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bryan lee o malley character artwork I drew that I was going to give him because he was doing a signing but the line closed when I got there 😭 hope you guys can enjoy them instead!

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Here’s a drawing of Snottie I did last year after coming back from vacation… I’m trying to be less weird about posting stuff

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Everyone needs to see the Webkinz bootleg merch I saw on Amazon

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absolutely enchanted by the wikipedia article about the most commonly stolen books from bookstores….

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I've come out of this election with a ton of respect for brad lander tbh, a slimier politician would have taken advantage of the antisemitism accusations thrown at mamdani by zionists in order to get more votes but he did the opposite and used his position as a jewish politician to make it clear that the people responsible for this smear campaign were a vocal minority who did not represent the majority of jewish new yorkers. it shows moral character as well as intelligence, because meanwhile you have jessica ramos who did decide to be a snake and it might have cost her her entire political career 🤷

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permission to lib out?

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hasan interviewed mamdani???? this is what our city needs. new york's first breadtube mayor

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ZOHRAN MAMDANI IS GOING TO BE MAYOR OF NYC LET'S GOOOOOOOO

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could I get some artist/album recommendations... I need music to listen to while walking on the beach

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went to one of the last aurora homecoming concerts last night :)

the queendom part is just so much cooler when there are a ton of other people there with you, I'm glad I got to experience that again

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I'm officially on vacation :D for 2 weeks. and I'm really going to try to limit my tumblr usage during that time so I can read more! so I'll basically be logging in only to make my own posts (which may take the form of a homestuck liveblog. I'm sorry.) but I won't really be scrolling the dash and I may take a while to respond to dms

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A lot of the backlash against nonmonogamy is, in my opinion, reflective of anxieties about monogamy. And while there are absolutely couples in open relationships where one is very unhappy with the arrangement – as the tweet above suggests – what about the millions of married couples where one is crying themselves to sleep every night because they know the other is cheating, or because they want to leave but don’t have connections and support outside of their partner? Why is the idea of genuinely being able to love multiple partners so culturally unavailable? Is it because functioning polyamory might flash up some of the potential problems with monogamy: the scarcity mindset around affection or the possibilities for isolation and coercion? And might experienced poly people be able to teach us something about how to avoid unhappy, entrapping versions of monogamy, and how to cope better with common insecurities around relationships, even if you ultimately want an exclusive relationship?

Eli Cugini, Polyamory isn't Perfect, But Neither is Monogamy

[emphasis mine]

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Sword w cellphone charms

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I think everything in this world is beautiful. The sky, birds, bugs, frogs, flowers, and even rocks. Because, if God created this world, could there really be anything dirty and ugly in it?

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object of affection

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For the 3 people out there with my exact same interests