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Negative Effects of Laziness

Sometimes, an urge to rest passively is overwhelming; the most common reason for this is fatigue, as the fast pace of metropolitan life requires people to push themselves to the limit on a daily basis. In such cases, there is nothing wrong with a wish to spend several calm hours doing nothing. However, there is a category of people whose entire lifestyle can be described by the slang phrase “couch potato.” Mostly, such people prefer to act as passive spectators of life, and though the masses do not consider laziness to be significant misconduct—treating it mostly as a forgivable weakness—this personality trait can cause severe negative effects both on an individual and on his or her surroundings.

A definition provided by Oxford Dictionaries describes laziness as the quality of being unwilling to work or use energy; and while unwillingness to work seems to affect only one sphere of an individual’s life—his or her career—having no intention to spend one’s energy seems to have a negative impact in multiple areas.

Laziness negatively affects an individual’s relationships with their boss and/or colleagues, due to certain behavioral standards that lazy people usually develop at work. In particular, lazy people tend to handover their work to someone else, often because of knowing that other people are more responsible workers and will accomplish additional tasks anyways; lazy people often procrastinate, justifying themselves by various reasons, or getting distracted by less important and more enjoyable tasks; besides, lethargic individuals develop a habit of complaining about their circumstances, or to put themselves in a favorable light and show that they work harder than their colleagues, but are undervalued (LifePaths 360). These, as well as other behavioral patterns usually result into the loss of a job, with the followup of anxiety, depression, and other psychic disturbances. In this case, the situation is twice as worse for such a person, as they may, due to their indifference, hesitate to look for a new job, preferring to justify themselves and feel miserable, thus only aggravating their psychological problems.

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Cause and effect Cyber Bullying What is Cyber bullying? The effects of Cyber bullying

The effects of Cyberbullying can last a lifetime if the victim does not get help. Some of these effects are:

- Depression

- Low self-esteem

- Give the bully and victim a bad reputation

- It can make hard for the victim to communicate

- All of these leads the biggest one of all which is suicide.

It is not okay!!!

Cyber bullying is the act of bullying others using electronic devices such as computers, tablets, and cell phones.

There two types of cyber bullying:

-The first is direct attack, when the message are sent directly to the victim. For Example, direct message on Facebook, twitter. Or just a text message.

-The second is Proxy cyber bullying, when using others to bully the victim with or without the accomplices knowledge. This is known to be the most dangerous because it sometimes involve harassment.

An example of one the biggest effects of cyber bullying.

The Causes of Cyber bullying

The causes of cyber bullying is almost the same for all teens victims or bully.

Some teens do it for the revenge of other peers, others just for entertainment purposes, and some do it just to boost their own ego.

It is easy to bully others online because it can be done anonymously, and there the bully can not see the victim.

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HAVING A TWO KINDS PETS OF HOUSE

GETTING A PETS IS NO EASY DECISION. EMOTIONAL PERK ATE UNDENIABLE, YET PETS REQUIR TIME, UNDERSTANDING, AND TRAINING. I HAVE A TWO KIDS OF PETS THE DOGS AND CATS BASE ON MY EXPERIENCE DOGS AND CATS ITS VERY NEED A TIME TO PLAY AND TRAINING BECAUSE THE PETS WITHOUT PLAY OR EXERCISES DOG IS DISCONSOLATE AND BECOMES AGGRESSIVE TO OTHER PEOPLE. WHEN I WAS A KID MY FATHER HAVE A MALE DOG NAME IS BUGART AND THE DOG IS QUITE ONLY AND ALWAYS TIED ON GATE I TRY TO TOUCH THE DOG AFTER I TOUCH HIS BITE ME, IF CAT NO TRAIN OR BONDING TO OWNER CAT IS VERY ANNOYING BECAUSE SOMETIMES CATS STEAL THE FOOD IN TABLE WITHOUT PERMISSION

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PUBLIC AND PRIVATE SCHOOL

PUBLIC AND PRIVATE SCHOOL HAVE A DIFFERENT LIKE TUITION FEE BECAUSE PRIVATE SCHOOL NEEDS A HIGH TUITION TO MAINTAIN A QUALITY OF EQUIPMENTS AND LABORATORY, PRIVATE SCHOOL ADVANCE TO LEARNING BECAUSE WE EXPERIENCE THE ADVANCE EQUIPMENT LIKE COMPUTER AND LABORATORY COMPARED TO PUBLIC SCHOOL NO LABORATORY AND OTHER STUDENT AFTER CLASS WE GO TO COMPUTER SHOP TO COMPLETE A PROJECT COMPARED THE PRIVATE POSSIBLE TO USE A COMPUTER LABORATORY FOR FINISHED A PROJECT.

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MY FIRST DANCE

WHEN I WAS A HIGH SCHOOL MY FIRST DANCE. IS HAPPENED TO MY BEST FRIEND GIRL SHES 18th BIRTHDAY THAT TIME AND SHE DANCE A 18 BOYS AND IM THE ONE OF THERE IM VERY HAPPY BECAUSE SHE CHOSE ME. THAT TIME I FEEL NERVOUS BUT I ENJOYED THE MOMENT.

