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about to go see The People's Joker and Vera Drew is gonna be there!!!

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i love u dykes whose identities include manhood i love u multigender dykes i love u plural dykes i love u 2spirit dykes i love u intersex dykes i love u genderfluid dykes i love u transmasc dykes i love u dykes with complex relationships to gender i love u dykes who cant be neatly separated into "non men" <3 <3 <3

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lyler has a toyhouse now btw :D

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“quick psa here folks”

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you’re stuck living with your icon for a month have fun

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[ID: A fat pale skinned person with a curly brown mohawk mullet, visible sideburns, and multiple piercings. He's wearing a denim vest covered in pins and patches, a black sleeveless crop top with a fishnet tank underneath, big black tripp-like pants with spikes on them, and shiny black platform combat boots. The first pic is chest up, and the second is a fullbody picture of his reflection in a window. End ID.]

ur favorite dykefag butch just got a haircut 😇 (he/it)

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sorry if u don’t like femme bush.sorry if you don’t like femmes on t. hope you get well soon. wishing you the absolute worst. he/him tmasc femmes i love you with all my heart

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[ID: A person cradling a cat on her back in one arm, one picture showing her looking blankly off to the side, and the other picture a closeup of her empty stare. End ID.]

some sort of weird beast in my home....

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[ID: A fat pale skinned person with a curly brown mohawk mullet, visible sideburns, and multiple piercings. He's wearing a denim vest covered in pins and patches, a black sleeveless crop top with a fishnet tank underneath, big black tripp-like pants with spikes on them, and shiny black platform combat boots. The first pic is chest up, and the second is a fullbody picture of his reflection in a window. End ID.]

ur favorite dykefag butch just got a haircut 😇 (he/it)

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Something that gets lost in the contemporary pressure to have an iron-clad identity is the subversive power of saying “it’s none of your business.”

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porn is unequivocally art btw

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a stud in black leather on a black motorcycle just revved their engine at me and thank god I tore my demonic uterus out ages ago because I think that would have finally knocked me up

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God Bless people who dress wild and go out in public. I love seeing a woman in all pink with pink hair and pink nails, with a tiny dog in a pink outfit in her bag. Or a massively goth dude covered in piercings sporting a giant green mohawk. Cosplayers. SCA reenactors. Ren Faire people. There’s nothing I love more than a pair of handsome young men walking around in Revolutionary War outfits. Just please keep dressing wild and freaky. You bring color to life, and it never fails to put a big smile on my face.

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the thing with, "if I stopped showing up/posting/participating in chat/going online, would anyone notice?"

is you have to realize that the only way for you to actually know this information is to ask.

if your goal is to see if anyone is going to reach out, which is not the same as someone noticing your disappearance or being worried about you, you have to be prepared for what happens if nobody reaches out. I am very serious about this. not every friend is going to reach out, and maybe nobody will. maybe they are trying to respect your space and privacy. maybe they think you are mad at them. maybe they are super busy. maybe they were too occupied with their own life to notice. you have literally no way of knowing unless you ask.

what do you plan on doing next if nobody reaches out? because it happened to me. I disappeared for weeks. rough stuff was happening. nobody reached out. I was crushed. I felt so alone. and then I moved on and became a stronger person with a better understanding that feeling bad in silence is the absolute worst way to try to get support from people.

if you want to be reassured by your friends, you have to talk to them. if your friends do not communicate with you in the way you want, you have to talk to them. do not play the disappearing game. nobody is telepathic. nobody can read your mind and guess what you want them to do if you disappear. you have to communicate or everyone fucking loses.

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i think we should remind musicians they can absolutely make up little stories for their songs btw. it doesn’t have to be about them at all. you can invent a guy and put him in situations to music. time honoured tradition in fact.