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which autumn home would you love to live in?

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Healthy people who say stuff like “they’re still doing things so they can’t be in THAT much pain” need to understand that after a certain point pain becomes boring. No, you never get used to the pain, but you do gradually become bored. After months or years of mindless suffering in bed eventually you learn how to watch TV, do a light hobby, etc., even while in extreme pain, simply because chronic pain is incredibly dull and humans need entertainment.

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i genuinely think we need to practice being listeners more, putting ourselves in other people’s shoes more, looking beyond our own problems more. the only way to foster truly deep connections is through listening to others as much as we want to be listened to by others. i cannot stress the importance of cultivating a natural curiosity for other people’s stories and feeling for them, as much as we feel for ourselves and our own issues, enough. in the end it’s all about loving as much as we want to be loved

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Chronic pain is awesome (/s) because it's like, I can't go anywhere when I'm in a flare, even to the doctors, because of the pain. But if I go when I'm NOT in a flare, my symptoms look so much more mild than they really are.

"Your range of motion seems great!" Maybe it is now but when my back pain flares I can't even turn my head without pain shooting down into my feet!

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it sure did!

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One of the risks of being quiet is that the other people can fill your silence with their own interpretation: You're bored. You're depressed. You're shy. You're stuck up. You're judgmental. When others can't read us, they write their own story - not always one we choose or that's true to who we are.

- Sophia Dembling

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The person I reblogged this from deserves to be happy

I tried to scroll past this. I really did

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these guys look like theyre fighting over how to make a soup

"hey can i put this in"

"NO ARE YOU FUCKING KIDDING ME IT'LL RUIN IT"

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Snow doggo

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Decay Cutting Board

Society6

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