if your friend asks you to misgender them in front of their family, do it. if your friend asks you to refer to their partner as their roommate or friend, do it. if they ask you to deadname them, do it. allyship is about prioritizing the safety of marginalized people, especially when it comes before your desire to fight their oppressors.
pintrest is so funny cause i use it sometimes and think "sucks this is just reuploaded fanart" and then go hey who the hell posted my stuff. i dont really care tbh cause its gotta be expected with sonic art especially if its in sonic style but its also funny seeing this in the wild