

@definitionoffuckup

@deprivedofbraincellsandsleep 

@discoveredreality

@drama-llamaaa

@dreaming-in-daylight

@ducktamer415

@electricguitarhasmyheart

@emostrawrobbery

@enbysiriusblack

@equippedtolove

@feix1ao 

@fictionalsimp09

@fillthedarkvoid

@finleyforevermore

@fireflychaosdemon 

@flowers-for-em 

@garden-of-runar

@gasolinehornet

@graysonhawthorneswife 

@greengirllover

@greenmanwiththesauce 

@hazellevessque 

@hellojuiceboxbaby

@here-i-am-sitting-in-a-tin-can

@hijabi-desi-bookworm

@hijabi-flavored-nerd

@homocidalpotat

@hxress23

@hxart-of-thx-ocxan

@iam1withthepeggy 

@im-on-crack-send-help 

@inara-tries-to-survive 

@innereverblaze

@isilee 

@itsviiii

@jkl-fff

@joowee-feftynn

@juliette-cai-enthusiast

@justalunaticfangirl

@kathryn-maraudersversion 

@kawaiibarty

@kip-davis

@liaazhang

@lillibethnougatesquirethe3rd 

@limeleviathan

@littlebookworm69

@lordcatwitch

@lost-in-reveriie

@lovergirl-lane

@luverina

@maryland-no-rabies

@marylily-my-beloved 

@maybxlle 

@miasbraindump 

@missedyour21st 

@moonlightt444 

@mqstermindswift 

@mun-urufu

@mxnkeydo

@myfairkatiecat

@newyorktimesbestsellerr 

@nqds

@omelettejunkie

@owocontroversy

@paloma-ascends-into-hellfire

@patatas-fritas-taylorsversion

@piniatafullofblood

@pinkwinesupernovas 

@poppy-petals17

@possibly-a-table-or-just-gay

@preetrambles

@prettylittleangel333

@queenofapeacefuldawn 

@queenpiranhadon 

@qylinscafune

@rainbow-flavoured-skittles

@ramblings-of-lola

@raven0317

@ravenwordss

@reminiscentreader

@rxsewqter

@scarlettauthor 

@seekmemystar

@send-up-my-heart-to-you 

@serialkilluh-1996

@shamelesswolfstarshipper

@shark-tranny

@shelfthe-reader 

@shinchansbitch

@shrxe

@shuhuaspookie 

@silverstarssart

@skeelly 

@sleep-can-wait 

@sleepinginmygrave

@sleepy-vix 

@small-giggle

@someonewhogotanaccount

@sotiredimbored 

@starcrossedmoony

@stars-and-leather

@stqrgirl3

@sunflxwcrs

@sunshinerainbowsandlollipops

@svnflowermoon 

@swans-chirping-in-the-distance 

@sweetnnaivete 

@sxturn-to-mxrs

@talksosweet

@thatrandomlemononyourcounter1

@the-bookish-bitch 

@the-doctor-and-the-asshole

@the-magic-school-bus

@the-stars-drowning

@the-ultimate-bookworm 

@themortalityofundyingstars

@therealkaidertrash21

@thesafespaceyoualwayswanted

@thx-sunsxts-addrxss

@tigerbeancoffee

@torifuckingspring

@touslin 

@trilingualwannabe

@txna-blxckthorn

@whydousernamesevenexist

@wish-i-were-heather 

@woman-becomer

@writergracethepanda

@your-local-bi-guy 

@your-local-multi-geek

@yourlocalbadgerscales

@yourtwistedlies

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!!!ATTENTION TUMBLR!!!

Some of you may be familiar with this user. Some of you may also be aware of claims against him, stating that he is a pedophile.

I am here to assert that those claims are entirely true.

For a long while, I have suspected that user @violet92959 is not all that he seems. He has made suspicious remarks far too often, and upon further investigation, I have concluded that I am far from the only one who has realized this.

I gathered information and put it all into a folder on Google Drive. I have dissected that information in the Google Document, which is more in-depth than the Drive.

The conclusions I have made are that Violet is a racist pedophile with a fetish for Desi/Arab/Brown people. Please stay far away from this user for your own safety.

