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CALLOUT FOR LEE / KIER  ( @ pcstwick / flygontm / eternahop / faeriefound )

WARNINGS FOR: SUICIDE THREATS, ABUSE, MANIPULATION, GUILT TRIPPING, GASLIGHTING

This is the sequel I know nobody wanted to see, but this was something I needed to do. But, as a disclaimer, I know that things between Kier and the parties behind the first KierCallout blog have been ultimately settled. THIS IS MOSTLY UNRELATED TO THAT, AND THOSE PARTIES DO NOT WANT TO BE INVOLVED ANY LONGER.

But I wanted to show that Kier’s problematic behavior didn’t begin and end with that debacle. I wanted to say definitively that I felt like I was being mistreated as their friend for the majority of the time we were friends. That’s not to say I haven’t made my own mistakes or that we didn’t have good times and good memories together. But the quality of friendships aren’t only based on the GOOD times. If the good times are good, and the bad times are abusive, that’s an abusive relationship, plain and simple.

By the end of our friendship, I was literally afraid of them. I was afraid to change my status from Invisible, afraid to speak, afraid to do anything that might get on their bad side. I was made to think that anything that I said that hurt their feelings was because I was a bad friend or a bad person. I was prepared to let sleeping dogs lie, but enough was enough when I found they block-evaded me using their positivity blog. NO CONTACT MEANS NO CONTACT. PERIOD. 

Thus, I made a summary of the two events that ended our friendship. Keep in mind that this comes on the back of multiple months of abusive, gaslighting behavior that I didn’t have time to show. As a result, the tone is pretty bitter and angry in a few places. My own terrible experiences have left me jaded, cynical, and distrustful about Kier as a person.

That being said, DO NOT TRY TO USE THIS AS AN EXCUSE TO SEND KIER ABUSE AND ANON HATE! I do not condone that in any way, and if you’re really going to send anonymous hate because of internet drama, reconsider your life choices. This document is meant to serve as an archive of prior abusive behavior and a warning to the community in case Kier falls back on old habits, not an internet hit job.

Also, so that a certain someone doesn’t get any funny ideas that he can capitalize off of the pain of MY experiences, here is the Callout Kier made of Mick / Juicy, who is apparently still after them. Two wrongs don’t make a right, and while I’m clearly upset about the treatment I was subjected to, that doesn’t mean I think what Mick did was justified. He utterly disgusts me. 

That said, I refused to be kept silent about my experiences because of the threat of him coming back. I’m not aiming to get them “cancelled” or trying to make them delete everything. But after months of walking on eggshells and blaming myself for every tiny thing that ever went wrong between us, I will not be cowed or told to shut up for their benefit any longer. For any reason. I deserve to be heard and to tell my story. And, most of all, I deserve closure after months of being treated terribly. 

HERE’S THE LINK OF THE FULL CALLOUT.

– Mittens

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Preliminaries: Introduction

“Good morning, Galar! This is your Chairman Rose speaking! I just wanted to welcome you all to the first annual Summer Ballympics! Many thanks for your patience, but Quick Ball Guy wanted to make sure that all of the obstacles for the first round of the course were safe. And you’ll all be relieved to know that we have his full support! We’ll inform you about the arrangement of the various obstacles soon!”

“But first!, I wanted to introduce all of our competitors! Please remember that this round won’t have head-to-head match-ups, so we’ll decide who moves forward based solely on their final time! The best four out of six teams get to move on to the semi-finals!”

Keep reading

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B A L L   G  U Y????

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“GOOD MORNING, GALAR! Quick Ball Guy here! Clear blue skies and sweltering heat can mean only one thing: Summer is right around the corner! And, boy, do I have a blistering tournament of champions for you! Do you think you and your friends have what it takes to be the next Galarian Ninja Warriors? For those of you eager to beat the heat and wanting challenge your mind, body, and friendships, meet me in Wyndon Park! It’s going to be a doozy!” 

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Hi, guys! Mittens of BallGuySays and PrisonRose back at it again with another plotless dash event! Reblog this promo and follow the official Ballympics blog for updates! Visit the blog for the Rules and Mechanics (or visit this GDoc for you mobile users!)

Some basics: Only one muse per mun this event, to keep things fair and availability open! This is going to be a TEAM EVENT, so you must have THREE TOTAL PLAYERS in order to participate! Start scouting now, because team slots are first come, first served once the submission box is open! Enrollment starts on the 25th of May and ends on the 31st of May, 11:59 PM EDT!

Also, out of courtesy, make sure to tag all relevant posts as #[ 2020 Ballympics: Galarian Ninja ]

Get cracking! See you this Monday!

Quick Ball Guy Art: Commissioned from @uncle-cucky Promo, Header, and Avatar: Edited by @drakenskies

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“GOOD MORNING, GALAR! Quick Ball Guy here! Clear blue skies and sweltering heat can mean only one thing: Summer is right around the corner! And, boy, do I have a blistering tournament of champions for you! Do you think you and your friends have what it takes to be the next Galarian Ninja Warriors? For those of you eager to beat the heat and wanting challenge your mind, body, and friendships, meet me in Wyndon Park! It’s going to be a doozy!” 

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Hi, guys! Mittens of BallGuySays and PrisonRose back at it again with another plotless dash event! Reblog this promo and follow the official Ballympics blog for updates! Visit the blog for the Rules and Mechanics (or visit this GDoc for you mobile users!)

