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astrobydalia · 6 days ago

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This is a very basic technique but I’ve hardly seen vedic astrologers explaining it in detail for some reason so thanks for making this 🙏🏼😭

7th lord in Nakshatras -Part 1

7th lord in Ashwini is my favourite so I'm glad this is the first one 😁, we're starting on a good note. Your spouse will have a GREAT body; very athletic and will motivate you to work out as well. Since it's the very first nakshatra, your spouse can act a little childish sometimes and will have a desire to travel and explore the world. Your spouse can have traditional feminine qualities, and if you're a woman, people will see you as the one wearing the "pants" in the relationship. They will be extremely nurturing, somewhat clingy and will want to protect and shield you from the dangers of the world (even though they're the ones, more likely to actually need protection). Very much into PDA, a great sex life if the 7th lord is strong in both d1 and d9. Strong potential to become a power couple. They'll also be very loyal and devoted to you. As for the negative, they can be very impulsive and stubborn, and if you're someone who likes to live their life on chill mode then..... You're not gonna like them very much.

7th lord in Bharani gives you a spouse who will express androgyny in regards to gender expression. If ashwini is into hugging and cuddling pda then bharani is just straight up giving backshots in an alley pda. The 7th lord must be in good dignity, especially if you're a straight woman. Your spouse can have a breeding kink. They will be a provider, but in a more spending-money-on-you sense, they will love buying stuff for you and will enjoy seeing you in expensive lingerie. Your material comfort will be their priority. They will have very strong values (positive or negative) and WILL leave you if you don't agree with them. Very "my way or the highway" type of a person. Can be kind of vain

7th lord in Krittika is another placement that gives an athletic spouse but unlike Ashwini, they're more "you rest and let ME handle the tough work", won't let you lift a finger and it doesn't matter if you're a man, woman, gay or lesbian, they will have this quality nonetheless. They can be passionate about social causes and will fight for equality and justice even if they don't belong to the group that's facing inequality. Your spouse will be very ambitious and might be the best in their career because of this; they will be respected and admired in their workplace. They will have a classy dressing sense and will give off a rich vibe. Since Krittika is associated with fire, their love language will be cooking and feeding you, will make sure that you eat all three meals and incorporate all nutrients. Now, for the negative, they can be physically aggressive and will have a tendency to cheat as well as this nakshatra is not exactly known for their loyal nature, quite the opposite infact.

7th lord in Rohini can give you a conventionally attractive spouse and they will have many admirers. They may look ethereal and it will definitely be a love at first sight thing for you. They will be very spiritual and will love to meditate, go on retreats and stuff. Your spiritual knowledge will increase through them and this placement can be beneficial if you have ketu in the 7th house. They can be a spendthrift and will be in debt because of this. Without spiritual evolution, they can be highly materialistic and will be almost obsessed with hoarding money or spending it only on themselves. They may be short tempered and can constantly accuse you of having an affair as they very much struggle with jealousy.

7th lord in Mrigashira also gives you an extremely spiritual spouse. In marriage, they'll give more importance to duty and responsibility than romance. They might follow a traditional courtship method, and will love writing poems or short notes for you. They will want to have kids so if you don't want that then there might be fights related to that. They will love talking to you and listening to your voice; giving advice and solving your problems will be their love language. Your spouse will be gentle and sweet with a mellow personality, this along with ashwini is one of my favourite placement. They'll bring emotional stability in your life. They might not be good at expressing their emotions so miscommunication can be a problem so make sure that you take the first step and address the elephant in the room. They will be shy and sensitive, so the sex will be more vanilla (unless your spouse has some likes-kinky-sex placements, then that changes everything).

7th lord in Ardra....I kind of do not like this placement very much, so this gives you a spouse who is very cunning; can have a fox like personality. They can be a little manipulative, but whether it's for the good or bad will depend on many other factors. They can be quite unpredictable and that can cause problems in marriage. They will be very bold and will love to take risks and go on adventures. They won't like the idea of having kids and can be irresponsible when it comes to them. I actually do not have anything good to say about it, I know many people with this placement and they've all had terrible experiences so I'm sorry.

