b0ytemper

[b0ytemper]

could someone who isn’t me puppeteer my body into doing all the things i want and need to do please

[b0ytemper]

joining the war on porn on the side of porn

[b0ytemper]

had a day filled with love support and kindness from strangers yesterday

i was on a day trip to san francisco, arriving in the morning and flying back in the evening (delivering a cat), but i misread the email with my itinerary and was fucking around touristing in the city when i got the text that my plane home had already started boarding passengers. i was unmedicated, had no money and nowhere to stay, and i was so freaked out i started crying. no time to take the train back to the airport, got an uber. uber guy was friendly and seemed to notice i was really stressed and upset, asked me where i was going with so little luggage, and i told him i was late for my flight home to utah. he locked tf in for me and at EXACTLY the speed limit, taking shortcuts away from traffic, dropped me off right in front of the check-in desk for the airline i was flying on with incredible time, hurried me out and wished me good luck.

unfortunately, it was too late, the check-in agent told me i couldn’t make it through security before the gate closed and the plane took off. however, even though it took three agents wrestling the booking software, they managed to squeeze me in on the very last flight to my city of the day, completely free of charge, and were kind, patient, reassuring and understanding the whole time.

so, with an extra two hours to wait to go home, i decided to rest and decompress at the gate, get a snack, settle my nerves. for obvious reasons, i was one of the first passengers waiting for the flight. another early bird shows up, a girl about my age, and i can tell she wants to start up conversation because she sits right next to me in the nearly empty waiting area, starts playing music without headphones, and reading her book while muttering the words to herself under her breath, smiling in a cheerful and friendly way when we accidentally make eye contact. i’m a shy person, so i didn’t take the bait, but she just struck up conversation anyway. i would have been a little annoyed if her personality wasn’t so bright and charming and sunshiny, the conversation was very natural and just made me smile. we were talking about our history with air travel, swapping airport horror stories, talking about what we were doing in san francisco, that sort of thing. i mentioned that i’m going on my first ever long international flight soon, a journey that’s going to involve 20-25 hours shut in a metal tube thousands of meters over the ocean, and she offered lifesaving tips like bringing compression socks and earplugs. it was stressful missing my flight, but all these strangers made my day a lot easier and happier.

shoutout to the uber driver, the three agents at the delta airlines check-in counter, ESPECIALLY Ali, and to billings montana girl. i hope you made it to your connecting flight! thank you for reminding this anxious shut-in how wonderful people can be.

[b0ytemper]

so itchio has shadowbanned any games tagged with 'nsfw', 'adult', or 'erotic' so they don't show up in searches, and several devs have reported that their r18 games have been removed from the site with no warning

you know, maybe the internet shouldn’t be controlled by payment processors and terf lobbyists. and maybe people should be more concerned about this rise of censorship on queer media.

[b0ytemper]

“[kink] is bad because [thing the kink is based on] is bad” is such a funny take. we’re acting. you hate theater. you’re standing up in the audience and mansplaining to lady macbeth that killing people is wrong

[b0ytemper]

Margaery Tyrell <3

[b0ytemper]

ever been in so much pain you forgot who you were for a good hour

i HATE having a functioning uterus i HATE it. my emotions are a hormonal hallucination, my face looks like if the moon caught the bubonic plague, searing aching deep pain from the chest down to the point where i can barely uncurl my body, and a red flag coming out my jeans pointing the attention of strangers to my ass. and i’m supposed to be EMBARRASSED if i can’t successfully pretend nothing’s happening? hell world terrible species cruel sick and sadistic god

[b0ytemper]

i HATE having a functioning uterus i HATE it. my emotions are a hormonal hallucination, my face looks like if the moon caught the bubonic plague, searing aching deep pain from the chest down to the point where i can barely uncurl my body, and a red flag coming out my jeans pointing the attention of strangers to my ass. and i’m supposed to be EMBARRASSED if i can’t successfully pretend nothing’s happening? hell world terrible species cruel sick and sadistic god

[b0ytemper]

Stronger Together!!

[b0ytemper]

anon hate

witty response

[b0ytemper]

kitchen table polyamory but more like ‘royal feast in the great hall of the castle’ polyamory. we may not all be dating but there’s like 300 of us and we’re ready to destroy our enemies. lots of cool swords

[b0ytemper]

i can't be the only one who's just straight-up ... bored with women hating themselves. my mom keeps lamenting to me how upset she is about her gray hair. my friend stares at her laugh lines every day in agony. my sister loses sleep over the horrible unbearable thought of looking fat. and every time these women i love open up to me, i can't help but think ... then stop staring at yourself? stop drowning yourself, narcissus, and just fucking live your life instead of sitting in front of a mirror obeying cosmetic corporations' lies. just stop it. this is getting ridiculous. you're too smart to be falling for this bullshit. "oh no but these men who hate women told me that if i'm ugly i'm worthless!" girl if you actually believe that then good luck. but i am getting worse at being supportive of people whose nonsense worldviews keep them trapped in pain. stop looking at yourself start fucking living i am pleading you deserve to be happy and it is stupid that you disagree

[b0ytemper]

That cats are both good at learning by imitation and deeply concerned with procedure and routine can be a mixed blessing. On the one hand, it means that cats will pick up on a lot of things that other animals would need training for simply by watching you model appropriate behaviour. On the other hand, sometimes a cat will infer a rule you maybe didn't intend to follow and take it upon itself to enforce that rule, and now you're a grown-ass adult with a fixed bedtime.

[b0ytemper]

seeing the works of artists i knew and looked up to in my childhood getting fed to ai without permission to churn out soulless meaningless clones makes me feel fucking homicidal i hate everyone responsible with every part of my being

[b0ytemper]

In case you're wondering what raising a kid in a polyamorous family looks like, our kid just has. Zero concept of monogamy. Like we've explained it to her many times but she just like. Forgets it's a thing and the assumed cultural norm. We're showing her Lord of the a Rings and she was very confused when Aragon rejected Eowyn.

"Wait, I thought they liked each other??"

"She likes him but he's already with Arwen."

"So?? He could just be with both??"

Anyway enjoy this meme I found about it

[b0ytemper]

there’s this extremely kind soul of a woman on instagram that makes accessible recipes that don’t require standing, chopping, or a stove and she might just have a permanent place in my heart