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I find certain people on swiftlyneutral & other communities that are dedicated to hating her to be every bit as parasocial as the most obsessive swifties, like some of them are OBSESSED with everything she does and somehow it's more pathetic bc it's not smth they love that they're dedicating all of this time & brain space to talking about. it's like ok so you claim to be sick of how she's "literally everywhere" & so overexposed so to cope with that you...join a sub that is just for talking about her?? like I hate Drake but you won't catch me logging onto drakelyneutral each morning to waste time combing over his songs & hyperanalyzing his every movement. at this point I'm begging you to get a hobby

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“Our brains were two million years in the making. That long, slow accretion doubled our cranial capacity. And the first thing we did with it was say thank you. We drew the megafauna and the megafemales, sculpted and carved them. The oldest known figurative sculpture is the Goddess of Hohle Fels, and 40,000 years ago someone spent hundreds of hours carving Her. There is no mystery here, not to me: the animals and the women gave us life. Of course they were our first, endless art project. Awe and thanksgiving are built into us, body and brain. Once upon a time, we knew we were alive. And it was good. 

And now we leave the realm of miracles and enter hell. 

Patriarchy is the ruling religion of the planet. It comes in variations―some old, some new, some ecclesiastical, some secular. But at bottom, they are all necrophilic. Erich Fromm describes necrophilia as “the passion to transform that which is alive into something unalive; to destroy for the sake of destruction; the exclusive interest in all that is purely mechanical.” In this religion, the worst sin is being alive, and the carriers of that sin are female. Under patriarchy, the female body is loathsome; its life-giving fat-cells vilified; its generative organs despised. Its natural condition is always ridiculed: normal feet must be turned into four-inch stubs; rib cages must be crushed into collapse; breasts are varyingly too big or too small or excised entirely. That this inflicts pain―if not constant agony―is not peripheral to these practices. It’s central. When she suffers, she is made obedient.” 

― Lierre Keith, ‘The Girls and the Grasses’ 

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Men can nuke humanity to extinction but women who choose not to have children are the ones men fear the most to kill their bloodlines. Men develop weapons that can kill tens of millions of humans at once but it's women who need to be controlled so we don't bring nations to their knees. Humanity can be destroyed by men committing mass murder on an apocalyptic scale or humanity can be destroyed by women refusing to give birth.

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women need to wake up and understand every feminist throughout history has experienced being called and compared to every terrible thing in the book. we're gonna kindness and politeness and understanding our way back to the 1950s. women have to start being angry.

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Women being honest about size fuels his misogyny.

Go to therapy ffs

Women are NOT the problem,your toxic masculinity and misogyny is.

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I made a baby blanket for a woman I know who is also having a baby, she saw mine and asked me for one and I don't think she realised how much work they are but whatever

I made mine with my favourite colours (Pink, Green, and Blue) because I figure my baby will probably like one of those colours, and I made hers with Blue and Yellow and some pink edging

And she's mad about it??

Like this is a woman who is super tra/libfem, and she's mad because I put some pink edging on a baby blanket for her infant male?

Which I made for free?

And she won't give me a coherent reason why she's mad, just that I should have known better?

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congrats for billie eilish saying she wants her face in a vagina i love that she was so blunt about it. so many of her fans are pearl clutching over her base description of her sexuality, while also having called her a gay icon and that shes gaybaiting, like okay so she admits she likes pussy and now ur scared 🙄

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Young girls need to be actively taught to not help males regardless of their circumstances or age. Whether it's your boyfriend of 5 years who recently got into a debt or if it's any stranger in a dark alleyway crying for help. Neither of them are gonna end well FOR YOU. You're not gonna get appreciated, you're not get acknowledged for long. Infact, you're gonna be the one who'll be taken advantage of. Other men surrounding these helpless men have far more power than you ever will(most). These men are not approaching you because you're "the one" they could trust. And let me tell you something, the men you'll help build, will resent you for helping them or being there to witness when they were at their worst. They do not want to be reminded of the times when they were a loser or that a woman(someone who's considered below them) helping them.

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“Passing” as a concept is bs but this is especially true for non-binary. You’re asking everyone else to pretend that we can’t tell what sex you are and to be up to date on gender trends so we can accurately guess how you want us to perceive you. Like is [some hypothetical male] wearing an ugly dress and lipstick in a trying to be a woman way or a trying to be non-binary way. We know we’re supposed to pretend he’s not a man but we also have to guess if we’re supposed to tell if he’s just badly dressing up as a woman or is deliberately being some other third thing.

Many trans identifying females only perform androgyny in ways that cater to the male gaze. Sure they’ll have a stylish short haircut and wear flannels but they almost always remove their body hair and continue to wear makeup in a “lighter” style. Unlike mean hairy butch dykes, who they would never look like (gross) they “reject gender” without meaningfully challenging gendered roles. They seek to position themselves as “not women” while safely obeying the most sacred rules of presenting as a woman. By adopting new pronouns or a new label they can justify fulfilling the tomboy, girl next door, effortless beauty male fantasy. A woman who rejects the patriarchal beauty standards without rejecting her identity as a woman is infinitely more transgressive than a woman who takes no meaningful actions and invents a new label to reframe her conformity as deviance. It’s just lazy.

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radfems reblog this if it’s okay to inbox you for a casual chat sometimes. I need more friends on here, I’ve had a radfem blog for like 6 months but haven’t made any acquaintances really

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Women were never created from men's ribs, not ever. It is HE who emerges from HER womb. Framing the father as the life giver is a patriarchal lie, it's not true.

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"Does your cat know about the feminist movement?"

Seen in Sheffield, UK

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There are SO many stories with this outcome.. i don’t think it’s worth to make your “desired” genitalia, just to experience severe pain and dilation for the rest of your life

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You can't even say that men wrote laws that oppressed women throughout history without someone trying to make it up to be transphobic

You're called a terf for addressing the patriarchy