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I hear folks, even in queer spaces, say that "Bi and Pan people will sleep with anyone!"

That's not how it works. So, as a pansexual, I want to explain what the inside of my head looks like

There are physical characteristics that I like and dislike. But, they are not related to sex or gender.

Why?

I can appreciate any combination of boobs, dick, vagina (etc). If I want you, I want whatever you have. If I love you, that want is even stronger. My physical preferences are things like "bigger than me in some way" or "has a good voice" (for example). Honestly, tattoos rule.

When it comes to gender and sex, that is also your choice, not mine. Are you happy with your identity? Nice! I will support whatever your identity is, including if you change it. I have no preference on this I do find certain fashions attractive. Fashion can, of course, be deeply entwined with gender. But, when I'm attracted to a style, this applies universally. I also find certain styles universally ugly. Toe shoes look bad on everyone, in my opinion Alongside all this, I am also panromantic. My love is not connected to one gender or sex. I still care about values, voting, interests, goals, humor, behavior, and kinks. Being pan doesn't change any of that.

If you do experience gender or sex preferences, that's okay! If you experience nothing of the sort, that's okay too! Queer spaces should include everybody queer.

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Do you accept

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Bear eating marshmallow, Yellowstone National Park, 1967.

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Obsessed w u

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Realizing my depression might have always been PMDD and everything else could likely be PME. Another reason to encourage folks to track cycles and symptoms

hey if your period literally fucking cripples you every month but everyone keeps telling you that's normal and you're just overreacting

consider that it might not be normal

I've been on the depo shot contraceptive for several years longer than you're supposed to because it manages these symptoms, I had to go off it for a while by doctor suggestion to reassess if I still need it, my period has been back for three days and I'm seeing my doctor TODAY to get back on depo because I just can't handle the physical and emotional toll it takes on me

this shit is genuinely crippling, I cannot function, don't let people convince you that this is normal, listen to your body and get help

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*feels my body get anxious for no reason* what is it boy, what do you see?

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These Favorites are Back!

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I always forget about this digital land

Feeling so confused with the best means to move forward with sex education, sex work, and personal connection/information in a land without functioning meta and x accounts.

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[on the verge of having a complete breakdown] i need to make some kind of list or perhaps sort things into categories

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reblog if you’re NOT tumblr famous, but you ARE tired and kinda gay

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