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god she is always serving cunt.

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chronically ill black women get so left behind, yall only allow black women 2 options: completely invalidating our pain and suffering by saying black women are just lazy anyway or completely invalidating our pain and suffering by not believing that black women feel pain to begin with.

After 15 years of pain I finally have a doctor who is like wow yeah there's a lot going on with your body and your labs and physicals all corroborate that but for so long I was just told I'm dramatic or unmotivated.

Black women feel pain, black women are fucking human beings, black women can have chronic illnesses, black women can be disabled. We just do not get the care and validation we deserve. We don't get any excuse at all to not perform. I've constantly worked thru all this, constantly had to care for others thru all this, constantly had to survive thru all this bc I don't want to be labeled lazy but I'm not lazy, I am ILL and have nothing to fall back on bc black women aren't allowed to even be that. Ive known the term for years, but when my doctor told me flat out "Serena, you have multiple chronic illnesses" i almost told her my damn self "i dont think black folks have those" Because we aren't ALLOWED TO. I'm so exhausted by 15 years of health issues that I've powered thru that it has made my health EVEN WORSE. And now that I finally have a team that is advocating for my health and helping me get treatment I can't afford it bc I'm so sick that I have to take intermittent leaves from work.

Please listen to black women abt their bodies.

Please advocate for healthcare for black women.

Please unlearn your biases abt the bodies of black women.

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I have come up with a better metaphor than “you can’t pour from an empty cup” for burnout. You can’t boil an empty kettle. Pouring from an empty cup just gets you nowhere. Trying to boil an empty kettle can ruin the kettle, the stove, and burn down your house if you keep trying it.

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idk how to articulate to people that the south isn’t an irradiated salted earth hellscape populated by demons but in fact a place normal people live and go about their lives in a variety of different ways

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Trans afab people didn’t abandon womanhood. If a lime is yellow (which happens sometimes) and you mistook it for a lemon you don’t say that it abandoned the lemons when you bite into it and realize that it’s a lime.

I didn’t defect from or abandon anything. You have lost nothing. I was a lime the entire time. There’s still the same amount of lemons as there was before.

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aristotle and dante discover the secrets of the universe, benjamin alire sáenz - brutal, olivia rodrigo - seventeen, marina - @wendycopegf - if i stay, gayle foreman - seventeen, peach pit - girls your age, transviolet - jackie and wilson, hozier

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i don’t believe in the moral panic re: horror and i think most horror writers are generally normal people. but there’s definitely something wrong with stephen king

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Tumblr when Bezos' rocket malfunctions and vaporizes him

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Amy Winehouse passing popsicles through her window to neighborhood kids

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MURDER IN MUSIC VIDEOS 💀🔪

TELEPHONE – LADY GAGA + BEYONCÉ FORGIVE ME – CHLOE X HALLE MAGNETS – DISCLOSURE + LORDE TOXIC – BRITNEY SPEARS IT’S MY LIFE – NO DOUBT PAPARAZZI – LADY GAGA TWO BLACK CADILLACS – CARRIE UNDERWOOD NEEDED ME – RIHANNA GOODBYE EARL – THE CHICKS BITCH BETTER HAVE MY MONEY – RIHANNA

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nothing will remind you that eating is good and okay like fantasy books will. “and that night in the valley they brought out the best plum cake and sweet cream, trout and turnips roasted over the fire, mead and goatsmilk and fresh cold water from the spring-“ and it’s like yeah dude you’re absolutely right. then sometimes it’s like “as he slept that night in the woods, he sorely missed the valley, where they brought out the best plum cake-“ and it’s like man that sucks i’ll have some seconds in his honor

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maybe if patrick bateman stopped exfoliating his stupid face twice in a row every day and invested in a good sunscreen instead he wouldnt have become a psycho. did u ever think about that

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you missed it because you were looking at your phone but an angel just appeared to me with a flaming sword and told me that god decided there’s nothing wrong with day drinking

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we got canon bi genderfluid loki but at what cost

y’all got that. i got peace of mind by ignoring the mcu <3

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Id fuck tigress from king fu panda

but would she fuck you? humble yourself