Some basics: Only one muse per mun this event, to keep things fair and availability open! This is going to be a TEAM EVENT, so you must have SIX TOTAL PLAYERS in order to participate! Start scouting now, because team slots are first come, first served once the submission box is open! Enrollment starts on the 25th of May and ends on the 31st of May, 11:59 PM EDT!

Also, out of courtesy, make sure to tag all relevant posts as #[ 2020 Ballympics: Galarian Ninja ]

Get cracking! See you this Monday!

Quick Ball Guy Art: Commissioned from @uncle-cucky Promo, Header, and Avatar: Edited by @drakenskies

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“GOOD MORNING, GALAR! Quick Ball Guy here! Clear blue skies and sweltering heat can mean only one thing: Summer is right around the corner! And, boy, do I have a blistering tournament of champions for you! Do you think you and your friends have what it takes to be the next Galarian Ninja Warriors? For those of you eager to beat the heat and wanting challenge your mind, body, and friendships, meet me in Wyndon Park! It’s going to be a doozy!” 

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Hi, guys! Mittens of BallGuySays and PrisonRose back at it again with another plotless dash event! Reblog this promo and follow the official Ballympics blog for updates! Visit the blog for the Rules and Mechanics (or visit this GDoc for you mobile users!)

Some basics: Only one muse per mun this event, to keep things fair and availability open! This is going to be a TEAM EVENT, so you must have SIX TOTAL PLAYERS in order to participate! Start scouting now, because team slots are first come, first served once the submission box is open! Enrollment starts on the 25th of May and ends on the 31st of May, 11:59 PM EDT!

Also, out of courtesy, make sure to tag all relevant posts as #[ 2020 Ballympics: Galarian Ninja ]

Get cracking! See you this Monday!

Quick Ball Guy Art: Commissioned from @uncle-cucky Promo, Header, and Avatar: Edited by @drakenskies

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“Did somebody say BALL G--”

“OH MY GOODNESS. GOD, NO.”

// `u` Thank you everyone who joined my very short stream!

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Pokémon Valentine's day 🌹Part 5 / 5

Chairman Rose and Ball Guy 💕

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Ball guy!!

“That’s me!”

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What’s happening May 31?

May 31st is when I plan to officially kick off the Summer Ballympics! 

It’ll be a non-plot-based event run by me, Mittens, and maybe a few friends that will help me with the workload. In February, I ran the Ball Dunk, a fun, cheeky little event that many people seemed to enjoy. The Summer Ballympics are going to be WAAAY more involved than that was. 

Here’s a spoiler: there will be teams! Either 4 or 8 teams of 6 players (depending on the amount of interest shown for it) will be going head to head in this competition! Assuming we actually get the second bracket going, that’s literally going to be 48 different participants for just the first round, and the Ball Dunk only got 46 total participants, so yeah! You can see that this is going to be a supercharged version of that last little proof of concept!

There will be drama! Suspense! Strategy! Multiple rounds! Critical fails! Rose in his clubbing shorts! Ball Guy getting launched into the stratosphere! And much, much more! So stay tuned, and follow the Ballympics blog to get updates as soon as they come out!

May 31st is also my birthday, but thanks to a Certain Situation, I won’t be able to vacation back home to celebrate, so… At least that will give me plenty of free time to prepare! :’)

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5/31/2020

Save the date!

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Pixel commission I got from Leithsin on toyhouse of my boy Galen and Mittens (@ballguysays) character Armani!

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{BallGuySays} Puts a Ball Guy sticker on her wall!

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PSA: Respect People’s Headcanons!

Guys, this is something me and the other Rose muns have noticed, and I’ve gotta say, it’s pretty unwelcome. There is a problem with people FORCING their headcanons ABOUT another muse onto their RP partner, and it’s super irritating. It shouldn’t have to be said, but PLEASE read people’s about pages to get a grasp on the way they play their muse, and clear shit with the mun before you assume wild shit – especially things that weren’t even HINTED at in-game. 

As for Rose specifically: whether you like him or think he might have abused Bede / Leon or not, Rose is canonically one of the least problematic villains in the entire series! Yet it’s a repeat problem with us having to deal with people making our versions out to be total irredeemable assholes, and in one extreme case, even godmodding harm to him without asking. None of this is okay! We did not ask for nor invite this behavior – even with my take on him, as morally questionable as he is!

If you have questions, concerns, theories, or whatever else about how WE individually play OUR muses and everyone around him as well, JUST ASK! Communication is KEY here! And yes, in some cases, that includes Oleana! All of our HCs on her tend to vary quite a lot, SO ASK! I cannot stress this ENOUGH nor can I accurately portray just how muse-killing it is to have people treat the multifaceted character you lovingly poured your heart into like he’s just another stereotypical one note anime villain they can just steamroll. 

Even if you think it’s just lulzy nonsense, PLEASE ask us first, because it can be downright exhausting to have to deal with this stuff constantly. In short:

RESPECT 👏🏽 YOUR 👏🏽 RP 👏🏽 PARTNERS 👏🏽 

RESPECT 👏🏽 THEIR 👏🏽 HCS 👏🏽

ASK 👏🏽 QUESTIONS 👏🏽

COMMUNICATE!!! 👏🏽 👏🏽 👏🏽

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two lovely dudes for my pal mittens⭐ ( support me! )