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when your friend is sad and you're trying to comfort them but you don't know how

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laverne “im gonna tell you how to dress and behave because as someone wearing a sparkly dress, mile long hair extensions and a tonne of makeup i’m more qualified to define womanhood and acceptable attire for females than you are” cox

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Okay like I can totally relate to a lot of the things that lesbolution says about male entitlement and men making her uncomfortable and for a long time I subscribed to her ideal that penis=scary and penis=not a woman and I am completely mortified that I ever looked up to her. And she says that she's all for protecting women from gendered violence but she completely supports the idea that trans women are somehow trying to trick people, and that idea causes countless acts of violence against women... So what makes her any different than those violent men she hates so much. I'm sorry but I absolutely cannot let that shit slide just because she's supposed to be some big ole victim or whatever. If you cannot wrap your head around the fact that trans women are just as much women as she is don't preach that toxic, violent shit and expect people to coddle you because you've experienced gendered violence. The COMPLETELY false idea she has that trans women are trying to infiltrate womanhood to hurt cis women IS IN ITSELF gendered violence. And trans women will fight to defend themselves from that crap, so will their allies, it's not an unsolicited attack at her it's survival.

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Lesbolution is a fucking disgrace. In what world is Laverne Cox telling women how to attract men? When has she ever in all of history so much as hinted to men's opinions being a driving force in womanhood? If anything she preaches the exact opposite.

And another thing. I can guarantee that lesbolution is nowhere near as critical of cis activists with the same message as Laverne Cox. By absolutely no means does being trans mean Laverne or any other trans woman has less authority to speak about what it means to be a woman. In fact I would argue that trans women have far more comprehensive understandings of womanhood. But yeah, lesbolution, we all know how "bad" and "scary "and "deceiving" trans women are to you. We know you don't think they deserve to be included in women's only spaces. And we aaaaaalllllll know that you will continue to spew hateful shit about wonderful women who are doing more for feminism than you or any other TWERF will ever do and damn straight we'll fight tooth an nail to protect trans women from your poison. Keep trans women's names off your blog and out of your mouth for once in your damn life.

laverne “im gonna tell you how to dress and behave because as someone wearing a sparkly dress, mile long hair extensions and a tonne of makeup i’m more qualified to define womanhood and acceptable attire for females than you are” cox

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do not fall in love with people like me. i will wake up one night and try to sleepwalk to the bathroom but walk into the laundry room on accident and pee all over your laundry. then i will sleepwalk outside and cry in the middle of the street until 5 in the...

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Accent à droite, bitch!

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This didn't even cross my mind when I rebloged that one post. My sincere apologies, it seems completely obvious now.

animal testing is absolutely deplorable but idg how people think that forced human testing on prisoners is any better no matter what they’ve done 

do you not understand the historical context of forced or coerced experimentation on ppl especially in prison

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don’t take your negativity out on others

don’t take it personally

if you are hurt, speak up

don’t hold grudges

you deserve happiness

forgive forgive forgive 

be open

all good things require work

love yourself first

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Okay so sometimes I treat this like a place where everyone on here personally knows me, but that’s not the case so people don’t really know where the things come from that I say.

Regarding the post about whites not supporting…

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white people need to stop this lie that black men are the source of all homophobia.

queerness is shown all up in various african cultures.

but you people were out here hanging people upside down and rending the flesh from their bones for being...

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Flawless. Laverne Cox arrives at the 2014 Logo TV Trailblazers Event. WATCH the show tonight at 9/8c!

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Waaaaahhhh I want to kiss Tim and like hug him and stuff but he dropped off the face of the earth. (All posts between 12 am and 7 am shall be forgiven)

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The quickest way to destroy a crush is to ask for their views on feminism.

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basketballs smell gross 

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The idea that bisexual women are only identifying as bisexual as a ploy to receive attention from straight men plays into a much uglier and violent side of the bisexual experience. It ignores the fact that much of the attention that we do receive from straight men is unsolicited and inappropriate. There is an implication within the BiForAttention sentiment that we are constantly desperate or wanting for the attention of men as bisexual women, and therefore we must always be inherently consenting to the attention that we are receiving, even when that attention exists in the form of harassment, invalidation, misogyny, stalking, abuse, or objectification, as it so often does.

Some of my thoughts from a discussion on #BiForAttention. (via bi-privilege)