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does changing is a bad thing?

"When you wake upYour whole world's flippedIt's just different and you gotta, you knowYou gotta, you gotta go with it andThat's just simply growing upAnd not see it in a negative wayYou have to see it as it's been given to youI mean, as much as times can be crazyYou're gonna feel like that's where you're supposed to beYou're not gonna feel out of place anymoreYou're gonna feel like that's where you are meant to beYou don't have to pretend that it's easy all the timeYou just let it go and, and grow with itAnd you can't hold onTo the old youOr the old thisOr the old thatBecause you know you changeAnd it's not changing in a bad wayIt's just changingBecause that's what happens in lifeYou grow upEveryone moves onYou're just learningYou stay true to yourselfChanging isn't a bad thingIt never wasBut at the end of the day, you knowYou're the same personAnd, and where your heart isThat doesn't change" — understand, shawn mendes

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Women cheats too.

“My wife told me that she was pregnant and I got really excited about it. When the baby was born, my whole world crashed. The baby was a half black and the this is, neither of us is a black.”

I talked to someone in this site called Blah Therapy, he said that his wife cheated on him and i asked him how. And then he told me how excited he was when he found out that her wife was pregnant, they were really happy about it and they spent 9 months planning for the baby. When the baby was born and saw it for the first time, he ran out of the labor room and started crying. Shouldn’t he be happy about it? The this was, the baby that came out from his wife’s vagina was a half black. And neither of them was a black. When he came back from the room, she was a crying mess and begging him not to leave her. When i asked him if what would he do, he seemed so confused and lost. He told me how he loved his wife and gave everything for her but he can bare to fix things with her because he said, “if i stay with her, i can’t bear to look at the baby because if i do all i can see is my wife fucking that black” so he was planning to file a divorce. It was such a pity because he keeps asking what does that black guy had that he don’t? She knew that there was a huge possibility that the baby that she was carrying wasn’t her husband’s. Maybe if she already told him in the first place that she fucked another guy and there is a huge possibility that the baby wasn't his, it would be easier for him. 

Maybe it was meant to happen after all, for him to realize that they weren’t meant for each other. Maybe there is someone out there that he was supposed to be with. He deserves someone who will love him and will never cheat on him, someone who truly cares for him. If i am his wife, i will of course tell him immediately and won't make him believe that the baby was his. In fact, if i were his wife i will never ever cheat on him. The real power of marriage is for them to bond, to promise that they'll stay together whatever happens. They made a vow. Why would you marry someone if you're just going to cheat on them? It just sucks you know, knowing that the love of your life, your other half, has a baby that wasn't yours.