7th lord in Punarvasu can give you a rich spouse or at least someone who has a much higher social standing than you. There will be something unconventional about your relationship; I've seen that people who have this just keep on living together with their partner rather than marrying them and that works for both of them. Your spouse may be involved in philanthropy. They will exhibit many uranian traits and that involves a need for independence which makes them a little commitment phobic, so it's recommended that you guys marry after 30. They'll be very creative and will love to organise parties. They will like to celebrate relationship milestones like, first anniversary, first meeting and all that stuff. They can be overly critical of the stuff and people around them and that's pretty much the only negative thing with this.

7th lord in Pushya shows that you'll have a karmic bond with your spouse so the house in which the 7th lord is in, is super important for the prediction. They'll be religious and will want to follow all the traditions associated with theirs. If you're a straight woman, your husband will expect you to be a housewife. They will appear to be a little closed off in the start but will slowly open up to you. Romance and all might take some time to take off, patience is the key here. They can be quite stubborn and arrogant at times, won't consult you before taking any decision in regards to the relationship and that will piss you off. They will get affected by other people's opinions and I've seen that women who have this, their husbands get pulled in by the misogynistic ideas of manosphere quite easily.

7th lord in Ashlesha gives you the ultimate tsundere. Sexual compatibility will be important to your spouse, they'll have a high libido as well. Your spouse will love talking to you about important topics;"political and economic state of the world". Will love taking you to libraries for a date. They will be introverted and won't like crowded places very much, so expect a lot of picnic and hiking dates. Will be the epitome of "lady in the streets, freak in the sheets" (change it to your preference). Seeing their bdsm dungeon for the very first time WILL freak you out. The negative thing is that they may overthink a lot, will make up scenarios that haven't happened and then get angry at you. They'll have high expectations of married life and will hold a grudge if things don't turn out to be exactly the way they pictured it to be. Ashlesha is great for filing for divorces so....it isn't really good for keeping things "together"

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astrobydalia · 6 days ago

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Guessing the Disney Princesses Big Six👑👸

👑Rapunzel: Leo Rising, Gemini Sun, Sagittarius moon, mercury in Gemini, Venus in Gemini, Mars in Pisces

👑Moana: Taurus Rising, Sagittarius Sun, Aquarius moon, Mercury in Sagittarius, Venus in Aquarius, Mars in Capricorn

👑Belle: Virgo Rising, Aquarius Sun, Pisces moon, mercury in Pisces, Venus in Aquarius, Mars in Scorpio

👑 Aurora: Libra rising, Pisces sun, Taurus moon, mercury in Aquarius, Venus in Pisces, Mars in Taurus

👑Mulan: Aquarius Rising, Aries Sun, Scorpio moon, mercury in Aries, Venus in Pisces, mars in Scorpio

👑Cinderella: Libra rising,Cancer sun, Virgo moon, cancer mercury, Venus in Leo, mars in Libra

👑Jasmine: Aries rising, Scorpio sun, moon in Leo, mercury in Libra, Venus in Sagittarius , Mars in Scorpio

👑Elsa: Scorpio Rising, Aquarius Sun, Capricorn moon, Mercury in Aries, Venus in Capricorn, mars in Virgo

👑Ana: Leo rising, Pisces sun, Gemini moon, mercury in Aquarius, Venus in Aries, mars in Sagittarius

👑Merida: Leo Rising (duhh look at that hair), Sagittarius sun, Aquarius moon, mercury in Sagittarius, Venus in Aquarius, Mars in Aries

(Apparently there’s a limit on how much GiFs I can put on a post so I’ll just type out the next ones sorry 😭)

👑Snow White: Cancer rising, Taurus sun, pisces moon, mercury in Taurus, Venus in Taurus, Mars in Cancer.

👑Ariel: Gemini rising, Pisces sun, Cancer moon, Mercury in Aries, Venus in Pisces, Mars in Pisces.

