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PSA

Avoidant people don’t avoid responding to messages because they’re trying to be rude or don’t care about you; in fact, it’s quite the opposite. We care all too much and we spin around in circles trying to figure out the correct and ideal reply that will be the best for you and this makes us so anxious and exhausted that we just don’t have the energy required to formulate a response.

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lil’ AvPD things: realizing you’ve forgotten to do something extremely important and then continuing to put it off because it’s Too Late Now

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me: *makes a tiny unimportant mistake*

me: time to return to the sea

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no therapy we die like men

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*gets insulted* Nah I don’t care, my mom has said worse to me

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me: [takes the chance to talk to someone and is ignored]

me: Pack it up, boys. We’re never trying that again.  

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“stop making jokes this is serious!”

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doodle of the day

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mental illness in a nutshell

literally anyone: are you ok?

me: you mean like your standards ok or my standards ok

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bad habits: visiting this fucking website every day 

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I dont think my therapist understands that I cant remember my moods. Like I feel great right now, and its like i’ve always felt like this, then i’ll feel depressed and feel like i’ve felt depressed my whole life. Like dont ask me how my month has been cause I wont remember. 

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me when i have like a sip of water: ahaha my cells are gonna love me for this one…finally getting on the health wagon

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you’re not selfish for wanting to be treated well

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sorry ill try to keep it in next time

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me: *doesnt eat* me: what the fuck…why am i so tired and light headed what the hale…..