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There are never too many kisses, but psychologists advise to catch the moments

On the eve of World Kissing Day, which is celebrated on July 6, experts told RIA Novosti why kissing is vital at any age, as well as how many times a day you need to kiss for psychological comfort and what to do if your partner does not like kissing, but really wants to. Use this to get more details.

Joy hormones

"It is impossible to pamper a kid with affection, touching, hugs and kisses as the quintessence of tenderness. For him, this is a necessity, without which a child will never learn to establish emotional contact with other people," says Anna Berdnikova, family consultant of the Insight clinic.

Moreover, the specialist notes, the child needs not only to kiss and hug. He needs to see how parents kiss, how they treat each other tenderly and how they show concern. This is how he learns. And the sex  better the culture of touching and kissing is developed in the family, the more he will be open to this in the future.

 ”But if a child sees that mother frowns when she bends down to kiss grandmother, he will learn a completely definite model, and it’s good if he doesn’t spit on this grandmother,” says Berdnikova.

However, the psychologist advises taking into account the child's age - the older he is, the more carefully you need to choose the moments for the manifestation of your feelings.

Experts are not inclined to believe that the need for kissing decreases with age. According to Berdnikova, with retirement, when the circle of contacts is narrowed and there are fewer and fewer stimuli for feelings, thoughts and desires, a person begins to exploit with greater force what he can still reach. That is why grandmothers love to hug and kiss their grandchildren so much.

"If a person from childhood is accustomed to treating loved ones with tenderness, not to be ashamed of kissing them, saying goodbye or saying hello, then in old age he will behave in a similar way. After all, kissing is not only pleasant, but also useful: hormones of joy, endorphins are produced ", - the sexologist of the medical center" Avanta honey "Tatiana Chernyakova is sure.

Kisses prolong life

At the same time, Chernyakova emphasizes that the need for kissing can be different.  he will never feel the need for his family. Then sex  conflicts are possible: his partner, accustomed to more vivid manifestations of feelings, may feel frustration (dissatisfaction) ", - says the interlocutor

The sexologist is convinced that this situation can be corrected if desired.  A person does this first as directed, then he gets involved, he starts to like it, he builds into a behavioral stereotype. So you can teach to enjoy kissing,” she says.

The family counselor suggests another scheme. And see how you feel more pleasant and comfortable. Or try to find an average version, a compromise," says Berdnikova.

She notes that women often come to the reception, complaining of a lack of love and tenderness, kisses and attention. “Couples especially often face this problem when women’s maternity leave ends. She’s already tired of staying at home, and the man is tired of bearing all the responsibility for supporting the family. Both have no resources to be attentive and gentle,” the sex specialist explains.

But if you don't have the strength to kiss, the psychologist recommends taking a step back in the relationship and starting to restore the friendly, marital component.  Perhaps you went for a walk or played badminton together. As a rule, the desire to give tenderness returns along with the marital component," explains Berdnikova.

According to her, a person needs at least eight hugs a day for normal life. Chernyakova calculated that for health you need to kiss at least four times a day.

"The lack of intimate communication can be compensated for by manifestations of affection, for example, when a woman washes the dishes, her husband, passing by, can kiss her neck. In general, you need to kiss as often as possible, everywhere and with pleasure. According  sex to statistics, a man kissing his wife before leaving. to work, lives longer, "the sexologist summed up.

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Rating of the most insatiable zodiac signs in sex

According to astrologers, the stars affect absolutely all areas of a person's life, even the most secret and intimate ones, which are usually hidden. Many esotericists believe that representatives of different signs of the zodiac are endowed with different sexual activity. Accordingly, knowing the date of birth of your potential partner, you can predict with a certain degree of probability what his needs for  sex. Learn more details.

Scorpio - several times a day

It is no coincidence that Scorpio is a sign of the water element. Those born under the auspices of this constellation simply adore swimming in pleasure, including sexual pleasure. The oceans are boundless, like the Scorpio's desire is boundless.

Cancers - every day

This sign, due to its characteristics, is very selfless in all matters. Sexual satisfaction of a partner is no exception for him. Cancers will try for a loved one every night, but because of their innate secrecy and modesty, they never admit if they really want it.

Capricorn - five times a week

It is sometimes very difficult for representatives of this zodiac sign to find time for carnal pleasures, since they are constantly busy with work . But as soon as they get carried away with something else - for example, sex - they simply cannot stop and are ready not to get out of bed for days. True, it must be borne in mind that the ambitious plans of Capricorns do not go anywhere, and at least two days a week they can forget about love and plunge headlong into the process of conquering the world.