Starting a new series of guessing the big sixes of popular shows and movie characters♥️ thought it was a cute idea, if you guys like this one drop in the comments any movie or TV show characters you want me to predict their big six. (Can also be anime as well I love anime!) and I will make it on the next post🫶🏽

#brilliant!!!#id say pisces mercury for elsa tbh #but the rest is spot on!!!

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astrobydalia · 8 days ago

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My fave thing about my no more people pleasing era is going from “I don’t wanna inconvenience anyone” to “it is a delight to be not only an inconvenience but a real menace to the people who deserve it” 🙏🏼

#dalia rants

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astrobydalia · 8 days ago

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fixed moons aka the "I make everything about me" team

WHO SAID THAT???

#astrology #astro #astro observations #astro notes

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astrobydalia · 11 days ago

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Smoking Hot

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I've spoken about how 7th house synastry isn't always rainbows and butterflies bc it rules over open enemies too. But something undeniably good about this synastry is that it makes you able to perfectly coexist and work with the other person even in those cases where you don't like each other. With this synastry it is easier to detach and put your differences aside if you both have some common goal and/or need to resolve a conflict. 7th house synastry makes it easy to end up on good or polite terms with a person

Scorpio Moons don't handle conflict very well. They present themselves as being all tough and badass and like they are cool with entering conflict and drama but that's only if they feel they have power over other people in the situation. When they are the ones being exposed or emotionally vulnerable they chicken out and dissociate from intensity asap

Scorpio Moon in general is the most sensitive moon sign hands down but not in a good way, like the biggest whining behavior I've seen were form scorpio moons. Also their empathy tends to be pretty self-serving if I'm honest with you since fixed energy is more focused on the self and self-preservation, specially the taurus-scorpio axis

Virgo/Gemini ASC or Mercury in the 1st house people are know-it-alls. They come across as know-it-alls. Every time they open their mouth it's to either teach you, narrate you, inform you or lecture you about something. They're literally Jiminy Cricket

I've found that Taurus Moon men give off this vibe of being a secure provider but they're actually closeted mamas boys. They expect to be provided for by women both emotionally and financially.

Libra ASC men and chasing much younger women!!! Leo DiCaprio is the prime example but I've seen this so so so much with ppl I know irl too. This happens because they have Aries DSC and Aries is the first (aka, the youngest) sign of the zodiac, so Libra ASC tend to be attracted to people who have this fresh, new and inexperienced vibe to them

Air venus/moon natives will get the ick if they sense that you like them a lil too much💀

Aries Venus loves to be adored and admired in a relatioship more than Leo Venus. I've noticed that's actually what makes them stay longer in a relatioship once the initial thrill is over: they wanna feel like they're able to charm and fascinate their partner as if they just met for the first time. Unlike Air Venus, they definately don't run away if they sense that you like them too much, for Aries Venus their partner being obsessed with them is a huge thing I've noticed

Pisces/Neptune influence on the ASC will either make you look devilishly glamorous and etherial or look homeless and disheveled there's no in between

Mars-Uranus natives completely transform in the bedroom. I've noticed that with Mars-Pluto or Mars-Neptune aspects their sexual energy is palpable and can be sensed and perceived in their overall vibe (in other words, it's easier to guess their kinks). With Mars-Uranus natives you will not see it coming and their kinky/sexual side will shock you

5th house synastry and fighting the urge to giggle like children around each other

Planets do not interact with each other the same way and that depends on the nature of the planets themselves (and the aspects, dignities, etc). For example, Jupiter doesn't always expand what it touches, it can also bring moderation through wisdom, that is the case with Mars for example. In Roman mythology it was said that the reason why Jupiter is right behind Mars in the solar system is because Jupiter wants to keep an eye on Mars to make sure the god of war doesn't bring too much chaos and bloodlust to Earth. In other words, Jupiter does not expand Mars per se because their natures crash (mars is hostile, Jupiter is giving) and social/generational planets always dominate over personal planets. Jupiter is more likely to expand a planet like Venus, Moon or even Sun. Real example: with Jupiter-Mars conjunction in synastry, Jupiter person will motivate Mars person but will also not hesitate to keep Mars person accountable for their actions and make sure they do not cross lines

virgo sun/asc 🤝 wearing glasses and rocking the hot nerd look 🤓

Scorpio is meant to purge and transform things into something better, it's meant to be constructive not merely destructive (all fixed signs are about building UP). That's why when scorpio placements focus on revenge, they just end up finding their own self-destruction

