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Polyamory is like taking the fear of “I hope no one else makes my partner feel the way I do” and saying “I hope other people make you feel this way too, because if I can make you feel amazing, and they make you feel amazing, then that’s a whole lot of feeling amazing” and I really do think that is amazing (and hard, but amazing). 

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i’m interested in stargazing and rough sex

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There’s nothing I’m really passionate about. You know, like, I’m not dying to say or do anything, really. And every time I admit that to people, they’re like, “Oh my gosh, that’s so sad.” But… I think that’s the case for most people. You know? Like when I look at my mom, or… the kids at my school, like their profiles or their posts and their Tumblr rants, you realize they’re all just fucked up too… and lost.

EUPHORIA (2019-) | 1x04 - Shook One: Pt II

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anyway what’s up everybody im thinking about how amazing and almost holy gay sex is

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*holds ur hand* bro… u look so pretty tonight

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One kiss on your girl's forehead is much sweeter than thousand on the lips.There is no lust just love and respect.It says "You're mine.Don't ever leave my side".It says"I care about you and I don't want you to get hurt".It says "I will come between you and whatever tries to hurt you".It says " You're my baby and I adore you".

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this is 100% why i never fucked with that “normcore” nonsense and why i’m still extremely self-conscious about what i wear and how my clothes fit, even after my weight loss. wearing “normal” clothes only becomes “fashion” when it’s on skinny attractive people and once it’s on a fat person it’s suddenly the trappings of the tacky and the unwashed poors. fuck out of here. you can make anything look good.

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I can’t stop laughing at this 😂

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1.7% of people are intersex, 2% have green eyes, and 1.5 percent are redheads, but yeah red is a natural hair color, green is a natural eye color, and being intersex is a 'deformity'. Keep pretending gender isn't a social construct

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The other day I had a complete crisis over my submissiveness and whether it was degrading myself as a person, whose in a very technical male dominated culture (engineering) , bc I allow myself to part take in sub/dom dynamics outside of it. Thoughts and advice? My dom says I'm okay and that he doesnt think of me as such but I'm still at a loss.

Playing the role of a submissive for your own pleasure isn’t degrading if it’s something you actually want. I’d take a look at your dynamic and make sure everything is going the way you want it to there. Are you getting enough and adequate aftercare? Are you being praised after a scene? Are you getting affirmed that you’re cared for and not actually any of the degrading things that might have been said in a scene? Have a conversation with your Dom about these feelings in relation to your dynamic and make sure you’re getting what you need there.

There’s nothing wrong with being submissive so long as you’re not actually being made to feel “less than” out of a scene. I can go through a super intense degrading scene where I’m treated harshly but the second it’s over, I’m reassured it’s all play. If you’re struggling with your own submission then make sure a) it’s something YOU actually want, not just your partner and b) you’re getting proper aftercare and support from your partner.

I hope you feel better. If these thoughts continue it might be good to take a little D/s break until you figure this stuff out. Don’t let your Dom pressure you to play while you’re going through this crisis. Make sure he respects what you’re going through and is supportive, not dismissive.

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memeception

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Ten Doctors for The Big Night In

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every day the same telemarketing company calls us. I’ve asked to be taken off their calling list, I’ve tried to be civil, I’ve even tried to not answer the phone, yet they’ll keep calling. So now I’ve resorted to making the phones calls as annoying as possible for them.

Today I asked the person to hold while I got a pen and paper. As of now, they’ve been waiting 45 minutes.

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fun drinking game!

EVERY TIME this post comes up on your dash, you HAVE to take a big ol’ gulp of WATER you dehydrated dumbass.

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