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Reassurance Masterlist

My blog is mostly harsh to read, so here’s every reassuring post I made:

When you feel it “wasn’t that bad”

How loving parents act towards their kids

Abuse towards you cannot be justified

Abuse and trauma have no benefits

When you feel you weren’t abused enough

There was nothing you could have done differently to avoid abuse

It’s not your fault you feel like you don’t belong

Talking about abuse isn’t whining

Craving abuse is not your fault

Self-harming is not your fault

Intrusive thoughts are not your fault

Needing attention, comfort and validation is normal and human

You’re allowed to feel your feelings

You cannot provoke abuse, and you did not ask for it

Abuser’s point of view is not valid

Abusive parents can’t tell you who you are

Responsibility for abuse lies on abuser, not on you

Your pain is not a burden on others

When you struggle to call yourself a survivor

You do not deserve abuse even if you feel addicted to it

Your abuser didn’t have to hurt you

Nobody made them abuse you

You are alive because of yourself

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Forgivenss does not always mean recovery! Sometimes, being angry at them it’s the best way to recover. Destroy the idea that you always need to forgive your abusers!

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i bought a hello kitty magazine!!!🌸🎀

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i forgot clo///vergender is a thing >:( clover is just our name

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Gentle Reminder: You’re soft and pure and deserve respect.

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Rilakkuma Agere Outfit!

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Tips for Undercover Regressors!

There are already a lot of posts like this but here are some things to do/buy as someone who’s parents/guardians don’t know they regress!

Ring Pop candy and Baby Bottle Pop candy can be used as pretend pacifiers/baby bottles!

Fidget and stim toys are great! If you don’t already use them for focus/sensory stuff/stimming/etc, they can be passed off as such

Japanese candy is really cute! If you have access to it it can help you feel small

This may seem obvious, but buy oversized sweaters!!

Chewable jewelry can be used as teethers and is really easy to find online

Buy cute things in general! Notebooks with cute designs, pencils with cute eraser tops, shirts/dresses with cute patterns, and the like can all be disguised as style preferences

Cartoons are watched by teens and adults too! Stuff on Cartoon Network and Nickelodeon are my faves

Play on Cool Math Games!! Totally free, old-web vibes list of games that actually work (unlike a lot of actual old web dress up games and stuff). If people think it’s weird you can say you’re playing it for nostalgia!

Nickelodeon has a gaming website as well with little games related to their shows! I didn’t see too many ads there when I looked

Listen to music through headphones! I like to listen to Disney show/movie soundtracks, Animal Crossing music, and electronica!

Paint your nails! You’ll feel really cute!

Eat snacks like goldfish or mac n cheese!

Get a coloring book! They aren’t all “for kids”

If your parents/guardians don’t look through your phone, buy preschool apps/interactive bedtime story apps!

Hope these helped!

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