Scorpio Mars people are very influential I’ve noticed. People start changing or doing things differently in some way after meeting them

Scorpio Mars 🤝 their inability to communicate clearly. Out of all scorpio placements scorpio mars are the ones who wanna play the mind-reading guessing game the most. They will love keeping you on the edge wondering their next move, what they're thinking, etc

Another thing is that I've seen many scorpio placements who aren't necessarily all into spirituality or occult and stuff, many of them had an almost superficial interest in it (esp scorpio sun), but that's not the case with Scorpio Mars. Every single Scorpio Mars I've seen was NECK DEEP into spirituality, occult or even religious stuff in some some way even if it was just privately bts.

Sagittarius Venus natives are very experimental with their style and aesthetics, they are the most eccentric venus sign from what I've seen but in a really pretty way. They remind me of Harper from Wizards of Waverly Place

I've noticed Libra Mars/Mercury are very controlling but in a very subtle and undercover way. The type to present their demands as suggestions that could benefit you.

Libra Mercury specially will elegantly always lead (cardinal) the conversations and narratives to where they want to without much effort. They're like the orchestra director of conversations an narratives

Scorpio Suns are either so chill, calm and quiet people or really loud and chaotic people who can't go a day without drama

No one talks about how Gemini/3rd house placements are just as obsessed with their friends and friend groups as Aquarius. The difference is Aquarians are a lot more cult-y about it

To elaborate, Aquarius/11th house placements don't have friends, they have minions, I rest my case. This is literally them:

Something I've noticed with Virgo Mercury is that no matter how polite or light-hearted they try to be, what they say always has this bossy undertone to it kinda like "I am right and you have to listen to what I say" vibe lmao. They're very intense when expressing opinions or making decisions

People with Scorpio+Virgo combo in their chart have a reputation for being rough around the edges and rather unkind or unfriendly. Their energy is rather unwelcoming if you're not close with them and they tend to be very irritable and controlling

Fire risings just ooze this "idgaf" energy, they always look joyful and like they're down for some fun. I noticed all of them enjoy getting recognition, not just Leo. They don't hold back and never wanna miss a chance to express themselves

Earth risings' demeanor give off NPC vibes🧍‍♀️🗿. They often come across as rather inexpressive or very collected and controlled behavior

Water risings appear to be approachable, vulnerable and open but they aren't. If you try to get a lil too close to them like an air sign they will literally glare at you. They remind me of the Grinch a little? 😭 No one gatekeeps their personal space more than them which is ironic bc their aura makes a lot of ppl feel the urge to get closer to them. They are the most likely to attract stalkers or ppl who secretly fantasize with them.

Air risings think about changing their entire life and identity at least 5 times a day. They are rather fluid and unpredictable it's like they're constantly exploring themselves. They are the real mysterious ppl bc they will always have you wondering who they really are cause they don't fully know themselves. It's like they are people without a conclusion in who they are that's the best way I can describe them

I've said this before but Scorpio ASC really is one of the most common rising signs in celebrities due to Leo 10th house (derivative system). Also Earth ASC is very common in celebrities or public figures too since Air 10th house gives a career where you have prominent presence in media and communication. Most common earth asc is Capricorn cause venus ruling 10th house gives wealth and favorable reputation. Most common Air ASC is Gemini (Pisces 10th house) and for fire ASC is Leo (venus ruling 10th house) . But the top most common one as per my observation is def Scorpio ASC

With that said Venus is def more about manifesting abundance and success than Jupiter. I saw a reel that ranked the most common sun signs in billionaires and the top 3 were Libra, Taurus and Pisces.... What do all these signs have in common? VENUS. Many wealthy and successful people have Venus influencing their MC/10th house but very few have Jupiter there. If you wanna manifest I'd say focus more on your Venus sign and the energies ruled by venus in your chart

Again I've said this before Jupiter is a boost in terms of expansion, opportunities and wisdom but its energy on its own does not guarantee anything. Let's remember that Jupiter is debilitated in two earth signs (virgo and Capricorn) which means Jupiter is not about materializing stuff per se, Jupiter is about giving you the wisdom, support, hope, faith and guidance you need which is crucial for manifesting yes but the rest is up to you.

