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I think 50 shades of grey did so much damage to BDSM writing in fic and like not because I think fic writers were taking inspiration from it, but we did get a lot of detailed explanatory posts about all the different ways in which those guys were Doing It Wrong, which is not in and of itself a bad thing but since then everybody got so hung up on making sure everybody in their fics was nothing like 50 shades of grey and actually demonstrates that yes I do understand the principles of safe sane and consensual and the traffic light system and safewording and aftercare and checking in that now everybody fucks like a 101 handbook and I think we've only just recently started to recover from it. love me a dynamic where it's two repressed freak idiots who accidentally invent BDSM all on their own and have to come up with the strangest most deeply harmful ways of navigating that situation

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some of you aren’t even perverts you just have normal sexual desires that you are ashamed of

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brat for broken teeth

piled in millions

pocket change wanders where it wants, i guess,

sworn to secrecy when coming home covered in filthy street desires

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dad fucking his son loud and sloppy in an alleyway and groaning into the squirming boy's ear; "baby, stop fighting so much...if anyone hears us, they're gonna think I'm raping you..."

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Who needs thoughts when you can have Daddy's rules, commands, and conditioning instead?

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Is it okay if i take your heavily conditioned, dysfunctionally dependent little guy and give him contradicting orders so i can watch him lock up with indecision and a carnal terror he cannot escape?

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characters apologizing for things they have no control over. mumbling sorry while losing consciousness. feeling ashamed of a bleeding wound. embarrassed when an infection sets in. deep seated feverish guilt when they need to be carried, when their legs won't keep them upright anymore and they lean heavy on a friend, slurring apologies..........

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That thing where the character got their ribs beat the hell out of, but they're being stoic about it, and then someone frendly slaps their back or side and they just cry out in pain and curl in.

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Permanent hypnosis. Permanently putting someone into a nice docile obedient state where they’ll never be fully awake again. Even if you order them to act like a real person, they’ll still be calm and slow and blissfully thoughtless on the inside, perpetually stuck in a living dream. Or more precisely, perpetually lacking the volition and brainpower to do anything but obey.

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For the love of god, praise and reassure your Dom after sex. I cannot tell you the amount of times I’ve told a Dom they did a good job after sex and they’re like “???? Why are you saying that???” It’s INSANE. Aftercare goes both ways! Praise! Your! Dom! Tell them the specific things you liked! Tell them how hot they were! Tell them that you appreciate them taking control! It goes such a long way, trust me.

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i really really do wish there was more service submission content that like. actually featured non-sexual service for more than ten seconds. maybe that makes me a fucking weirdo but maid in skimpy outfit gets interrupted scrubbing the floors to get fucked is nice and all but can i find SOME love for the domme comes home and the entire place is clean and the bed is made all nice and fresh flowers are arranged on the table for her and dinner is cooking and the service sub gets pulled in by their collar and told what a good toy they are and (and this is important) they KEEP cooking dinner and don’t expect sex as a reward for their service to their dominant and i have to stop writing this post i feel faint

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if you're pure of heart, you unlock a special way to have sex that's just hitting someone hard enough to make them cry

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a coffin is too ordinary for your body, I'd bury you in my own arms

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It’s not your fault you’re like this. It’s nature. You’re hard wired to be submissive. That’s why it takes so much energy to try and pretend you don’t want to be treated like property. You just can’t help it. Even right now, reading this, you’re getting wet because you know I’m right. You shouldn’t be embarrassed or ashamed either. You belong with your legs spread out, offering yourself to me. You don’t need to make decisions. You need me.