bimboe

[bimboe]

so funny watching everyone complain about tumblr updates bc i havent updated the app since like 2020 so i am just living in beautiful blissful ignorance

[bimboe]

i have to believe the recent boom of “women are incompetent and need to be taken care of” but dressed up in quirky fun language is reactionary in that women are now more than ever independent and don’t put up with a lot of things our elders put up with out of necessity. which is why it seems there are so many demons popping up constantly trying to get the next generation of young girls caught up in bullshit. that they themself don’t actually subscribe to. (if you Really believed in all that depend on your husband completely and be a stay at home girlfriend shit why are you monetizing all your videos saying so?)

anyway maybe IM delusional but i have to think this. that these people are evil and don’t represent the vast majority of women in the real world bc otherwise. it’s so fucking over

but what’s really upsetting to think about is the young adult women today (like women currently in their 20s) grew up in the 2012 girl boss/buzzfeed feminism era which had MANY of its own problems don’t get me wrong but at least it encouraged women to be independent and have their own money. while currently the exact opposite is being heralded everywhere you look online. and even if i’m old enough to see through it, the people who are gonna internalize it the most are kids. and i feel like we’re not even gonna see the damage that is gonna have on women for like another 10 years

[bimboe]

the “not liking pink is internalized misogyny” women who make posts about how ‘girls’ are meant to do nothing all day but look pretty r so annoying like why are you ruining feminism for every1

[bimboe]

so what r we thinking for damage control. personally a sungtaro debut or an aespa repackage would bribe me. a red velvet comeback is always welcome too.. sm you have options think fast

[bimboe]

like the scary thing about acknowledging underprivileged groups of people is acknowledging that there are privileged groups of people who have to want to give up their privilege to level the playing field OR experience consequences so severe for not doing so . but the thing about misogyny is we are regressing so so so much and most people - even online super-left folks - refuse to acknowledge that misogyny even exists even as women r rapidly losing our rights and misogynists are just as quickly taking over the public sphere to where misogyny is normalized & experiences zero repercussions and that’s scarier

[bimboe]

can i be real i think we need to take “men are affected by patriarchy too” and put it on a shelf high up until we can firmly establish that women are still very oppressed. because right now that talking point is being used strictly to silence and/or deflect discussion on misogyny and im so sick of hearing about it that it’s making me into an insane person

[bimboe]

i come on here to complain about kpop and remind every one im hot and tall

[bimboe]

Put your height in the tags

[bimboe]

if you already have your aespa album i hate u and youre going to hell .

[bimboe]

there’s a certain brand of book readers that r sooo annoying like the kind of people that read just for the aesthetic and to post quotes on tumblr so their followers see theyre reading

[bimboe]

I believe in equality, which is why we need a mainstream yuri anime about a girl named Yaoi in order to also make the yaoi tag unusable

[bimboe]

ok so when is liskook going to be canon

[bimboe]

KARINA SPICY (2023)

[bimboe]

aespa in spicy mv

[bimboe]

[bimboe]

goddamn 2023 is a STRONG year for kpop, i honestly haven’t been disappointed by a title track this yr from any of the groups i follow except for two and we’re almost halfway through the yr, and almost every mini/album put out has impressed me too so

[bimboe]

my taste in men is like. the most obviously heterosexual man you’ve ever seen but straight people want him to be gay for some rsn