@17ratsinafleshsuit

@a-beautiful-fool

@a-trans-book-nerd 

@aesthetic-writer18 

@ah0yh0y 

@ameliascreampuffs

@aria-di-angelo 

@asters-tempo

@aston-martin-in-the-ditch 

@astral-projects-stars

@averyriskygamble1989 

@baguettes-and-biscuits

@beabeebeee

@beka-ahhhhhhhhhhhh

@berryzxx 

@bewitchingkisses

@bilkul-lazeez-hu

@bingle-official

@bl00dy-plan3t

@bleep-bloop-boo

@book-girl4evaaa 

@bookishirishdancer 

@brokendarkfairyempressforever

@bucketsandraincoats

@butch-marauders

@caffeineconnoisseur

@chaliyaaa

@cheekyboybeth

@cherries-in-wine

@choasuqeen

@circebutbetter

@confessions-of-an-old-cassette

@daddysclownboy

@dazzling-witch

@definitionoffuckup

@deprivedofbraincellsandsleep 

@discoveredreality

@drama-llamaaa

@dreaming-in-daylight

@ducktamer415

@electricguitarhasmyheart

@emostrawrobbery

@enbysiriusblack

@equippedtolove

@feix1ao 

@fictionalsimp09

@fillthedarkvoid

@finleyforevermore

@fireflychaosdemon 

@flowers-for-em 

@garden-of-runar

@gasolinehornet

@graysonhawthorneswife 

@greengirllover

@greenmanwiththesauce 

@hazellevessque 

@hellojuiceboxbaby

@here-i-am-sitting-in-a-tin-can

@hijabi-desi-bookworm

@hijabi-flavored-nerd

@homocidalpotat

@hxress23

@hxart-of-thx-ocxan

@iam1withthepeggy 

@im-on-crack-send-help 

@inara-tries-to-survive 

@innereverblaze

@isilee 

@itsviiii

@jkl-fff

@joowee-feftynn

@juliette-cai-enthusiast

@justalunaticfangirl

@kathryn-maraudersversion 

@kawaiibarty

@kip-davis

@liaazhang

@lillibethnougatesquirethe3rd 

@limeleviathan

@littlebookworm69

@lordcatwitch

@lost-in-reveriie

@lovergirl-lane

@luverina

@maryland-no-rabies

@marylily-my-beloved 

@maybxlle 

@miasbraindump 

@missedyour21st 

@moonlightt444 

@mqstermindswift 

@mun-urufu

@mxnkeydo

@myfairkatiecat

@newyorktimesbestsellerr 

@nqds

@omelettejunkie

@owocontroversy

@paloma-ascends-into-hellfire

@patatas-fritas-taylorsversion

@piniatafullofblood

@pinkwinesupernovas 

@poppy-petals17

@possibly-a-table-or-just-gay

@preetrambles

@prettylittleangel333

@queenofapeacefuldawn 

@queenpiranhadon 

@qylinscafune

@rainbow-flavoured-skittles

@ramblings-of-lola

@raven0317

@ravenwordss

@reminiscentreader

@rxsewqter

@scarlettauthor 

@seekmemystar

@send-up-my-heart-to-you 

@serialkilluh-1996

@shamelesswolfstarshipper

@shark-tranny

@shelfthe-reader 

@shinchansbitch

@shrxe

@shuhuaspookie 

@silverstarssart

@skeelly 

@sleep-can-wait 

@sleepinginmygrave

@sleepy-vix 

@small-giggle

@someonewhogotanaccount

@sotiredimbored 

@starcrossedmoony

@stars-and-leather

@stqrgirl3

@sunflxwcrs

@sunshinerainbowsandlollipops

@svnflowermoon 

@swans-chirping-in-the-distance 

@sweetnnaivete 

@sxturn-to-mxrs

@talksosweet

@thatrandomlemononyourcounter1

@the-bookish-bitch 

@the-doctor-and-the-asshole

@the-magic-school-bus

@the-stars-drowning

@the-ultimate-bookworm 

@themortalityofundyingstars

@therealkaidertrash21

@thesafespaceyoualwayswanted

@thx-sunsxts-addrxss

@tigerbeancoffee

@torifuckingspring

@touslin 

@trilingualwannabe

@txna-blxckthorn

@whydousernamesevenexist

@wish-i-were-heather 

@woman-becomer

@writergracethepanda

@your-local-bi-guy 

@your-local-multi-geek

@yourlocalbadgerscales

@yourtwistedlies

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!!!ATTENTION TUMBLR!!!

Some of you may be familiar with this user. Some of you may also be aware of claims against him, stating that he is a pedophile.

I am here to assert that those claims are entirely true.

For a long while, I have suspected that user @violet92959 is not all that he seems. He has made suspicious remarks far too often, and upon further investigation, I have concluded that I am far from the only one who has realized this.

I gathered information and put it all into a folder on Google Drive. I have dissected that information in the Google Document, which is more in-depth than the Drive.

The conclusions I have made are that Violet is a racist pedophile with a fetish for Desi/Arab/Brown people. Please stay far away from this user for your own safety.