For the most part, I've seen Lilith in the 1st house tend to be patronized more than anything, people tend to not respect them and wanna treat these natives like they're dumb. But I've noticed this happens bc ppl with this placement (or prominent Lilith in general) are often very intelligent and they tend to get minimized a lot bc others feel threatened by them

The most stereotypically neat-picky and perfectionist virgo placement is Virgo Venus. They expect things to be done a certain way and this can be easily felt in how they interact with others which can make their love and affection feel rather conditional. They're not good at faking kindness. I've spoken before about how their social behavior tends to be very dry, and I've also noticed they tend to be openly judgmental and don't really care if they make people around them uncomfortable

we all know juno/venus in the 1st house gives off wife/husband material but have you ever met someone with moon in the 1st house? these people's pull game is LETHAL. Lunar energy is way more powerful than venus in terms of charm and attraction cause moon knows how to tug at you heart, your deepest needs and soft spots. And so natives with this placement make soooooo many people weak for them even if those people wouldn't normally consider the native their type initially (applies for cancer asc too)

Aquarius and Virgo are very similar in how they both seem to have opinions on how things could (and should) be done better. They both tend to come across as know-it-alls

Sun conjuct the ASC or in the 1st house in synastry is very common between people who really like eachother both in a romantic and platonic way. I've noticed this overlay tends to create a very strong bond and attraction. A lot of admiration as well

If you got someone's Lilith on your ASC/1st house big chances are this person is simultaneously disgusted and fascinated by you. I've seen the Lilith person often tends to heavily judge the house person but at the same time they admire the house's person nature and how they effortlessly embody the qualities the Lilith person sees as forbidden and out of reach

Libra Lilith is a very disappointing placement. I've seen slut-shaming is a huge thing with them as well as dragging the shit out of others for very superficial reasons (money, status, looks, etc). They give too much importance to things being "cool" like some air-headed high schooler. Also, they handle conflicts in a very cowardly manner and tend to make promises and commitments they later can't keep.

Taurus placements often times strike me as very conceited tbh, specially sun, venus and mars. They act like they are the only ones in the room with standards, taste or common sense.

Also, I've noticed underdeveloped Taurus placements tend to be secretly rather envious? They focus too much on what others have that they don't, they wanna be the ones who notably have more

Both Aries Moon and Scorpio Moon have volatile emotions I've observed since they share Mars rulership, they tend to explode out of nowhere. The difference is that Aries Moon tends to get over it fast like sometimes it's even amusing to see them mad, they will put you in your place and move on. I've noticed they don't really hold grudges much cause they don't really take things too personally and when they do they attack ppl's actions no ppl themselves if that makes sense. Scorpio Moons in comparison are much more catastrophic when going about their emotions, they fr act like it's the end of the world and 9/10 times WILL make things personal. They act like it's fine once the heat dies down but they actually tend to secretly hold on to that anger and resentments for a long ass time if not forever

Aquarius Moon is the most independent moon sign, they tend to be precocious children who grow up really fast, maybe too fast. I've seen that they are forced into adult life VERY early on and they seem to stomach it like it's nothing. I've seen several ppl with this placement who were literally kicked out of their house by their family. It won't be that extreme in all cases, but there seems to be a theme with Aquarius Moons in general and being emotionally disconnected from any sense of dependability on others... for better and for worse

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astrobydalia · 12 days ago

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#believing i can gaslight the universe is my toxic trait

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astrobydalia · 13 days ago