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HPD Attachment Roles

(from the community to describe certain experiences since FP is BPD exclusive)

• Attention Person (ATP/AP): Someone whose attention feels especially meaningful, intense, or “superior.” The pwHPD may become deeply attached to them, even with minimal interaction, because their validation hits harder or fills their emotional need for attention more efficiently. Often meaning their attention is highly prioritized.

• Spotlight Person (SLP): Someone the pwHPD deems worthy of sharing their attention or “spotlight” with. This person is considered important enough to be included in the pwHPD’s social presence or performance.

• Attentive Person (ANP): A person who provides consistent attention to the pwHPD. Their attention may not be seen as superior, but it is reliable and fulfilling, helping the pwHPD maintain emotional balance.

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thinking about the way that the "if they are going to be disgusted by you, be disgusting" post has breached containment and is being reblogged by people who don't know it originated in forcemasc. there's actually so many people who are seen as disgusting by the world for who they are and we should have solidarity with each other. as a disabled person, i can feel the power of that sentiment even outside of my transness. it's your life! go be disgusting ! you do not have a duty to please by conforming, let them step back in revulsion, you didn't want them near you anyway.

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dreaming of wearing another man’s hoodie with nothing but my boxers hidden underneath it

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“probably gonna post more boyfs” she says before cranking out another drawing in ten minutes . they plague me with visions

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white boy SHOCKS agender they/it supercomputer by speaking in fluent LGBTQ

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Masculine trans men and feminine trans men aren’t enemies we’re having sex

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"good night" <- guy who is about to reblog 3-11 more posts

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"get his ass" is so hilarious. it's like the modern version of "seize him"

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i love f/os who are canonically not very soft and comforting. f/os who are stoic and cold. f/os who are evil and calculating. f/os who are eccentric and chaotic. i love f/os who choose to be soft with you, not because they're inherently sweet and gentle and tender, but because you're worth the effort of kindness :>

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okay but lemme set the scene : your f/o, drunk off their ass, rambling about how perfect you are, and their friends, blasé because it's been an hour of this

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"I don't deserve them" F/O x "I don't deserve them" S/I

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This has probably been made before but felt the need to post it in regards to certain discourse recently.... I fw with you Expensive Headphones shippers. I fw with you heavy.

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BMC fandom was OP because we had the WORST ship name between jeremy and michele but we still made it work

Like boyf riends was really hard to search for on some sites because truly it is just a common word, but we all loved the concept so hard we made it work and I think that's beautiful.