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I am coming to LA!

Could use with some advices and would be happy to meet some of you beautiful sb out there 😘

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This

Y'all should really start wanting more for yourselves. The shit I see people settling for is so sad

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Dumbest person (who's gonna have a PHD soon) I've ever met

I have a partner, who's BEAUTIFUL & doing her PHD, for my masseuse work that we work together with some clients but she's one of the dumbest, undisciplined person I've ever worked with. It's so frustrating that she's the only (sort of) reliable (that actually shows up on time or even show up at all, you have no idea how people in this line is just... unreliable) partner I've got as well. So much have happened when we worked together and we've always either lost clients or clients think they can get freebies off us because she ALWAYS makes the wrong decision, knowing what's the right one; especially when the client is attractive. For example, she allowed a VERY hot client who has tons of $ to spend to do stuff to her for FREE. And it made me look bad cause I feel obligated to do the same (but I didn't). That's not the worst part - the worst part is - she keeps complaining that she earns so much lesser than I do, and also keep failing at sugaring (ppl offering her next to nothing to hang out with her and she went anyway because "she can learn things from him" so, ya think?). Her reasoning to things financially are just... speechless. I helped her out financially to get her back on her feet when we first worked together for the first two months. She owed me rent for that two months, because she spent all of her money on unnecessary things. However, she's been spending $75 fortnightly on nails and telling me that "cause her nails chipped and it has to be done". 😒 She spends too much of an amount for food she cannot afford at that and told herself "she deserves it" (her favourite Tagline, which made her poor again and again), which she clearly didn't deserve any treat cause she didn't even work hard at that time. She did pay her dues though, although it could be paid off in 2-3 weeks if she didn't spend so much on unnecessary stuffs. How can someone have such degrees and make the wrong decisions every time, knowing what's the right one? FML. Hope you girls are doing so much better than I am! Xx

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Useful list for newbies! X

Sugar Baby Guide w/ 200+ tips!

So I recently ran into a sugar “master post” on here but noticed a lot of the links were broken. Since there are so many aspiring sugar babies with a ton of questions I thought I’d make a new one! Here it is: a very long compilation of my favorite tips and tricks from sugar babies all over tumblr. Enjoy! Xoxo

Safety

Deleting yourself from the internet

Sending pictures via google voice texting 

Square cash warning 

Amazon gifts safety

COP or POT?

Tips to remaining safe as a sugar baby

Phone safety

What information should you give your SD?

Verify him

Safety links for sugar babies

All about screening

How SD’s can track where you live

The Miranda warning

Internet safety tips

Receiving packages

Staying safe as a sugar baby

Sugar baby safety 

Sugar baby safety tip

Sugar baby safety & catfishing

Free background check website

Is he the real deal?

Tricking him to keep your privacy

Keeping your privacy

Very important hoe safety tip

Free-styling

Free-stying guide

Eye-contact

Turning vanilla to sugar

How to approach men while free styling

Free-styling and where to meet sugar daddies

Where to freestyle

All about free-styling

Free-styling and how to trigger a mans generosity from the start

Free-styling tips

Top three places to freestyle

Free-styling & staff

What NOT to ask him

Meeting SD’s online

Craigslist title tip

Ashley Madison

Sugar dating and craigslist

List of sugar dating sites

Sugaring using tinder

Tindering tip

How to tinder

Craigslist masterpost

Craigslist sugar

Writing/writing back to messages

The perfect message

How to message men on sugar sites

Sugaring: Tinder and OkCupid

Perfecting your message

More messaging advice

Sugar sites to check out

Weeding through messages on sugar sites

Allowance, financials, and budgeting

How to get the allowance you want

How to ask your sugar daddy for an allowance

Allowance or pay per meet?

All about money

Cash/gifts on a POT date

What form should I take my allowance in?

How to make real money

Sugar baby banking tips

Spending your sugar money

Asking for money on a POT date

Getting him to buy you something

Financial advice

Drain his bank account

When he says he doesn’t feel comfortable with allowance…

Saving money

How much can he really pay you?

Budgeting tips for sugar babes

Tips on spending your sugar money

Allowance and AmEx cards

Let’s talk budgeting

5 questions to ask before agreeing to allowance offer

What to say to get the allowance you want

Sugar banking

Allowance and bank laws

Random cash tips

He pays for what he wants

Investing 101

Allowance negotiation tactics

The art of sugar dating

How to handle a first date with a POT

What NOT to talk about on a POT date

Organizing your POTs

How to: manipulate the conversation 

How to create a positive impression

6 ways to make your sugar date the best date he’s ever had

What the hell am I going to talk to him about?!

