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Masochism, son. I harden in response to physical trauma.

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me at the uncut orc village

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@xx-bunnyboy-xx

Sword that, instead of creating wounds, creates new orifices as if they were natural.

Fucking the stab wound, but safe!

The Storied Blade of That One Hero We Don't Talk About

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Me except I do terrible things while you're reading the note.

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Fingers in his ass

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Dingo: [Reading Mick Taylor fanfic to Bunny in character]

Dingo: [snags finger on edge of bench, pulling back nail]

Dingo, loudly, still in character: AW FUCK ME FUCKEN FINGERNAIL!

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Dom red flags: a checklist for less experienced submissives

This is written mostly for inexperienced subs who are seeking doms. I would also recomend less experienced doms read as well, I could have used a lot of this advice when I first got started. If you have a lot of S&M experience, you probably won't get much from this post. Feel free to add to it if you reblog. Full checklist under the cut.

Aftercare - Always mandatory. While it will look different from different people aftercare is still an essential part of a dynamic. If a dom has a problem with aftercare, either your version of it or the concept in general 🚩🚩🚩

Safe words - Always mandatory. Safe words are essential for both doms and subs. It’s valid to use them at any time for any reason. I suggest two safewords for every dynamic. A pause word and a stop word. Yellow and Red are pretty standard in many BDSM circles and they’re fantastic for explaining the concept of each. Yellow or Pause meaning take a breath, check in, and communicate. Red or Stop meaning immediately end the scene and provide aftercare. If the sub is gagged or otherwise speech impaired, a particular noise they can annunciate like “Nuh uh," snapping your fingers, or holding onto a loud object they can drop to create a distinct noise are fantastic alternatives. No one should ever be made to feel guilty for using a safeword. If a dom has a problem with safe words, punishes their sub for using it, or doesn’t immidiately stop when the safeword is used 🚩🚩🚩

Check-ins - Recommended. In any dynamic, the dom has a responsibility to make sure their sub is comfortable with the scene as it’s being carried out. Sometimes things can get intense, and if the sub is in subspace, they may not always be able to catch when something starts to overwhelm them. To avoid negative outcomes, I suggest regular check-ins. They can be as simple as “would you like another slap, baby?” or “how does that feel?" or as in-depth as a full pause of the scene. I recomend simple check ins for short scenes (under 10 minutes) and longer water breaks and full pauses during longer scenes. Check-ins are especially important for inexperienced subs and anyone exploring a new type of play. If you think check-ins sound like a good idea, then ask for them! And if your dom refuses 🚩🚩🚩

Boundaries - Always Mandatory. You and your dom both have a responsibility to communicate your boundaries with each other. You also have the responsibility not to cross each other’s boundaries intentionally. Ever. If a dom doesn’t listen to your boundaries, repeatedly crosses them, pushes you to do things you explicitly aren't okay with, or refuses to admit that you don’t like something 🚩🚩🚩

Adapting/Taking critism - Very important. No dynamic will be perfect from the start. Expectations and desires change over time, and even the deepest of connections will evolve. This means that consistant communication and feedback during the dynamic is essential. Bdsm is not about a dom molding a sub into whatever they want. It's about exploring mutually held desires. Both a dom and a sub need to be able to tweak their approaches to each other with time, listen to critisms from each other, and continously adapt as your perceptions of the dynamic change over time. If you have a 24/7 dynamic, I would recomend a regularly scheduled pause every day to talk about the dynamic, voice any critisms, and adjust accordingly. If a dom doesn't want to adjust their approach for you, or shift things in your dynamic based on what you want and like🚩🚩🚩

Punishments - the dynamics conceptualization of punishments should always be pre-negotiated. What is the purpose of punishments? Are they meant to be fun for both parties? Does the sub even want to be punished? Does the dom want to preform punishments? What activities are both parties okay with? If a dom refuses to take all this int account, or wants to give you punishments you dissgree with despite any out-of-dynamic protests🚩🚩🚩

General tips:

Trust your gut - If a situation feels wrong, back out. If someone feels off, or if something isn’t adding up, don't do it. If your gut tells you to run, run. Most BDSM carries inherent risk, if you aren't 100% sure you're willing to accept that risk, don't do it.