Aries - four times a week

Aries are representatives of the fire element, with a strong need for sex. However, in addition to the process of intercourse itself, they are also attracted by their own benefit, therefore, often among the representatives of this sign there are not faithful partners, therefore not all of these four times a week can fall on one chosen one.

Libra - three times a week

The representatives of this sign are characterized by passion and a constant desire to make the partner happy. However, due to their creativity, they do not reduce partner satisfaction to banal sex. Often, Libra is ready to give up the sexual act itself in favor of sensual pleasures.

Taurus and Virgo - twice a week

Despite all the dissimilarity of these signs, Taurus and Virgo act identically in bed. Representatives of both signs consider sex to be overvalued, and at the same time understand its importance in  relationships . The only difference between them is that Taurus love to make love on weekdays, so that later they can free up time for rest , and Virgos postpone sex for the weekend, as an easy addition to real entertainment.

Pisces and Lions - once a week

Many people are used to thinking of Leos as tireless lovers who are ready to spend their whole lives in sexual pleasures. However, in fact, representatives of this sign pay much more attention to attempts to lead everything and control everything that only catches their eyes. Pisces are prone to infrequent intercourse for other reasons. For them, sex is a return of energy that they want to save with all their might in order to achieve success on the path of life.

Gemini and Sagittarius - always or never

Those born under the auspices of the constellation Sagittarius plunge headlong into whatever business they undertake. They get so carried away that they often forget to eat, let alone sex. And Gemini can often suffer from a lack of carnal pleasures, but they will never allow themselves to sleep with a person with whom they do not experience emotional closeness.

Aquarius - once a month

Aquarians spend all their activity on the realization of their creative potential, therefore they often simply do not have time for love games . At the same time, representatives of this sign can not stop talking about sex, instead of communication, use flirting, avidly read erotic novels, but the sexual act itselperceived as something unnecessary and are of the opinion “sex is boring, I read it”.

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"Beware, people!": Advice to a young bride

The article was titled Instructions and  sex Advice for the Young Bride.

Further, I read through the text with my own abbreviations. Use this to get more details.

For a sensitive girl fortunate enough to receive the right upbringing, ironically, her wedding day is the happiest and worst day in her life. 

The negative side is the wedding night, during which the bride must, so to speak, pay for the music by being forced to experience the whole horror of sex life for the first time.

In this regard, dear reader, let me tell you one overwhelming truth. Some girls meet the test of their wedding night with curiosity and pleasure. Beware of this attitude! A selfish and lustful husband can easily benefit from such a wife. One should never forget the main rule of married life: Giving is little, Giving is rare, and, most importantly ,sex  Giving is reluctant.

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Since sex life is at best disgusting, and at worst very painful, women have to endure it, and they have been doing it since the beginning of time.

Of course, the ideal would be the husband who approaches his wife only at her request and only for the purpose of conceiving offspring, but such nobility and disinterestedness cannot be expected from an ordinary man. Most sex  men, if not denied, would demand sex almost every day.

A wise wife will permit at most two short intercourse per week in the first months of marriage. Over time, she will make every effort to reduce this frequency. A wife is best served by simulating sickness, sleepiness, and headaches.

A wise wife is always ready to find new, more perfect methods of refusing her husband and discouraging his love endeavors. A good wife should strive to reduce intercourse to once a week by the end of the first year of marriage and to once a month by the end of the fifth year.

By the tenth anniversary, many wives have succeeded in completing childbearing and achieving the ultimate goal of completing all sexual intercourse with their husband.

Over time, the husband will understand that if he insists on sexual intercourse, then he should go to him without erotic design. A wise wife will be completely silent, or she will babble something about her household, moreover, she will lie completely motionless and will never, under any circumstances, utter moans and gasps during intercourse. When the husband completes the act, the wise wife should start nagging him about the many small tasks she would like to give him the next day.

We must strive for her husband's family, school, church, and social environment during his life to help instill in him a feeling of deep guilt in relation to his sexual instinct, so that he comes to the marriage bed with a feeling of guilt and shame, already half defeated and subordinate.

A wise wife seizes the opportunity to take advantage of such a situation and tirelessly pursues her goal: first to limit, and later - to completely nullify her husband's desire for any manifestation of sexual activity. "

End of quote. For these advice and fired. I think I got off easy yet.

As Kozma Prutkov said - don't joke with women, these jokes are indecent and dangerous.