50 unusual date ideas

Checklist the night before your date

What you need to do before your POT date

Your first POT date

Dining etiquette

Dining etiquette pt. 2

How to fake confidence

Conversation tips

Confidence

Classy conversation topics

First date conversations with your SD

What to bring in your purse on a sugar date

Bullshit to spit on dates

Things to know about wine

First date advice

How to handle a first date

100 “non allowance” questions to ask a POT on a date

How cheat your way through small talk

Conversation topics

Developing your personality

The psychology of persuasion

Seduction, manipulation & negotiation

Remember: You are an actress/actor

The art of seduction

Strategies to try on your SD

Sugar negotiation

Bullshitting 101

Make him take you seriously

How to make him want to say yes

Body language 

Master guide: Body language linguistics 

Manipulation tips

How to manipulate people into liking you more

Sugar manipulation

How to keep wealthy men coming back to you to give you more

Emotion, seduction and manipulation

Marketing yourself

How to attract a man

Perks of sugaring - power

Being your SD’s fantasy

Manipulation success

The girlfriend experience

Keeping your SD

Treat your SD right… Or someone else will

Keeping him hooked

Don’t become familiar or ordinary

Become his fantasy

Don’t forget the details

Keeping your sugar daddy

 Bedroom tips

Treating your SD right

How to keep an SD interested

Showcase yourself to yourself to your SD

Blowjob tips (for uncircumcised penises as well)

Blowjob tips

Appearance

How to make yourself more attractive

Fashion tips and dress codes

How to dress “sugar”

Hoe products

Fuck-proof makeup list

How to be a kept woman

Looking elegant

Sex prep

Lingerie masterpost

20 beauty tips

Charming cash out of your sugar daddy

Vaginal hygiene 

Invest in yourself

Sugar tote essentials

Contouring cheat sheet

A hoes guide to body care

Sugar baby check list

Platonic Sugar

A tip for aspiring sugar babes

Being a platonic SB

Being a pure sugar baby

Sugar Travel

Traveling with your SD

Travel etiquette for sugar babies

Sugar baby travel tip

Traveling sugar

General tips/info on sugaring

The rules of sugaring

Sugar baby manifesto

Sugar baby academy

How to find a sugar daddy in 6 simple steps

This lifestyle isn’t for everyone

The secrets to being a successful sugar baby

Random sugar baby tip

Great sugar tip

“Thing’s I’ve learned from living with sugar babies”

25 tips to make you better sugar

Being a successful sugar baby

10 golden rules of sugar dating

General sugar baby tips

Sugar baby general guide

Apps every sugar baby needs

Sugar baby mentality

Sugar baby survival tips

Sugar baby wisdom

Sugar baby resources

What being a SB is all about

6 common sugar baby mistakes

Remain calm, cool and collected

Things you need to remember when you start sugaring:

What SB’s often forget

You are not asking for too much!

Beginning advice for newbies

Tips for new sugar babies

Always have a plan B

Tip to new sugars

So you want to be a sugar baby…

What would you tell your newbie SB self if you could go back?

5 newbie mistakes and how to avoid them

Patience

Remember this when you become a sugar baby

4 things every aspiring SB should know

“How do I become a sugar baby?”

How to stand out as a sugar baby

“Learn from my sugar mistakes”

“When is right to start sugaring?”

Tips from a successful sugar baby

6 tips for aspiring SBs

All about him

How to know if he’s the right sponsor

Sugar daddy check list 

Don’t believe what he says

How to get him to raise your allowance

POTs

Filtering the POTs

How to spot a fake POT

Things POT’s say when they’re trying not to pay

Distinguishing sugar from salt

10 questions to ask a POT before a relationship

Figuring out if they’re salt without going on a date

“What should I say?” And personality

Don’t be mundane and predictable

When he asks “What are you willing to do sexually?”

When he complains about paying you

When he asks if you’ve had an arrangement before 

Communicating your standards

How to say “no” to your SD

How to insist on a condom

What to say when he asks “What are you looking for?”

When he says “I’ll pay you later”

Your sugar profile

Writing tips

Make your profile work for you

Face shot or no face shot? 

Random tips/things/misc.

P.O. boxes and why you should have one

“Advice I received from a whale SD”

Long distance sugar

How to be a boss ass bitch

Why love is poison for a heartless gold-digger and a guide to the antidote

How to organize your hustle 

Sugaring from scratch

“Sex is sex, but money is money”

Mandatory sugar tool

No luck finding a sugar daddy?

The official sex worker reading list

Getting your sugar daddy back

Sugar baby texting

Suggested sugar reading list

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This week’s earnings. Without fucking. (+2k in bank acc & 1.45k at incall place). This week’s good :)

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MY CUTE DENTIST who's been working on my teeth for Invisalign for couple of months now. OMG. What should I do?!?!?