Don’t compromise on your boundaries. Ever. - If you feel uncomfortable doing something don’t do it. If a fantasy or scene seems like too much, refuse. There are plenty of doms out there, ignoring your feelings for one that makes you uncomfortable is never worth it.

Talk to others in the community - Please please please for the love of god talk to other subs. Talk to doms that aren’t interested in you. Talk with your dom’s other playmates. Talk with your friends who do kink. Other members of the community are an essential resource and act as a great bullshit detector if something doesn't seem right. Provide support to each other, be as open about your dynamic/potential partners as you comfortably can be. Listen to their feedback.

Sub drop/dom drop - Drops are completely normal during kink. I’ve had them, subs I’ve been with have had them, friends who participate in kink have had them. If you do kink, you’ll probably have a drop at some point, and that’s okay. Your dom should be someone who can comfort you during a drop, the same way you would comfort them if they have one. Your dom should be someone who can make you feel safe during a drop. They should be someone who is willing to comfort you and be there for you while you feel those feelings. 

If you have questions about any of this please dm me or send me an ask.

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Bunny: I'll let you do a line off my tits.

Dingo: SCORE. Fuck yeah.

Bunny: If you maybe, uh, y'know, lemme have a little bit?

Dingo: ...You wanna do coke?

Bunny: Maybe. Just a little. A smidgen, perhaps.

Dingo, gruffly: Well, iunno how yer daddy's gonna like that...

Bunny: [horny whimpering noises]

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Dingo: Would you like a sippy of my dippy?

Bunny: Depends, what's a dippy?

Dingo: Just a drink. It's Coke.

Bunny: No but I'll suck your dick.

Dingo: [exasperated gasp]

Bunny: La di da di da. Slob on your knob. Corn on the cob.

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thank you wwi

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how do intox scenes work? how can you be sure that whoever's intoxicated isnt so out of it they can't say the safeword?

Ive been meaning to answer this! Ok so for me ive only done actual intox with my partner, ive had like tipsy hookups before i was with him, but i wouldn't consider that the same as an intox kink scene. You need to actually talk and establish boundaries ahead of time while sober. You should already know likes and dislikes generally, but its also worth asking while youre both sober if yall want to go along with new things that might come up during the scene. Like maybe when ur sober and not in a kink headspace you dont really love degradation, but for some reason when ur high and in subspace you want it really fucking badly. Ask each other ahead of time if you feel comfortable playing along with a situation like that or if you wanna side step it until you're not intoxicated.

How do you know if theyre too out of it to safeword- 1) start small 2) make them practice

1) dont get super crazy drunk/ high for sex, especially when starting out.

2) literally most underrated foreplay ever is making ur partner practice saying no. Touch them, kiss them, do your standard foreplay stuff, and instruct them to randomly safeword or tell you no. As soon as they do, you stop everything and praise them for it, like "Thank you so much for stopping me, you're such a good boy. Wanna keep going?" And then continue as you were. Have them practice safewording like 3-5 times over the course of kinda intensifying foreplay as a good clarity check. Then signal the "game" is over somehow, like saying "ok, ready to go for real now?" This is fun even just for any new kink endeavor btw (i did this a lot with bondage at first!). Its really just to make it feel less scary for both of u to safeword/ react to a safeword, and build trust that youll actually stop immediately, plus it reminds them its an option even if theyre a lil out if it.

YOU SHOULD DO MUCH MORE RESEARCH THAN READING THIS POST TO RNGAGE IN INTOX KINK IRL PLS GOD ok thanks

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Rare lewd posting.

Featuring the crop top @xx-bunnyboy-xx convinced me to buy.

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It's yellow.

Just had a shag and he put on a pajama shirt that says “Cute Gay and Ready to Slay”

Guess I’m boy moding by force lmao

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porn isn't evil or misogynistic you just grew up culturally christian and are scared of sex

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Her ass is not listening

He's talking about sheep or something. She's busy thinking about how it feels a bit like a beanbag.

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