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theres a popular brand in canada called no name brand and it manufactures everything you can imagine in a grocery store and it kind of makes me feel like im in a world no one bothered to do much world building for

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I’ve been thinking about this TikTok for a week

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My mom left an eviction notice for the carpenter bees burrowing into our porch

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I’ve been having many violent thoughts recently

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man is a legend

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pass it around

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Can’t wait for, like, 2025 when we look back on the 2018/2019 era and say “hey, remember when we were all really freaking depressed? That was a crazy time! Glad we aren’t like that anymore”

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Make sure you don't accidentally punish people for communicating their needs and boundaries. When someone cares enough to have the uncomfortable conversation, that's a compliment and a clear sign that they are invested in the relationship. Yes of course it's uncomfortable to hear that something you've been doing has been upsetting someone you care about when that was never your intention, but people generally only bother to have these conversations with the people they want to keep around - the people they trust to care. If they just didn't like you, they'd probably just try to avoid you. So make sure you don't make it into a more punishing experience than it has to be. Try to see the care and the trust behind the criticism, even when it triggers uncomfortable emotions. It's a good sign that they're there telling you.

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your online pets are worried about Y2K

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trans man "lesbians" are predators btw

like be so fr if a cis man said he was a lesbian you'd get mad or annoyed and pretending otherwise is stupid. you do not give a shit about trans men if you think we can be lesbians

Actually, I think cis men can be lesbians too 👍🏻

So long as they're not trolling or disrespecting people's boundaries- and they genuinely feel that they are a lesbian, what's the issue? There is literally none. As a gay man I feel the same way abt gay/achillian women. I like it when people break the gender rules actually.

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some Butch4Butch lads

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Doctors are like: ughhhhh. You're confusing. Come back if you die

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instagram: smacmccreanor

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it’s cheaper to buy vegetables here