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Hahahaha this must be the best arrangement ever! He only wanted hand relief at the end 😂 Note: DO NOT use this method on (most) SDs haha.. the reason why I'm that straightforward and bitchy it's because I knew he likes cuckholding. ;)

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Want to do better than the rest?

I know with your “limited time” due to studies/work, there’s only so much you can do but think about this - how much free time did you have in between things you did and you just wasted it by doing nothing / random useless stuff that doesn’t even improve your wellbeing in any way?

“The rich are richer because they have multiple streams of income.”

How do you have multiple streams of income? By diversifying your portfolio. Starting out, you might not have “extra cash” set aside, income is more direct, you have to spend time to work for it. For most of you would be sugaring, add on another stream of income while you’re at it (massaging, escorting, creating a business, waiting tables, whatever tickles your fancy). Always, always, set money aside - either earn more than you spend or spend less than you earn. Do NOT ever live by this motto “you deserve this” at this stage. You will go broke in 2 seconds. Spend wisely.

The next step would be looking into hedge funds, bonds, stocks, real estate ect. They’re the ones you want to be into for life, as money makes money in these, and you save time which you can allocate to do whatever you have dreamt of all these while without needing to worry about income. You’ve made it in this stage only when you’re earning more than you can spend.

All you need to do is fucking get through the first stage. 

All the best babes. xx

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Wealth just underwent surgery

Wealth just underwent surgery not long ago due to his uncircumcised penis blocking his penis hole and it takes him awhile to recover, hence I'll be daddy free for a few weeks. Pretty happy but also thinking of getting back into the bowl not because of financials, but diversifying my income at quiet working times. God help me with the annoyance I'll get soon from POT dates lol!

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don't BELIEVE IN EQUALITY?? stupid narcissistic bitch

Let’s not get ahead of ourselves. This sparks shit tons of unnecessary emotional debates about how life’s unfair, rich people ripping you off cause they can, you being born at a disadvantage etc, and everyone in this world owes you something cause “you just can’t help it yourself”. Sure, blame your parents for your birth lottery, but you can never blame anyone but yourself for where you are now. 

Equality promotes a lot of negative impact in this world, for instance - laziness - look up Norway and how the Norwegians actually live. Why the fuck would people work hard if everyone is getting the same pay and pay the same taxes. Why would people even fucking work???? What would happen to the country’s economy soon?? 

Another example - Sugaring - if men are equal to women… why the fuck should they pay for any of your shit and your time??? See the hypocrisy there?

Well, what do I know? I’m just a stupid narcissistic bitch who is given money by men for stupid reasons ;) Survival of the fittest yo.

P.S. a small tip for sugaring - preach (or even mention) equality to any POT and your value towards him will immediately drop by the folds.

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Hello! I wanna get in the sugar bowl but I'm more cute than drop-dead gorgeous or blow-you-away beautiful, and my personality type is more sweet than flirty, if that makes sense. I was doing my research when I stumbled across your blog, and I just love the way you give advice! You're honestly just so real?? Anyway, do you think a korean babe like me would be able to reel anyone in?

I am not drop-dead gorgeous either, or blow-you-away beautiful. Girls are missing the point that:

1) Everyone is for someone - not everyone likes the same type of body shape/personality/race etc

2) Physical attributes plays only the profile and first impression part. The rest lies in your character, personality, maturity, etc whatever the other party is looking for.

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I think your specific location is your advantage and sometimes you miss that fact? Because you keep saying why girls don't know their worth but nobody on other parts of world would drop such money on massage and hand jobs. So, yeah, good for you. Get it. But not everyone in same conditions.

What makes you think I look at profiles that aren’t at my location? :) 

But seriously, location plays a part yes, but you believing in yourself plays the most important part. If you do not believe in yourself, who will?

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I bet you're one of those bitches out there during the women's march supposedly fighting for equality but then go and show why you are not a man's equal

lol I don’t even believe in equality babe ;) However, I’ll be marching up your shallow pockets and empty them till you cry (and still won’t stop) ;)

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How to fail in Sugaring

You wanna be fucked for next to nothing? Do what that dumb bitch did. Sugaring 101: Never ever ever give away your weakness in any way. NEVER. You were taught to play with THEIR weakness, not let them toy with yours!

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Living on the other side

So I haven’t logged in to my SA account for 4 days - been too busy with school, work and social life for a bit, and I have a lot of girls that are interested to try the business out. However, within that 4 days, I got 2 girls that went from “I’m very very interested” to “I’m not interested anymore” just because I didn’t reply for 4 days. Haven’t even read the multiple messages they sent lol.

I guess when there’s crazy salts, there’s crazy bitches.