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We need like “unclench your jaw” posts but for eye strain. Like

Go look at something 20ft away for 20 seconds.

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2023

SPEND AS MUCH TIME OUTDOORS AS HUMANELY POSSIBLE

THROW YOUR PHONE IN A LAKE

WRITE HANDWRITTEN LETTERS TO YOUR FRIENDS

EXTRACT MEANING FROM YOUR DREAMS

PRACTICE SERENITY

CULTIVATE GOOD POSTURE

WEEP PROFUSELY

DO THE DISHES AS SOON AS YOU'RE FINISHED EATING

LEARN TO WHISTLE

WEAR PERFUME

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sometimes you just gotta listen to music at a volume that you know will be part of the cause of your hearing loss at the age of 28

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I luckily haven't had to deal with much chronic pain or hand pain yet, especially with regards to baking (crochet is another story). That said, these look like some pretty solid tips! There's also some in the comments section.

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congratulations on being 1 year ED free. I know what a triumph that is! Cherish and continue on your journey! recovery lasts forever. I believe in you. not that you need luck or anything because you've done good thus far! xoxo.

Thank you so much for the support! Unfortunately I’ve relapsed a couple times since that post but I’m still trying to get better which is what counts :) ed is a bitch that tries to ruin your life and you can’t let her. I hope all of us keep fighting to get better

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You are not "un-photogenic". You are a cryptid and no camera can truly capture your primordial essence.

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Making other people happy because it makes you happy is the least selfish selfish thing you can do

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I made it :) I’m 1 year ED free

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I greeted him at the door on 4" heels, a high ponytail, and a satin apron.

He pushed me into my apartment with hungry kisses and desperate gropes.

I peeled back the layers of a long day at work: briefcase with a thud by the door and the friction of his belt through each belt loop. The buckle jingling as it fell to the floor.

He bent me over the table and thrust himself against my back and ass before unzipping and revealing his excitement to me. I ran the stiletto heel up his inseam while using the mental map of his body to guide my hands to revisit my treasure.

His mouth and hands raced to discover every spot that would make me gasp or moan. I cocked my head and squirmed in the shadow of his stature. The high ponytail danced against my skin.

He grasped my long brown tresses at the tip and recalled all the photos and videos in his wank bank of arched backs and bent necks.

He yanked so hard that he herniated C5-6. During the surgery for my artificial disc replacement, my surgeon found a bone shard 3mm from my spinal cord.

The man who whispered in my ear of how i was “marriage material” moved to Toronto 2 weeks after he damn near made me into a quadriplegic. He closed on a house the day of my surgery.

To this day, I jump when someone puts their hands near my head. My ears ring constantly. And every time I see one of you all post a photo of someone having their hair pulled, I think about all the pain one dumb, badly-executed move caused me.

1. Get consent. 2. Give warning. 3. Grab slowly and smoothly at the roots 4. Movement comes from the wrist (minimizes chance of injury to directional force) 5. If need be, let the person with the hair being pulled hold on to your wrist to either limit your movement or as a failsafe. 6. Over time develop trust with your partner to dial up neck extension, force, or speed.

All that and the fucker never even gave me a single orgasm.

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Today I’m officially 9 mos eating disorder free :)

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repeat after me:

even if i don’t like my body today i will take care of it

even if i don’t like myself today i will still be patient and kind with myself

even if i do not love myself i will still take care of and be kind to myself, despite not wanting to

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be careful with how much you tolerate. you are teaching them how to treat you

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No DO NOT DRINK COFFEE IF YOURE DEHYDRATED it’s a diuretic and will dehydrate you even more you’re much better off not drinking anything at all. For every cup of coffee you drink you should be drinking 2 cups of water to replace the water in your body same with non herbal teas like black, green, earl gray, jazmine etc. Anything with caffeine is a diuretic including chocolate and some medication ( for example 2 midol has as much caffeine as a cup of coffee). DRINK WATER PEOPLE

This is the go drink some water aloe. When ya see it, go drink some water.

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Hello! Just to let y’all know my asks are open and hopefully I’ll actually have time and motivation to answer them so ask away!