@17ratsinafleshsuit

@a-beautiful-fool

@a-trans-book-nerd 

@aesthetic-writer18 

@ah0yh0y 

@ameliascreampuffs

@aria-di-angelo 

@asters-tempo

@aston-martin-in-the-ditch 

@astral-projects-stars

@averyriskygamble1989 

@baguettes-and-biscuits

@beabeebeee

@beka-ahhhhhhhhhhhh

@berryzxx 

@bewitchingkisses

@bilkul-lazeez-hu

@bingle-official

@bl00dy-plan3t

@bleep-bloop-boo

@book-girl4evaaa 

@bookishirishdancer 

@brokendarkfairyempressforever

@bucketsandraincoats

@butch-marauders

@caffeineconnoisseur

@chaliyaaa

@cheekyboybeth

@cherries-in-wine

@choasuqeen

@circebutbetter

@confessions-of-an-old-cassette

@daddysclownboy

@dazzling-witch

@definitionoffuckup

@deprivedofbraincellsandsleep 

@discoveredreality

@drama-llamaaa

@dreaming-in-daylight

@ducktamer415

@electricguitarhasmyheart

@emostrawrobbery

@enbysiriusblack

@equippedtolove

@feix1ao 

@fictionalsimp09

@fillthedarkvoid

@finleyforevermore

@fireflychaosdemon 

@flowers-for-em 

@garden-of-runar

@gasolinehornet

@graysonhawthorneswife 

@greengirllover

@greenmanwiththesauce 

@hazellevessque 

@hellojuiceboxbaby

@here-i-am-sitting-in-a-tin-can

@hijabi-desi-bookworm

@hijabi-flavored-nerd

@homocidalpotat

@hxress23

@hxart-of-thx-ocxan

@iam1withthepeggy 

@im-on-crack-send-help 

@inara-tries-to-survive 

@innereverblaze

@isilee 

@itsviiii

@jkl-fff

@joowee-feftynn

@juliette-cai-enthusiast

@justalunaticfangirl

@kathryn-maraudersversion 

@kawaiibarty

@kip-davis

@liaazhang

@lillibethnougatesquirethe3rd 

@limeleviathan

@littlebookworm69

@lordcatwitch

@lost-in-reveriie

@lovergirl-lane

@luverina

@maryland-no-rabies

@marylily-my-beloved 

@maybxlle 

@miasbraindump 

@missedyour21st 

@moonlightt444 

@mqstermindswift 

@mun-urufu

@mxnkeydo

@myfairkatiecat

@newyorktimesbestsellerr 

@nqds

@omelettejunkie

@owocontroversy

@paloma-ascends-into-hellfire

@patatas-fritas-taylorsversion

@piniatafullofblood

@pinkwinesupernovas 

@poppy-petals17

@possibly-a-table-or-just-gay

@preetrambles

@prettylittleangel333

@queenofapeacefuldawn 

@queenpiranhadon 

@qylinscafune

@rainbow-flavoured-skittles

@ramblings-of-lola

@raven0317

@ravenwordss

@reminiscentreader

@rxsewqter

@scarlettauthor 

@seekmemystar

@send-up-my-heart-to-you 

@serialkilluh-1996

@shamelesswolfstarshipper

@shark-tranny

@shelfthe-reader 

@shinchansbitch

@shrxe

@shuhuaspookie 

@silverstarssart

@skeelly 

@sleep-can-wait 

@sleepinginmygrave

@sleepy-vix 

@small-giggle

@someonewhogotanaccount

@sotiredimbored 

@starcrossedmoony

@stars-and-leather

@stqrgirl3

@sunflxwcrs

@sunshinerainbowsandlollipops

@svnflowermoon 

@swans-chirping-in-the-distance 

@sweetnnaivete 

@sxturn-to-mxrs

@talksosweet

@thatrandomlemononyourcounter1

@the-bookish-bitch 

@the-doctor-and-the-asshole

@the-magic-school-bus

@the-stars-drowning

@the-ultimate-bookworm 

@themortalityofundyingstars

@therealkaidertrash21

@thesafespaceyoualwayswanted

@thx-sunsxts-addrxss

@tigerbeancoffee

@torifuckingspring

@touslin 

@trilingualwannabe

@txna-blxckthorn

@whydousernamesevenexist

@wish-i-were-heather 

@woman-becomer

@writergracethepanda

@your-local-bi-guy 

@your-local-multi-geek

@yourlocalbadgerscales

@yourtwistedlies

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OOC

Reblog if you are okay with people pestering your characters about literally anything

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Apple bottom jeans

Huh? What?

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Everyone is fighting a tough battle so reblog to give previous a sword 🗡️

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Everyone is fighting a tough battle so reblog to give previous a sword 🗡️

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11k notes and I'll reveal every blog that I own

side note: comments don't count

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11k notes and I'll reveal every blog that I own

side note: comments don't count

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11k notes and I'll reveal every blog that I own

side note: comments don't count

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You know what’s some crazy $hit?

This fabulous bitch

She makes a shit ton of poses (like 16,000 or some crazy nonsense).  I used this lovely lady to draw so much as a teen.  Whether it was some nerdy pose for my Mary Sue as fuck OCs

or for full on fight sequences

or for tragic deaths of my OCs in the arms of a totally OOC main protagonist.  

this bitch hooked me up.  

And with the wildest, craziest stuff that you could see in your head but had no way or resources to reasonably draw like

or this

or this

DUDE!  INASNE SHIT!!  So I was using her for a pose reference and decided, you know what, I owe this bitch some cash.  Lemme dole it out for her.  BUT then, I looked and saw she only has 286 fucking patrons!!  This chick gives out free shit and spends countless hours arranging these shoots and setting this stuff up.  

I’ll fork up the cash, SenshiStock.  You’re worth it.  

Check out this amazing woman’s stuff, and get knowledged:  https://www.deviantart.com/senshistock