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MY FAVOURITE FOOD

CHICKEN ADOBO

MY FAVOURITE FOOD IS CHICKEN ADOBO SIMPLE BUT VERY DELICIOUS AND SAVORY. WHEN I WAS A KID MY FATHER ALWAYS COOKING CHICKEN EVERY SUNDAY BECAUSE MY FATHER CONTEST HIS CHICKEN ON COCKPITS SOMETIMES HE WIN, SOMETIMES HE LOSE IF MY FATHER WIN AND HE COOKING THE CAPTIVE CHICKEN AND EVERYTIME OCCASIONS IMPERISHABLE THE CHICKEN ADOBO THAT'S WHY IM FAVORITE THE CHICKEN ADOBO.

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PERFECT RELATIONSHIP

COUPLES WHO FIGHT OFTEN ARE MOST LIKELY STRONGER THAN COUPLES WHO DO NOT. BUT IT'S NOT THE FIGHTING MAKES THEM STRONGER. ITS WHAT TAKES PLACE AFTER THE FIGHTING; THE FIGHTING REALISATION THAT YOUR RELATIONSHIP IS MORE IMPORTANT YOUR DIFFERENCES IT INVOLVES ACT'S OF FORGIVENESS AND ACCEPTANCE OF FORGIVENESS OF ONE'S MISTAKE YOU FIGHT, AND YOU LEARM SOMETHING NEW ABOUT THE PERSON. THAT'S HOW IT WORKS. REAL RELATIONSHIP AREN'T PERFECT, AND PERFECT RELATIONSHIP AREN'T REAL.

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MY IDEAL FAMILY

My ideal family would be a big family; with lots of children running in and out of a big house, full of laughter and life. I would like us to be able to talk to one another, and to be able to stick together no matter what problems might arise. I would like our home to have a big sunny kitchen, where everyone would go after school or work; where we would be able to relax and joke around, and generally have fun together.

I would like these things because they remind me of my childhood. Even though things weren't always great, we still had good times. I remember coming home from school in the winter to a warm kitchen, with the smell of freshly made doughnuts reaching out to greet me as I opened the door. I also remember my older brothers and sisters taking me sledding; and when we came home, our mom made us fresh hot cocoa.

Meal times were especially fun, when we were able to arrange our busy schedules to where we could eat together. We would talk throughout the meal, laughing and joking. I always enjoyed those times. And whenever I had problems, I knew I had someone to go to for help or comfort. This is my ideal family, and what I would like my future family to be.

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How to Stop Bullying Others: 7 Tips

We recently found that 1 in 2 people have bullied another person at least once. Bullying is one of the biggest issues currently affecting teens in the UK and we believe that we can overcome it, if we start to think differently about how we resolve things.

1. YOU ARE NOT A BULLY

First and foremost, stop labelling yourself as a bully. It isn’t productive and will not benefit you. You may be bullying another person but that does not mean you are a bully. It is a behavior and not your identity.

2. UNDERSTAND WHY

Our research shows that there are a variety of reasons why people bully others. Bullying is a learned behaviour and is often used as a coping mechanism for a stressful situation. Common examples could include being bullied by somebody else, abuse, a traumatic situation or a stressful home life. In addition, we also know that some people bully others because they may feel competitive towards them or may not fully understand an element about them. Once you are able to gain an understanding as to why you are motivated to bully others, you will become incredibly powerful.

3. SEEK A RESOLVE

Once you have identified the source of your behaviour, it is important to find a productive way in which you can resolve the situation. If you find this difficult, we would recommend speaking with an adult who you trust. Alternatively, you can contact us or give our friends at Childline a call on 0800 11 11.

4.  REPROGRAM YOUR STRESS

What is the one thing that we all have in common? Stress. We all feel it, but it’s important to recognise stress and deal with it accordingly. By that, we mean – don’t store it up and let it fester, as it can have significant impacts on your mood and health. Give our Stress Reprogramming system a try.

5. SPEAK ABOUT IT

You’d be surprised at how powerful it can be to just sit down with somebody who you trust and talk about everything that is bothering you. A problem shared, really is a problem halved. It may be worth buddying up and going through our Stress Reprogramming exercise with somebody who you trust.

6. IS IT A GOOD STRATEGY?

Pulling somebody else down will never, ever take you any higher. Using bullying as a coping mechanism for something stressful in your life is only going to make things worse; not just for you but also for the person who is at the receiving end of the bullying

7. UNDERSTAND THE IMPACT

To you, it may not seem serious, but to another person, the impact could be significant. For every 10 people who are bullied, 3 of them will self-harm, 1 will go on to have a failed suicide attempt and 1 will develop an eating disorder. Additionally, we know that people who have been bullied, on average, achieve lower grades and therefore the bullying could reduce their future career prospects