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A corset made of steel keeping me from breathing, while drownig in an ocean full of pain.

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Knowing you was the sweetest form of self destruction.

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black and white

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“I wanted to be a singer. I loved music. I practiced all the time and worked on writing songs for myself. I loved sad songs especially. But the community put so much pressure on my mother. My father passed away when I was twelve. And everyone kept telling my mother that a girl could not be something like a singer without her father’s permission. My father wouldn’t have minded. He was always so supportive of me. But my mom was so worried about what people would think. She begged me to stop. She grew so nervous that I finally told her, ‘It’s OK, Mom. I’ll stop.’ Now I just listen to music. It’s too sad for me to sing anymore.”

(Hunza Valley, Pakistan)

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Have you got colour in your cheeks?

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Everyone knows it. This strange feeling you get when turning your back towards the sea. As if the endless widen is calling you back into its arms.

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The fascinating thing about the sea is freedom. Nothing but endless freedom wherever you look.

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Home is where your heart is. Mine is somewhere else.

midnightthougts

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Maybe someday far, far away in an undiscovered world no one has never seen before.

midnightthoughts

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I could really use a wish right now

Airplanes

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The most beautiful color is the sea

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“1. When he texts you and says that he misses your lips on his skin, ask him if he’s drunk. If he is, don’t reply. If he’s not, then ask why he left you for that blonde girl with the piercings.

2. It’s going to break you. The first boy you fall in love with is going to snap your heart in half, and you’ll let him. Just remember that it wont feel that way forever.

3. When he asks if you “can still be friends” say no. You’re going to miss him either way, but it hurts less when you don’t get his texts asking if you want to get high with him at his brother’s house.

4. Don’t keep anything. Give him his t-shirts, give him his half-empty pack of cigarettes you found under your bed, give him everything he ever bought you, give him the bear he won you at the carnival and the flowers he picked for you at the park. Let him figure out what to do with them.

5. You’re allowed to hurt. It’s okay to sit in the shower and scream so loud that your throat is raw, just don’t write his name in the fogged mirror. It’s okay to smash a plate on the kitchen floor, just don’t cut yourself on the glass. It’s okay to feel like he snapped open your rib cage and sucked all the air from your lungs, just take a deep breath and know that you’re going to get better eventually.”

— 5 Things to Remember When He Breaks Your Heart

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and YOUNG Ladies:

you don’t have to shave anything you don’t want to.

you don’t have to sit a certain way.

you don’t have to have your hair a certain way.

you don’t have to “watch your weight”.

you don’t have to do anything you don’t want to.

you don’t.

not for mom’s, not for dad’s, not for boys, not for girls, not for sex appeal, not for respect.