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bi trans ppl are dazzling and incredible and marvelous!!!!!

bi trans ppl are dazzling and incredible and marvelous!!!!!

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#character figuring out he is bisexual  bathed in bisexual lighting gotta be my favourite genre

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fellow bisexuals, the world is a better place for having us in it.

we deserve to be loud and proud about our love.

we deserve to be free to express our desires.

we deserve respect and recognition as the complete beings we are.

bisexuality is beautiful, our solidarity is powerful, and we belong.

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I feel like bisexual men don't get enough attention, so here you go: bisexual men, you are hot!

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Bisexuals are very cool and sexy 

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A little louder for the people in the back.

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Trans bi sapphics add so much to the community! You belong here.

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Happy 5th birthday to this blog! 🎉

Five years ago, I started this blog as a place to create and share affirmations for myself and anyone else who needed it. I decided from the get-go that this would be purely a place of positivity; this wouldn’t be a forum for discourse or advocacy, but just a collection of positivity posts for myself.

Very quickly it became clear that I was not the only person who benefited from an account like this one. Within months I had thousands of followers, and this little community saw me through my first couple of years as an out bi woman. It spawned a book club which is still going strong, and between us we crowd-sourced advice for many a confused anon!

I’ve been mostly absent from tumblr for the past couple of years for a number of reasons, only occasionally going on to see what’s been happening, but when I got an email notification today about this blogs 5 year anniversary I thought it was time for a little life update!

I’ve been working full-time freelance for two and a half years now, including working with the LGBTQ+ community in my city, facilitating a social group and putting on events at Pride. I have found my people in the real world, and it’s everything I never knew I needed!

I have the most amazing girlfriend who I met last year. I never thought I would meet someone like her, and I love her so much. Being with her is unlike any relationship I’ve had before, and I’m so grateful that we met.

So, life is good! To be cliche, it gets better. I found my people, first here and then in the real world, and I hope that for some of you this blog was a part of that journey too.

Which just leaves me to say, happy 5 year anniversary! Here’s to a few more years of me sporadically trawling through tags and reblogging stuff…

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“this character is not canonically bisexual” to YOU. i know them personally

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Bisexuality can be fluid

Bisexuality can mean that preferences shift over time

Bisexuality can mean a strong preference for one sex

Bisexuality can mean a strong preference for the same sex

Bisexuality can be even or no preference at all

Bisexuality is a wide, diverse experience! Your personal experience is completely valid, normal and natural!

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There's a lot of discourse about what the label "bisexual" really means so I'd like to clarify that "bisexual" means that it occurs twice per sexual, NOT once every other sexual.

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Bisexuality is not a phase! Dig into more 101s here~ https://bi.org/en/101

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bisexuals see the word bisexual and are filled with an overwhelming need to hit the reblog button

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Daniel Newman | https://bi.org/en/famous/daniel-newman

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Bisexual abstract art

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Being bisexual is awesome.

Being trans and bisexual is awesome.

Being nonbinary and bisexual is awesome.

Being bigender and bisexual is awesome.

Being anything and any kind of bisexual is awesome.

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Being bi does not mean that someone is part straight and part gay. Bi people are 100% bisexual. Learn more here~ https://bi.org/en/101