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still thinking about how in 2018, louis went to firefly music festival the same day harry played in philadelphia, which are an hour away from eachother and louis wasn’t seen at the festival at night aka when harry’s show was happening

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Accurate, way too accurate

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Harry at his cousin Matty Selley's wedding in Silchester, UK (04.11)

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Harry and Nikolai holding hands as they cross the finish line of the Tokyo Marathon (3/2/25)

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Harry running a marathon in Tokyo. (2 March 2025)

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Yes, Of Course, Always

This was sent to me by a (”beautiful, intelligent” there, I covered you!) source. I took out the parts that would reveal too much in terms of identity. Enjoy:  

“_” met them the first time when they made an appearance at an event in late 2013. Harry was very sweet, personally looked for “_”, introduced himself and confessed his admiration about both “_”’s professional and personal achievements. He said that he was eager to follow his steps as soon as he could and openly talked about Louis and mentioned they had been together for 3 years (so since 2010). 

Next time “_” ran into Harry in LA, at a private party of a common friend. Harry was in a very good mood, said things were fine and had recently come back from a birthday trip in Cuba (or Jamaica, “_” was not sure) with friends and boyfriend.

[It was Jamaica. x  x]

”_” is probably the most reserved person in the world, you wouldn’t believe, but he said that Harry had been so cute and open hearted the previous time that he didn’t want to sound disinterested and jokingly asked if it was still the same boyfriend of the last time. Apparently Harry was a little taken aback, then smiled fondly and hurried “yes, of course, always” (which, ❤️❤️❤️). 

Finally, “_” casually met both Harry and Louis last fall in London while having a private dinner out with his own boyfriend. They just said hello and exchanged brief talks before parting ways.

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😱😱😱😱😱

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The Captain (BBC Ghosts) + queer culture & history references

Brighton is the queer capital of the UK. During the 1920s and 1930s, Brighton started to flourish as a seafront escape for LGBTQ+ and many gay and lesbian pubs started to establish themselves. During the Second World War, the city was filled with soldiers. Many women and men in the forces were meeting other lesbians and gay people for the first time in their lives. Kylie Minogue has maintained her status as a gay icon for decades. The pop queen has been a long-standing and committed advocate for the LGBTQ+ community. The singer says feels ‘solidarity’ with her gay fans after they ‘protected’ her during tough times. Elton John came out as gay in 1992. He’s a huge advocate for LGBTQ+ rights and is undoubtedly one of the most famous openly gay musicians of all time. Elton John and his husband were among the very first couples to have a civil partnership in the United Kingdom. Musical theatre has been associated with the LGBTQ+ community, especially gay men, for years. There’s also a common stereotype of gay men loving opera, which has a good bit of truth, historically. Difference was tolerated in the theatre, and men who liked other men knew it was easier to meet one another if they hung out with theatre people. Cole Porter’s homosexuality was an open secret. He was married for convenience, and his wife knew he was gay from the start and didn’t mind it. His lyrics were full of not very hidden double entendres. ‘The Wizard of Oz’ became an enduring part of LGBTQ+ community and culture, and actress Judy Garland is considered a gay icon. The expression ‘Friend of Dorothy’ became a code phrase used by gay men to identify themselves to each other. Chandler from ‘Friends’ was often believed to be gay, both by characters on the show and by people in real life. Originally, the writers did want to make him a gay character but straightened him out instead when they were told to ‘write it gay and play it straight.’ ABBA is one of the most beloved bands for the queer community, and Dancing Queen remains one of the most ubiquitous gay anthems of our time. When ABBA returned with a new album, the band said, ‘It was the gay community who underpinned the comeback.’

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Met someone last night who met Harry in VIP at Reading in 2012 when he was with Nick Grimshaw and she said Nick gave her weird vibes about how he was treating Harry and his reaction to people talking to Harry.

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Harry photographed teasing the next Pleasing collection with JW Anderson. (3 December 2024)

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so. um. the good news is we found your boyfriend. the bad news is that, well, we sort of…dug him up…in the middle of a car park. in leicester (buckley et al. 2013). leicester, yeah. sorry. they demolished the friary he was hastily interred in when henry viii dissolved all the monasteries. you know how it is. and as it turns out, well, shakespeare was…sort of right about him. scoliosis, yeah, sorry (appleby et al. 2014). if it makes you feel any better we analysed his bones and it turns out he had a pretty high-protein diet before he died (lamb et al. 2014). and he drank so much wine that it changed their chemical composition, which we didn't know could actually happen before we analysed him (lamb et al. 2014), so he was having a good time, at least. 

BIBLIOGRAPHY

Appleby, J., Mitchell, P.D., Robinson, C., Brough, A., Rutty, G., and Morgan, B. (2014). The scoliosis of Richard III, last Plantagenet King of England: diagnosis and clinical significance. Lancet 383, 1944. 

Buckley, R., Morris, M., Appleby, J., King, T., O’Sullivan, D., and Foxhall, L. (2013). ‘The king in the car park’: new light on the death and burial of Richard III in the Grey Friars church, Leicester, in 1485. Antiquity 87, pp. 519-538. 

Lamb, A.L., Evans, J.E., Buckley, R., and Appleby, J. (2014). Multi-isotope analysis demonstrates significant lifestyle changes in King Richard III. Journal of Archaeological Science 50, pp. 559-565.

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https://x.com/rneerapps/status/1860703441116438612?s=61

idk if is funny or sad that every closeted person respond to this kind of questions in the same way, like im sure if a look up early interviews of harry or louis the answers would be basically the same. But anyways, I’m glad Jonathan doesn’t have to go through this anymore

I know that magazine was aimed at really young girls, but lord those questions are the worst. 😩 So glad he’s out and able to be himself now.

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I hate what Twitter has become.

I’ve got a Bluesky 🦋 account now. Who else is there? Put your username in the tags and let’s be moots! 💙

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Does that say what I think it says??!