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Who are some women in the fashion industry that you like?

A bunch, but I've always liked Alexis Phifer. People only associate her with being K*nye's ex-girlfriend which is unfortunate. I highly believe Alexis was the one who got him interested in fashion considering she was always a fashion girly who was well-connected in the industry. She's super lowkey all while still being a part of the industry which I love.

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Can you do an episode or give tips on listening to more positive music? You said in your episode how female rappers are so male indetified and I agree but it's soooo hard to find other music to listen to that gives me that same feeling ya know?

Baby Tate is one of the few female rappers whose music is actually for the girlies. Hot Girl, Bugaboo, Beckham?? Literally girls girl music.

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Listening to your podcast while eating crab boil 💆🏾‍♀️💕🦀

ideal saturday afternoon!!

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You have so much, you don’t know. You have so much POWER over us (n*ggas). You run shit, but you just don’t know! ~ Tupac on women

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Would you be friend with girls that don’t have similar opinions about men? Like they’re not hypergamy girls?

nope. I was friends with women who had low standards when it came to the men they entertained and it was gross to witness. I have to be around women who are smart.

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They will rarely ever show it, but deep down people always respect a gold digger. Even if it’s in a perverse, subconscious way, people will have respect for someone who set stringent high standards and refused to tolerate anyone who wouldn’t meet them. Most people who mock hypergamous women are just jealous they don’t have the discipline and self-respect to maintain those same standards in their own lives.

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People keep responding to this text post on some "you have to communicate your feelings in order to build a relationship" please STOP. This text post is specifically for the high-maintenance girlies. If you're used to a certain standard and you're dealing with someone who isn't treating you up to that standard you deserve, verbally telling that said person how to treat you is incredibly stupid. As I said, if someone doesn't come correct in terms of treating you like the princess that you are, move on to the next.

I can’t emphasis enough how important it is to NEVER communicate to anyone what your standards are. If you have to TELL someone how to treat you, you’re already disrespecting yourself by continuing to talk to someone who’s not on your level. If they don’t come correct, let them go.

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I love Jayne Mansfield.

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Do you have any interview suggestions from women who I can take inspo when it comes to being more feminine and speaking more confidently in public?

I love watching Eartha Kitt speak, and act - whatever the case may be, she was such a unique woman. Super theatrical, extremely confident, and made her presence known in every room she entered. And her voice!!!! I love her: Speaking Freely: Eartha Kitt

Diana Ross was so dreamy in this interview. Physically of course she's just perfect but her attractive and positive personality makes her a 10/10. She's another one who's just super eloquent and articulate. Diana Ross on The Russell Harty Show

The persona that Marylin Monroe portrayed to the public was essentially an act as she wasn't being authentically herself, but she can be used as a source of inspiration nonetheless. Marylin was pretty consistent with having this child-like, super feminine innocence about her. I personally found it to be adorable. It's pretty obvious why she was the bombshell of the 50s. Marilyn Monroe Rare Footage And interview Paris Ball 1957

Diahann Carroll is literally a no-brainer. How she spoke and her poise was admirable. I think she's the epitome of someone who was bougie and she personified this word in any and every way. Huge inspiration when it comes to presenting yourself in public: Johnny Carson Interview Diahann Carroll

Diana Dors has been a new favorite of mine. My favorite 50s blonde bombshell has always been Marylin and although the two are somewhat similar looks-wise, Diana had more of an edge to her personality-wise. I really love this interview from her, the interviewer was very much so misogynistic with his questions but Diana handled it with class: Diana Dors--Complete Mike Wallace Interview, 1957

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Topic ideas some are vague but maybe can give you ideas/inspo

- glowing up and being the prettiest version of you

- unlocking your potential

- standing up for yourself and being more assertive

- a more in depth episode about being bougie on a budget

- how to demand respect and be the person that people will never push over

- more about your journey into fashion and you to find hobbies and passions that suit you

- how to climb the corporate ladder

- lifestyle tips: being energized throughout the day, creating a routine that allows you to be productive

- more in depth about how to move when on a date. How to deal with guys and get what you what you want from the moment you meet them

- where to go to make girl friends — more details about your solo dates, where to go , how to be more approachable

- toxic traits you’ve had an overcame

- more coming to age content (I like hearing how you grew and overcame stuff in your life)

- anything that will help us get to know you more (obviously still protect your privacy but I do love learning about you as I feel we have similar interests. Sure anyone who follows you has similar interests lol)

oh my gosh these are such good ideas thank you!!

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You get better and better and I’m loving it ❤️ I love comfortable you’re getting with talking and the topics you cover. I also am excited that you’re trying to be more consistent. I can’t wait to plan my sheissobougie listening sessions in my weekly routine. You’re so different from other podcasters I listen to. Idk if it’s because ive been following you for a while or what but I can’t get into other podcasters (I get so bored) but with you I get so sad when it’s about to end 😭 please keep going you’re doing amazing 💕💕💕💕

Thank you so much!

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I was trying to be in my “nice girl give men the benefit of the doubt” era but I literally do not care anymore. I like rich/successful men who drive nice cars and who carries themselves well. I like going out to five star restaurants on dates. I like to be spoiled. I’m an unapologetic gold digger and It’s in my right to have these standards forever instilled and to never settle for any less. I’d rather be alone than to settle with anyone who doesn’t match these standards.

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I can’t emphasis enough how important it is to NEVER communicate to anyone what your standards are. If you have to TELL someone how to treat you, you’re already disrespecting yourself by continuing to talk to someone who’s not on your level. If they don’t come correct, let them go.

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Alton Mason in Luis De Javier

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Do you have any songs that instantly makes you motivated? I'm trying to find to songs with positive affirmations but it's harddd

It's always going to be Waves by Joey Bada$$ for me. What a Day/Tyler the Creator, I Wonder/ Kanye West, Picture Me Rolling/Tupac, Stronger/Kanye West, I'm Good/Clipse.

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