betterthanaphobes

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oh god one of our posts started getting notes again yall are gonna attract exclusies ansndnjxjdbe

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Everyone on this godforsaken site thinks just saying something without any evidence means that it’s automatically supposed to be true or something. You know when you make a claim the onus is on YOU to prove it right? (Not at you, at people on your post)

yea its wild i still havent gptten any evidence or even a response so like

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anyway ive still not gotten any proof

Thomas Sanders > aphobes

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do yall have proof bc i havent heard of this until just now

Thomas Sanders > aphobes

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sorry if i sounded upset tone is hard on the internet

Thomas Sanders > aphobes

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i explained, yall just have to actually look

Thomas Sanders > aphobes

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no this blog was initially supposed to be talking about good things, things that made people happy, but it kind of lost that along the way and im still a little upset i let that happen :( that's part of the reason im not very active anymore

Thomas Sanders > aphobes

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why are yall reblogging posts from six months ago to make fun of me lmao

“Cishet” aces/aros > aphobes

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Can an aphobe also be someone who doesn't like/hates/attacks agender people? Or would that full under nbphobe/transphobe?

though one could attribute the title of aphobe to somebody prejudiced against agender people, those people are usually also prejudiced against other nonbinary people or transgender people as a whole

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g od i stumbled across an ace exclusionist blog and was suddenly reminded why i left the discourse, that's why this blog doesn't run anymore

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@that hot take: I'm ace and I think we shouldn't exclude ppl from the community just for being aphobes because like,, I can live with my mom not knowing I'm ace. They can't live with their parents thinking they're just straight though. That's why they have the community.

i think its super complicated, like, same w truscum/transmeds or whatever

just to make it clear, im not saying aphobes and truscum are the same, just that they have a similar situation vs the community

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Hot take: aphobes arent lgbt like ...even if theyre bi or gay Aphobes they forfeited their right to this community the moment they started missing the rntire point of it and tried to make it unsafe for aces

this is a hot take that definitely coculd b taken the wrong way imo

i entirely get what ur saying but like

woah, this is a serious hot take i dont think i 100% agree

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ur icon..... good.

!!!!!!!!!!! thank u it was made by @librius

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Hi so just wondering is 13 too young to identify as ace/aro? I still acknowledge the possibility of being demi or something, but just don’t feel like I would need or want a relationship. Thoughts?

i don't think so! i started id'ing as ace around that age! the important thing to remember is that it isn't bad to be wrong! if you think you're ace/aro and end up not being later, then that's fine! that happens! if you end up id'ing as ace/aro and staying that way, then that's awesome!!! i wish you the best of luck!! :D

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anyway my point stands id rather have "cishet" aces/aros in my gsa than these gatekeeping weirdos

hey why are exclusionists so mean :/

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#lmao their replies are so fucking repetitive weightless and stupid too

aksdjhkjhbkjdhfdjxch ive made,,,,,,,,,,, 3 replies,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, yall are wild

“Cishet” aces/aros > aphobes

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