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see yourself as luxury,

treat yourself as luxury, and position yourself as a luxury,

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Happiness Will Come To You.

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“All you are is tired, my love, you are not guilty.”

— Dacia Maraini, tr. by Tim Vode, from “Dreams of Clytemnestra,” wr. c. 1994

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It’s not illegal for men to ask for sex, yet it is illegal for women to want to be paid for the labor.

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Wtf is wrong with women

So I’m driving in my car this morning listening to the radio and there’s this segment called curve where someone calls in for help to find out why their date ghosted them. So this man called to find out why this girl ghosted him and you know what her response was??? She said he was too extra- he sent a car to pick her up and took her to an expensive restaurant and she felt that he was spending too much money on someone he barely knew.. my jaw dropped when I heard this like why do vanilla women keep their standards so low??

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Checklists.

As a full time sugar, I have a lot of things to keep in order.

So, I thought I would share my checklists with you lovely ladies if you 

A) Wanted to know what a full time sugar does 

B) Needed a reference

or 

C) Wanted direction of some kind

So enjoy.

Daily Checklist:

Shower

Leave-in hair conditioner

Lotion

Eyebrows on point

Check websites (SA, WYP, EM, SD4M)

Respond to POTs privately (private email, phone, skype)

Watch news or read up on current events

Workout (I use the 30 Day Challenge workout app for iPhones)

Update calendars (There’s one on my apple account for devices and I keep a whiteboard calendar)

Yoga

Every Other Day Checklist 

Run with Lucky (very fat dog of mine who’s getting in shape with me)

Top coat of nails

Shave/wax

Clear out trash in room and car

Record weight (only to make sure I’m within a healthy 5 lb fluctuation range)

Update POT/SD information (details about them, what they’re offering, how much I’ve gotten from them)

Weekly Checklist

Exfoliate

Tan

Record finances (where my money is going, where it’s coming from, planned expenses)

Check on goal progress

Go out with friends at least once for sanity reasons

Weekly day off for sanity reasons

Actually clean everything that needs to be cleaned

Laundry

Plan for next week

Rock climb

Monthly Checklist

Bills paid

Correct amount of money put into savings, emergency, etc.

Check closet organization

Car check up 

Read at least 2 books (1 for pleasure, 1 for knowledge)

Lunch with sisters 

All POT/SD details updated 

Hopefully this is helpful to other SB’s, feel free to add anything or change it to your personal life if you wanted a template. Most things are general, but some (rock climbing, closet organization, sister lunch, etc) are personal.

Oh, and if I left something out you think is crucial, please let me know or reblog and add it!

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“6 months from now I will be in a different situation.”

Speak it into existence.

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Last night I got called the “perfect example of the divine feminine”, and then “aggressively beautiful like a blazing fire”. The best compliments I’ve EVER heard.

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It's funny how 'suddenly' they need to go when you mention an arrangement. Like did you really think I'd just like that go get coffee with you?

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Even If.

You must believe you are a catch and hold yourself to that standard.

Even if you’re a work in progress.

Even if you still got a bit of weight to lose.

Even if your nails aren’t done.

Even if you’re still working on building your wardrobe.

Please please please. Hold yourself to a standard. Have you seen the confidence these broke ass men have?

You’re a woman.

You are special.

You are gorgeous.

You are precious.

Hold yourself as such.

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LaFerrari, 918, LaFerrari by 宗諺何

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when u catch urself thinking wistfully about dating and being in love and being c*ddled and how nice that would be

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adriana sahar ; nyfw18