I am so tired of seeing fic labeled as "Reader x ______", expecting it to be gender neutral, when there is a blatant reference to the reader being female. Please start labeling them properly. "Fem!Reader x _______". I would very much appreciate that. Or maybe I should stop labeling my male reader and gender neutral fics correctly? Make them general. Because I would like to know what I'm getting into, and not every person in the fandom you're writing for is female. Please stop assuming they are. Those of us who are Male, Gender Neutral, and/or Non-Binary may not want to read female reader stories. And it really sucks when you click on one, hoping that it's gender neutral or even male, and find out that it's female.
Also, please stop tagging your female reader works in the male reader tag. We already don't have a lot of fics, and you're taking our space away from us. You're giving us false hope to something that we have so little of. If you're not going to write for us, then you could at least have the courtesy to not take our spaces.
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some people on insta said i should post my workout routine since i mentioned how im so happy with the results, so here’s my little workout guide for my fellow trans folk! I focused on getting a more masculine body because obviously that’s what I want. I’m so happy with the results, this workout is saving my fucking life!!!! I can’t get on T soon so this has really been keeping my dysphoria in check. I barely get body dysphoria, i love how my clothes looks on me, i love feeling confident for once in my life!!! HOWEVER Don’t go overboard with working out my friends. Do not work out in a binder, you MUST take days off to let your muscles heal, and you CAN’T starve yourself! Fitness is all about health and diet! Take care of yourself. This is also MY workout routine, you may not get the same results as I have! Every body is different.
EDIT: ahh I really didn’t expect this thing to blow up….A few people have brought it to my attention that some of the nutrition here could be wrong/not work for everyone. I apologize if I caused any harm. I think I stressed enough that you shouldn’t starve yourself to lose weight. That’s very dangerous, and if you’re prone to such habits I suggest don’t count calories, etc, and just make sure your diet is very nutritious. I just provided a way to lose weight that my doctor told me about. You don’t need to lose weight if you don’t want to. Obviously if you’re already thin there’s no need to make a goal to lose weight; that’s dangerous. Also, some of this may or may not be helpful depending on your body type. I was underweight before working out so I have no idea how it would affect someone overweight! Please don’t hold this post to such a high standard; this was just my own routine and things I do to stay in shape, I obviously can’t cater to everyone. I literally didn’t expect this post to blow up like it did, this was literally just for a few people. Sorry for any harm it caused!
Things you should not say to people (especially neurodivergent people & people with trauma):
"It's weird that you carry a stuffed animal with you"
"just clear your head"
"you're not a kid"
"you're too old for toys"
"stop humming"
"stop bouncing your leg"
"just go over there"
"it's not that hard"
"grow up"
"you're talking too much"
"you don't seem [enter mental illness/disorder]"
"your room is disgusting"
"don't you ever do anything?"
"did you even try?"
"you look crazy"
"are you sure you want to wear that out?
"why are you always crying?"
"that's just life"
"get over it"
"you should understand this easily"
"I think you're faking it"
"i don't think you need meds"
"you used to be so happy"
"you've always had a good life"
"what part of ____ do you not understand???"
*yelling*
"it's not that many people, stop covering your ears"
"this is the real world"
"it's not hard to make friends"
"are you slow or something?"
"what's so hard about ordering food?"
"you're still not done with that?"
"it didn't seem like you had adhd until your diagnosis"
"i really don't think [insert mental illness/disorder is real"
"i don't care how you feel about it"
"why can't you follow simple instructions?"
"you always pull your phone out in public and don't talk to anyone"
"if you cared, you would've heard me"
"no, you're just not listening."
"it's just a hug!"
"could you just act normal"
"stop being so quiet"
"stop being so loud"
"why can't we touch you? we're your family."
RB and add your own! Remember that your mental illness does not make you any less of a person and no one should treat you as less of a person because of it. ✨
-One shot : Norman (Blind man) smut but im hesitating on the plot 😩Should i go with the dark one where he gets insanely jealous???
-One shot : Riding Boba on his throne 👀
ps. Reminder of the new rules, i’m taking requests weekly and writing what I answer. If I don’t answer your ask, i’ll delete it (do not take it personally, i’m writing what inspires me in the moment so to avoid getting writer’s block) and maybe the next time you guys can send it in. If it’s too long to read my post about it, for now i’m only writing for Male characters.
In case you missed it, here’s what I posted these last few weeks.
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