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1 thing about me I'm gonna be a sweetie

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you're smart enough to know the difference between resting and rotting. you'll be happier when you choose to spend your time off restoring your energy and preparing for the next busy day instead of oversleeping and mindlessly consuming content.

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my whole aesthetic rn, just a simple black long/mid dress... simple, elegant, i love it

Imaan Hammam for Versace Spring/Summer 2024

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A person's character is more important than their charm.

Integrity: They uphold moral principles and honesty.

Self-awareness: Their ability to recognize their emotions, thoughts, and values.

Kindness: Show empathy and consideration towards other people.

Vulnerability: Is open about weaknesses and emotions.

A sense of humor: They can find humor in situations and share joy.

Playfulness: They are fun and playful.

Accountability: They take responsibility for their actions and behavior.

Generosity: They willingly giving time, resources, or attention to others.

What else would you add?

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Something helpful I’ve learned from a YT video:

The cure to perfectionism is developing your own personal standard, not desperately trying not to care what others think. Unhealthy perfectionism is when your own opinion of yourself doesn’t matter, it’s all about the standards others impose on you. Working on my own self-perception and determining what is acceptable for me in my own life has really been a game changer. Pausing whenever I make a mistake, slowing down my mind, and asking “what can I learn from this?” Or “is this fixable?” Or even, “did I actually do anything wrong?”

And most importantly, developing my own set of standards. The first question I should ask myself is “what do I think of that? Is this acceptable by my own standard? Am I honestly doing the best I can at the moment? Could I do better?”

Being gentle and firm with myself has also done wonders. Some days, I truly only have 50% of myself to give. But if I gave all 50%, then I gave it my all. Being realistic about what’s acceptable to me, how I can improve, and how much can I give without negative consequences is making a big difference in being a recovering perfectionist.

As a side note, perfectionism isn’t bad in and of itself. We should strive for perfect. But we will inevitably fall short, and the negative emotions we feel as a result of that is what needs to be addressed. Unhealthy perfectionism actually hinders you because if you can’t do it perfectly, then you won’t even attempt it (which is what was happening to me). Failure is bound to happen, but it’s how you learn from it and improve.

Here is the video I watched if you’re curious!

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A lot of times you don't realize how attainable the things you want can be because you are stuck in an environment that is not cohesive to those results. And that is not your fault. But it does not change the fact that the reality is exists. Placing yourself in the right environment will open you up to new opportunities and a new way of thinking. This should be your goal. Nothing you want is out of reach. But if you do not decide to make changes, nothing is going to change.

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How to Be The ✨Main Character✨ of Your Life 👑

Being the main character of your life means taking charge of your own narrative, making intentional choices, and living authentically. This doesn't mean life will be perfect. It means you're actively participating in your journey, making choices that align with your values, and striving to live a fulfilling life.

Understand yourself. Your desires, strengths, weaknesses, and emotions. What you like and do not like. Reflect on your actions and decisions regularly.

Figure out, decide and commit to the life you want.Both short term and long term. Break these goals down into small steps.

Take action. Don't wait for things to happen; make them happen.

Every main character faces obstacles. They build you. They show you, and others, how bad you want it. Instead of avoiding challenges, face them head-on. They're opportunities for growth.

Physical, emotional, and mental well-being are crucial. Regular exercise, a balanced diet, meditation, and adequate sleep can make a huge difference. How you treat yourself is how much you do or do not love yourself.

Surround yourself with positive influences and people who uplift you. Limit exposure to negative media or toxic individuals.

The world is full of knowledge. Always be curious. Read books and take courses. Always learn.

Connect deeply with others. Genuine relationships add richness to life.

Be true to yourself. Don't live to meet others' expectations. Celebrate your uniqueness.

Regularly acknowledge and appreciate the good in your life. There is always something to be grateful for. It shifts your focus from what's lacking to what's abundant. How you look at life is what you will attract.

Find balance in work, relationships, and personal time. Create a life that is fulfilling. You are not just one aspect of your life.

Imagine yourself succeeding and achieving your goals. This positive visualization can be a powerful motivator. Live your life as if it is already done.

Life will have its ups and downs. Resilience is the ability to bounce back from setbacks and keep moving forward.

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Today you can start taking those steps to become that woman you want to be, do not allow perceived barriers to eat you up.

You also deserve the life you want, you are no different to the women you post as inspiration.

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what the anti-ageing 30 step skincare preemptive botox girlies haven’t worked out yet is that youthfulness is an inner glow that comes from playing and laughing and losing yourself to the present moment

you can be in a perfectly preserved skin sack but if you don’t smile or play in the sunshine then you’re ageing yourself faster than any of us with our laugh lines and full lives

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Valentino - Fall 1992 Couture