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“Imagine you’re at a party. A guy offers you a drink. You say no. He says ‘Come on, one drink!’ You say ‘no thanks.’ Later, he brings you a soda. ‘I know you said you didn’t want a drink, but I was getting one for myself and you looked thirsty.’ For you to refuse at this point makes you the asshole. He’s just being nice, right? Predators use the social contract and our own good hearts and fear of being rude against us. If you drink the drink, you’re teaching him that it just takes a little persistence on his part to overcome your ‘no.’ If you say ‘Really, I appreciate it, but no thanks’ and put the drink down and walk away from it, you’re the one who looks rude in that moment. But the fact is, you didn’t ask for the drink and you don’t want the drink and you don’t have to drink it just to make some guy feel validated.” —The Art of “No” (Jennifer P.)

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DO NOT GIVE THIS TO YOUR DOGS!!!!!! I gave this product to my 12 lb. 1 year old shih tzu. 2 hours later he began throwing up and having diarrhea uncontrollably! Throwing up 2 mins apart from each other everywhere. His eyes were giant and he was shaking. We called the pet ER and they urged us to bring him in. Rushing him into the ER we were terrified and felt horrible for giving him this. He was examined and it was concluded that he went into anaphylactic shock from the allergy medicine. He was given iv fluid and epinephrine. They put a catheter in and had to observe him overnight for after shock. Thankfully he returned home the next day after a huge pet bill to save his life. If we would have waited he may not be here today. Please DO NOT give this to your dogs. IT CONTAINS grape seed extract, which is toxic to dogs!!!! Please help me signal boost so we can inform more people about this product.

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This is how I roll. Aren't I cute? I know I'm cute.

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Hope everyone has a great caturday!!

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"YAAAAWWwnnnnn"

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Ellie has spent the day (not so patiently) waiting for me to come home. Now it is cuddle time. Hope everyone is having a good end of the week and give your pet and extra snuggle just because.

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Lazy Tuesday for Ellie. (Wait, isn't that everyday?) Must be a rough life being a cat.

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Ellie enjoying the comfy spot upon my study materials. She must learn from osmosis cause she enjoys laying papers.

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We had to clean and prepare for the new roommate today. The cats weren't happy that we closed off the spare room (aka cat room).

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the worst is having a dream where someone loves you and you can practically feel them touching you and it feels so real and then you wake up and it’s like the life is being sucked out of you and the happiness just drains out of your body and you feel empty again

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If really hate to know the statistic for college students.

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Morning cuddles. Think she is excited the week is almost over.

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Ellie desperate wishes her Cat's Meow didn't break. #CatsMeow #brokentoy #nocatfun

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Ellie is glad to see me home from class. So glad, that she didn't even bother leaving the window to say hi. It is okay, she is my beautiful girl.

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Morning cuddles while watching Merlin. Hope everyone has a wonderful Sunday!

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"Why are you calling my name, mom? I am already in your lap."

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And by watching Doctor Who I mean I'm watching Doctor Who and Ellie is napping. #catnaps