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Paused King of the Hill on an interesting frame

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Trying to inflict psychic damage to a tumblr user is like trying to irradiate a cockroach, like it can be done, but the lethal dose is not safe for humans either

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How To With John Wilson (2020)

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Hiking with friends

(Please don't tag as ship)

Id in alt

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We're all sinners here

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all good grandsons strive for these stats

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I like when the bus stops directly in front of you out of the line of waiting people and opens its doors. Chosen by the dragon

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The way to fix a disturbing number of problems is "Cultivate good habits, and then do them consistently." I do not like this. 😠

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Realized I haven't made anything near a proper ref for Joan? in a long time. Don't stare though she's shy...

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i have a croissant related grievance

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*puts a disk in u*

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When I was early on in my transition I got in a Lyft, and the driver was this big country guy. I was a little nervous so I just sat quietly in the back.

After a moment he changed the music on his phone to what sounded like a Hatsune Miku song. Curiosity got the better of me, so I finally spoke up and said “is this Hatsune Miku?”

And he said “Yep. You looked uncomfortable, and I know Transgender women like Hatsune Miku, so I thought it might help.”

I think about that interaction a lot.

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it’s crazy how different you get treated in a mask but what really gets me is that when people ask why I’m masking, I’ve stopped saying I’m immunodeficient and started saying I have an immunodeficient family member at home. I am not exaggerating when I tell you this has 100% improved every single encounter I’ve had with anti-maskers. i’m not exaggerating in the slightest.

i used to tell people i’m immunodeficient and they’d ask invasive questions about my diagnosis, whether my parents kept my childhood overly sterile, whether I was vaccinated as a child (with the implication that it would have been bad if I were).

Now that I say I have an immunodeficient family member at home, people smile knowingly and say, “oh, well you do what you have to do,” and “my mom went through chemo. I remember how hard it was to do all the precautions” and “that’s so kind of you.”

if i tell someone i mask because i’m disabled, i’m assumed to be the weak link in our society, a burden to my family.

if i tell someone i mask to protect a disabled family member, i become the burdened, compassionate caretaker deserving of sympathy. how sad that i must limit myself to protect someone i love. how heroic that i choose to do so.

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Any day now

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i think theres no ugly art style you just gotta be confident in what you create

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Finally some appropriate business formal atire for high powered executives like you and me.