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One of the most dangerous things in the world is not being able to say no to people because you don't want to upset them or dissapoint them. This will completely ruin your life in every way possible, at work, in your private life, your sex life and your friendships. It's a way of removing your own consent in your own decisions and go against your wishes, it is always a crime against yourself. Let yourself have a say. Upsetting people is better than traumatizing yourself.

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looks inside procrastination -> it's anxiety -> looks inside anxiety -> it's fear -> looks inside fear -> it's shame

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this is gonna be my only post on the subject but the only line i'm interested in on the shooting is "regardless of the identity or sexgender of the shooter, trans women are normal human people and are thus as capable of acts of great violence in exactly the same manner as every other human person. there is no special quality that causes one to do violence, nor quality that exempts one from the capacity to do violence."

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the desperate need for the rest of the trans community to act like transmisogyny is some newfangled thing is so pathetic. this is not some frivolous internet trend that only girls care about. whipping girl is old enough to vote. michfest banned only trans women in 1991 and the rest of the queer community sure didn’t feel bad about still going. the nascent gay rights movement let TERFs kick marsha p johnson and silvia rivera out of the pride parade in 1973 for being “female impersonators”. you cannot keep acting like this is meaningless discourse for discourse’s sake being invented by early-transition teenagers on tumblr. “talk to a queer person over 35” shush! i’m a trans woman over 35. half of my friends are trans women over 35 (or do we not count for some reason? hmm…). it is YOUR self-righteous ass who needs to be listening to US before you try to tell us what our own fucking lives are like.

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holding you between my big metallic mandibles

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3 young kids attacked Diana during Philly Pride, leaving her with 2nd and 3rd degree burns. They do not yet know if it was premeditated or gender-based. Who's teaching these children that this behavior is acceptable? Support her recovery here.

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BEHOLD MY PIECE FOR @princesstutuzine!! 🦢💕🩰

I am so, so happy to have had the chance to draw my favorite characters from Princess Tutu exactly how I envisioned them!

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I have been quoting this all morning while muted in a teams meeting

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there's a secret good sequel series that lives only in brain where finn and rey are force-sensitive foils to each other and they still spend movie #2 entirely apart but it's because they're exploring parallel and at time opposite relationships with the force and their place in the universe

and in my secret good version. okay hear me out. the han-leia kid is a hot lady. okay. are we following. and she DOES abandon luke's new jedi, not by falling and murdering people, but by stealing the millennium falcon and running off to escape responsibility and swaggers around with incredible han solo "loser pretending to be cool" energy. and then. she accidentally picks up two force sensitive teens on jakku and she's like. are you KIDDING me

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Not immune to little ceramic animals

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Mister snailmail

Mail me a snail

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Lmfaooooo me deciding every character with black hair and brown eyes is Asian no matter what. But really what got me was the assigned worksheet at the end

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living with a tall dude is ridiculous I just turned around and he was walking our cat around on the ceiling